Q: Breast Cancer Is Killing My Beloved Auntie
asked by:
lilsam2701
on September 10th, 2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
My auntie is called leigh and she is 36.
3 years ago she was diagnosed with breast
cancer. She had treatment and had her
right breast removed. 18months later she
was told she was in remission. To get
back the confidence that cancer had made
her lose she had a boob job to make
herself feel good about herself again. In
november she was told her cancer was back
but this time there was nothing that could
be done. It would spread and eventually
kill her. She was told last christmas
would almost definitely be her last.
Leigh is a strong woman and took this in
her stride. She told everyone this news
and put on a brave face. She has 3
daughters and a grandson. Her youngest
daughters are 5 year old twins leonie and
liberty and her oldest daughter is katie
aged 21. Katie has a son called harvey
who is 2. In july last year leigh's
beloved husband stevie was killed in a
house fire at her home. She'd started to
get on with life but then came the
dreadful news she was dying. I am sooo
close to my auntie leigh. When I found
out I was pregnant with my first child my
mum went mad at first so I went to live
with leigh and she supported me and made
my mum do the same. At first I was really
worried about what would happen to her
daughters. Katie could obviously look
after herself and her son but the twins
would be orphans. Katie said she would
love to bring up her sisters but she is
already a single mum and finding it tough.
I said I would love to but leigh said
because I was only 19 and a single mum of
3 she wanted me to find happiness and live
a normal life without having more of a
responsibility. My mum said she would
bring up the twins. Katie and me and my
siblings would be a huge part of there
lifes though.
It's hard knowing that my auntie may no
longer be with us in the next
hour,day,month. It's the not knowing that
makes it harder.
Leigh is strong and since she was told she
was dying she has set herselfs little
goals and they help her carry on e.G
seeing her childrens birthdays etc
i will miss leigh so much and she knows
and i'd like to tell you cancer can hit
anyone but she will always be remembered
as a really special person in my life
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