I'm a heterosexual 24 year old male. My
whole life i've been very very very horny.
I've never had sexual problems of any
sort., until last december.
About a year ago I met a girl. I really
liked her and was very very attracted to
her. We started dating, became exclusive,
and had the best sex i've had in my life.
Everything was going great. Then one
night I lost my erection in the middle of
the action. I was able to get it back
just hard enough to finish the sex.
I've neevr been the same since that night.
This literally happened overnight. One
day I was a raging bull, masterbating all
the time and having good sex with my
partner, the next day I couldn't preform.
Well after awhile I noticed I wasn't as
interested in having sex at all likence
was. I have always loved porn, but now I
don't get very turned on by it usually.
But sometimes i'm as hard as a rock and
like it the way I used to. It went the
same with my girlfriend. Sometimes we
would have hours of insanely great sex,
sometimes I coudlnt get hard. I had
problems with my erection most of the
time;
not hard as I usually got
not hard for very long
hard, but once I was not being touched I
lost it.
Some days I see a girl in a skirt on
campus and I instantly get an erection,
other days I dont even notice women.
Everything was fine until the night I lost
my erection, not it's always in the back
of my mind. This problem has been going
on for about 9 months now. Sometimes i'm
a raging mass of sexuality, but usually
don't even think about it and i'm always
nervous when I have sex.
Is this happening because of nervousness?
Low testosterone? I don't think it's
physical ed because I am completely
capable of getting lasting and firm
erections, I just don't ever know when
they will come. I want my libido back.
I'm in tears as I write this. The girl I
met a year ago became my fiancee, she left
me three days ago for someone else, "i
didnt seem interested in her anymore".
Please help...
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 997 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 09-10-05 10:49am
There is a chance that is a combination of
some of the things that you mentioned.
Do you masturbate often? Masturbating
often, or simply ejaculating through sex
often, for that matter, can reduce the
number of erections you get throughout the
day, or when you want them for that
matter. Reducing masturbation and going
for longer periods of time without
ejaculating, 2-5 days, will often help to
increase the number and quality of the
erections that you have.
Just as a thought, are you under much
stress? A lot of stress has a tendency
to cause some of the problems that you are
refering to.
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collegeguy85
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Posts: 8
Posted: 09-10-05 11:53am
I feel you man. Kind of the same
happened to me recently. I'm just
following the advice I was given...It's
probably psychological, due to
stress/anxiety. Give it time, everything
should fall into place.
