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jazziki
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I Think I'm Ready
Posted: 09-13-05 16:38pm
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I feel as if i'm amture enough to handle
having sex just once to get my virginty
taken away could my mom tell if I had sex
or not just by me having sex once.
:roll:
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auboy7979
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Posted: 09-13-05 16:51pm
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No, she wont be able to tell.
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cinderella
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No
Posted: 09-13-05 19:28pm
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She wouldn't be able to tell, unless u get
pregnant
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-13-05 23:09pm
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How old are you? I might sound like an
old fogey on this, but I don't think you
should be having sex if:
a. You're not in love with the person
and
b. You're under the age of 18.
You should at least be in love with the
dude; just don't have random sex! I'm not
saying you will, but you didn't provide a
lot of information...
But nah, your mom won't be able to tell...
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Glamorgirli
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Posted: 09-13-05 23:20pm
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You will probably be a bit health forum or
acting a bit wierd after, but she wont be
able to tell by the way you look. Just
act calm, cool and collected, dont make a
big deal out of it.
Please make sure you do it with the right
person!! I dont want to see you dumped
and hurt! Have a upper hand on the guy.
Trust me I was so stupid, many times with
guys. I was used, left, and hurt. I
don't want you to feel like I did. It can
be tough to deal with, but it made me
smarter and stronger!
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Tigress
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Location: Missouri
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You Might Thik You Are Ready
Posted: 09-14-05 00:08am
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I know I don't know you, but I definitely
think you should wait. I am lucky to
have married the man I lost my virginity
with. Do you know that medically
speaking when you have sex with someone,
you are also having sex with every other
person they have been with. If you just
want to lose your virginity than wait!!!
There is no hurry to maybe get pregnant or
to get one or more std's. Your mom loves
you and does not want you to get hurt
emotionally or physically. If you think
the first time is going to be like the
movies, its not. I hurt like crazy.
Slow down. It will happen. When a guy
really loves you, he won't expect it.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-14-05 19:00pm
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Well, I didn't have any pain my first
time, but my bf is very gentle.
Still, make sure you're having sex witht
he guy who is right for you, and not just
a sex-buddy!
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TysonH
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Posted: 09-14-05 23:36pm
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Ok..What's this about when u have sex with
ur g/f...Ur having sex with everyone else
they did it with too!?!?...Right now i'm
having a tough enough time getting over
the fact my g/f has had sex with 3 other
guys...It's really tough for me to get
that image out of my head...But that
comment didn't help either... Is
this true or what!?!?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-15-05 10:54am
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It is in the sole sense that you may
contract any std's that she has gotten
from those guys.
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vanessalouanne
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Re: I Think I'm Ready
Posted: 09-15-05 11:20am
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| jazziki
wrote: | | i feel as if i'm amture
enough to handle having sex just once to
get my virginty taken away could my mom
tell if I had sex or not just by me having
sex once.
:roll: |
i was lucky enough to wait until I found
the man I married and let me tell you sex
was so much more special because of it.
It meant a lot to him that I saved myself
for him. It was very much so worth the
wait.
But if you do feel your mature enough to
have sex, then why not tell your mom.
Give her valid reasons and present your
argument to her in an intelligent way.
Tell her it is your body, and so on. Let
her know that you would like she support.
Good luck, but think it through
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TysonH
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Posted: 09-15-05 11:40am
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Ok, so what if she doesn't have
std's?..It's not the same is it!?.,,i am
just bothered by this cuz I haven't had
sex with my g/f..Or with neone..And she
has before.. It's hard for me to deal
with. I would have loved for her to save
herself, but she went through some rough
times. However, she keeps telling me in
her mind she feels she is still a
virgin..And with me it would be makin
love..Not sex..
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-15-05 22:54pm
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The whole "it's like sleeping with
everyone they've slept with" is like a
metaphor, trying to get people to think
twice about having un-protected sex. The
point isn't really "you're having sex with
all the men she's had sex with!" it's more
a phrase to get you use your head and use
protection: ie a condom!
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KimX
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to Jazziki:
Posted: 09-17-05 00:45am
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Don't be in a hurry. Losing virginity is
ones in a lifetime. Be sure that when you
give it you will not regret what you've
done.
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SomeGuy333
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Posted: 09-17-05 10:01am
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Its not metaphor, you are literally
passing on with everyone you have sex with
things that might be in your system.
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Miss_KellieAnne
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Posted: 09-17-05 10:05am
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Meh if you feel like doing it, do it
just use protection if you dont wanna
catch crabs lol
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DayLynn
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Location: reelsville, indiana
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Re: I Think I'm Ready
Posted: 09-17-05 17:46pm
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| jazziki
wrote: | | i feel as if i'm amture
enough to handle having sex just once to
get my virginty taken away could my mom
tell if I had sex or not just by me having
sex once.
:roll: |
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Kittykatus
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Posted: 10-12-05 05:40am
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Don't just have sex though, because
everyone else is. You sound like your
ready which is good. But only do what you
want to do. You are you own individual
self, if anyone tries to change your mind
on something, stop them. And like kimx
said, your virginity is a once in a
lifetime thing. It's something special to
share with someone you love. Don't do it
and then regret it; wait till both your
heart and head say 'yes'.
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Lilypad
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Posted: 10-17-05 03:41am
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Dont just have sex just to get it over
with! Your virginity is special save it
for someone special.
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