My boyfriend has this problem as well..
But the thing is, he can masterbate in one
day, like 2 times alone, then we'll be
together and have sex for hours, and he
cums like another 5 times, and then
afterwards while im sleeping, its like he
needs to do it again.. He also loves to
look at porn and stuff like that.. Which
I dont mind much.. I figure, if this is
the way his body is, then fulfill your
need, as you need to. Its not like he
takes up all his energy and has none left
for me... Thats for sure.. But im afraid
as he gets older, its gonna like, fall off
or something.. Also, I have a question..
From doing this so often, can one become
sterile?, cause I notice the change in
consistency of the cum after the first
couple of ejaculations..And we've been
trying to have a baby, with no success...
But by all means, i'm not complaining at
all about my sex life..But it does worry
me a little bit.. I would hate to think
of it as him being selfish.. But sounds
right to me..
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Assena
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 328 Location: Georgia
Posted: 09-13-05 15:22pm
If you are ttc then it is best to only
have him ejaculate every other day...
Other wise the quality and quantity of
sperm diminishes with each ejaculation.
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dpurifi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 5 Location: New Jersey
Posted: 09-13-05 15:29pm
Sorry, what is ttc?
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Assena
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 328 Location: Georgia
Posted: 09-13-05 15:32pm
Trying to concieve
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dpurifi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 5 Location: New Jersey
Posted: 09-13-05 15:34pm
Thanks so much....
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cd998776
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Posted: 09-13-05 23:56pm
Assena is correct...
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ProZackMI
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Aug 2005 Posts: 64
Re: Over Masturbating Posted: 09-14-05 08:59am
dpurifi
wrote:
my boyfriend has this
problem as well.. But the thing is, he
can masterbate in one day, like 2 times
alone, then we'll be together and have sex
for hours, and he cums like another 5
times, and then afterwards while im
sleeping, its like he needs to do it
again.. He also loves to look at porn
and stuff like that.. Which I dont mind
much.. I figure, if this is the way his
body is, then fulfill your need, as you
need to. Its not like he takes up all
his energy and has none left for me...
Thats for sure.. But im afraid as he
gets older, its gonna like, fall off or
something.. Also, I have a question..
From doing this so often, can one become
sterile?, cause I notice the change in
consistency of the cum after the first
couple of ejaculations..And we've been
trying to have a baby, with no success...
But by all means, i'm not complaining at
all about my sex life..But it does worry
me a little bit.. I would hate to think
of it as him being selfish.. But sounds
right to me..
if he's horny, why don't you satisfy him
more? What's the point of you being his
girlfriend if you can't help him out? If
he's horny, let him masturbate; it's his
body. If he's had enough, his body will
tell him. If he's young, his body is
making a lot of semen and it needs to go
somewhere, so masturbation is a natural
and healthy outlet for him.
His penis won't fall off when he gets
older. If he's masturbating in front of
you, the least you could do is offer a
hand. It sounds like to me his only
problem is a useless girlfriend.