25 Weeks Now But Have a Big Problem :( Posted: 09-11-05 23:04pm
Hi there i'm new and I need your help.
My lmp was 27th march and i'm due 31st
dec. Hubby and I had been trying for bub
#4 anyway so was happy when we found out.
But on the 6th or 7th of april I had sex
with a man who had a vacestomy over 11mths
ago. His wife has not fallen preggies
since he had the chop, is there any chance
this baby could be his??? I'm worried
sick and no way can I tell hubby :(
please help me I need someone to talk to.
:cry:
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kismit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Aug 2005 Posts: 114 Location: tx
Posted: 09-12-05 00:11am
Wow. I really wish I had some comforting
words of advice but unfortunately I don't
really know what to say. I do how ever
think that you should try really hard to
think of the possibilities and try to
figure it out. Again I wish I had better
advice to help you. Let us know how it
goes.
Take care.
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Shazzy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2005 Posts: 29 Location: Australia
Posted: 09-12-05 00:44am
Hey thankx alot :) it's just driving me
crazy. I keep telling myself that if my
peroid started on the 27th and finished on
the 1st, the chances of the baby being the
other guys is really low, I mean that's
only 6-7 days after my period finished and
I thought that you are most fertile about
14 before the next period is due. And
then the vacestomy thing well, I was kinda
hoping with all of the above that the
chances are in my favour :(
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kismit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Aug 2005 Posts: 114 Location: tx
Posted: 09-12-05 00:58am
Ill keep you in my prayers and wish for
the best for you. Think positive and
don't let it stress you too much. The
stress does neither you nor the baby any
good. Again keep us updated.
Rub your tummy and thank god for the
blessing of life no matter what. :)
Re: 25 Weeks Now But Have a Big Problem :( Posted: 09-14-05 14:32pm
shazzy
wrote:
hi there i'm new and I need
your help. My lmp was 27th march and
i'm due 31st dec. Hubby and I had been
trying for bub #4 anyway so was happy when
we found out. But on the 6th or 7th of
april I had sex with a man who had a
vacestomy over 11mths ago. His wife has
not fallen preggies since he had the chop,
is there any chance this baby could be
his??? I'm worried sick and no way can
I tell hubby :( please help me I need
someone to talk to.
:cry:
i know exactly how you feel... It's
driving you crazy, huh? Yeah, im in the
same situation just like you. My bf and I
had been trying for 3 - 4 months and no
luck. Finally, I did fall preg. My lmp
was feb. 25. I cheated on my bf for the
first time in the middle of march and
found out I was preg. In april. I am now
7 months and I still wake up worrying.
And if it is the other's guys, there's no
way I can hide it because he is a
different race and the baby will
definately show it!
But!!!! I have good news for you.....
I really doubt that it's the other guy's.
And i'm not just saying that. Not only is
that man incapable of producing sperm, but
also, you were not ovulating during the
time you has sex w/ him! You said your
lmp was the 27th of march, right? Well,
usually, if you've had normal periods, a
woman ovulates about 14 days after their
lmp. So my advice, don't sweat it.
Believe me, it will eat you up inside!
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Happiness03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 333
Re: 25 Weeks Now But Have a Big Problem :( Posted: 09-25-05 16:25pm
shazzy
wrote:
hi there i'm new and I need
your help. My lmp was 27th march and
i'm due 31st dec. Hubby and I had been
trying for bub #4 anyway so was happy when
we found out. But on the 6th or 7th of
april I had sex with a man who had a
vacestomy over 11mths ago. His wife has
not fallen preggies since he had the chop,
is there any chance this baby could be
his??? I'm worried sick and no way can
I tell hubby :( please help me I need
someone to talk to.
:cry:
by calculation, you would have conceived
around march 22nd or so. I think it is
your husband's. I just don't see how it
could be the other man's.
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