Is there something wrong with you or the baby that you have to abort?

I would go post this in the abortion forum as most people here are pregnant or trying to be and I don;t think would give you answers on how to abort a 6 month fetus. Unless there is something wrong I think it's horrible to want to abort this late into your pregnancy.

I agree look I don't know your cercomstancis so I agree you need to post eles wear

hi jhun11,

aborting a baby at 6 months is very dangerous for the mother. Why would you wanna kill the baby who is now swimming in ur belly?

Maybe u wanna talk about it. There are many women out there trying for a baby in vain and here u r wanting to end the baby's life?

Please talk it out or visit ur doc for advice or perhaps see a counsellor and talk about ur problems...

Pls dun take any harsh decisions when u r angry or stressed out.

I agree trying to abort at 6 months is very dangerous for a mother. If you don't want the child just stick out the rest of the prego and give it away. And there is plenty of ppl to talk to hun. Please don't make any rash decisions. Most of the worse of the pregency is behind you now. If your scared or confused thers plenty of ppl here that will be willing to help you with your nerves and stress and everything to help you. But really the best thing would be to find some counceling and give the baby up after its born. Best of luck to you and understandable if your scared or confused... Everyone is scared their first pregancey I was.. I bet if you ask everyone on here they would tell you the same. Please find some help and talk to us. Don't try to abort, you could risk death for you also.

Did you know that if the baby was born today it would live? It is a baby now. I am pro-choice but this is crazy to me. It is ver diffrent to abort a fetuse then to abort a baby. Have you looked into what they do to the baby when you abort at this stage? It is nothing nice for the baby and it dose hurt them... Please rethink, I am sorry that you feel alone and scarred, you can talk to me if you want. You are blessed with a child, and need to see that. Is it money or something like that that has you thinking this way? How old are you?

I am praying for the baby and you.

It is always a baby from second one> I am pregnant in my abdomen and believe me he has been since the very first day. He swims now, he flops over and he kicks--i am 11.5 weeks preg and I feel all this movement for awhile now, with my miracle baby.

Please let us understand what is the problem you are having so we may offer some words of encouragement. I am sorry you are feeling this way. Please talk to someone.

Joanna

are you facing a serious medical problem? Have you been advised to consider obtaining an abortion this late from your ob/gyn? Is there a developmental or genetic problem with the fetus?

If you are in the us, you cannot abort a pregnancy that has progressed to the 6th month unless your health or life are threatened by continuing the pregnancy. If your health and/or life is being threatened, you may have to travel to obtain an abortion. Your ob/gyn should have listings for the few doctors who consent to perform later abortions and if you have health insurance, they should cover the cost of a termination performed to save your life. If you are having problems coping with the pregnancy psychologically, you really need to see a psychologist. Your county should have a mental health board that can help you get care if you don't have the money. It is very important for you to be mentally and physically healthy at this time in your life.

Please pm me if you need anything.
Peace,
jenn

[quote="sadmommy"] it is ver diffrent to abort a fetuse then to abort a baby. [quote=sadmommy"]

i don't agree with that statement at all! It is a baby, human being, from the time of conception.

That is right--heart beats at 18 days past conception

I am pro choice because every situation is diffrent. I would never personally kill my baby. Medically, I am speaching about the difference between a fetus and a baby. The heart of a fetus does not start to develop until a few weeks after conception, they have no brain until a while after that. I am only asking her to look at the full picture, medically. At 6 months along it is a baby. Heart, lungs, brain, feet, toes everything is developed or almost developed. Morally it is not my job to tell someone what is write and what is wrong. Yes, I feel sad for the babies that have mothers who choose to take this option. I really don't know what to say, I was just trying to get her to look at it from a medical point of view if a loving point of view was not working.

I agree with you. I am also pro- choice but in this situation sorry I am almost ready to have my baby and there is no way in hell that I would kill it. I would risk my own life just to save hers. Call me crazy but I wanted this baby more than anything in the world so there is no way that I am giving her up without some kind of fight. She might feel diferntley about it.

Also I have noticed she has not replayed to any of us. What did you decide to do? I have been praying for you. I understand that medical reasons you might have had to chose this option but really you should have went more in depth here because all of us are pregnant and so you might not get the help you need.

Ok, so this whole abortion issuse has stressed me out. I have just had a miscarige/d&c almost one month ago. I came on this site to talk to people who understood and could talk to me about it. I was just going through the different questions and stumble on this one, next time I will not respond unless I am strong enough to handle the back-lash. I also am ok with admitting I am wrong. If the heart of a fetus beats 18 days after conception sorry, I was told something else. I also want to say that when I was speaking of being prochoice, I was speaking of medical issuses, children being abused exc...........

My heart goes out to anyone who has lost a child and I was trying (in my own retarded way) to get her to see she is lucky to be having a baby.

Have a nice day and I will stick to what I know next time! :lol:

I understand completly. I didnt catch what I just said I agreed with untill I re read it. Sorry I am not prochoice. No you can hear the heart beat at 10 weeks well that is when we heard ours. There is no way in hell that I agree with killing a baby sorry there is always another choice. Sorry I thought that I was agreeing that it was wrong.

I have also miscarried and I was only 17 and I didnt care what my situation was I was going to have that baby and make it have the best life that I could give it. I was going to give it up for adoption. But never did I once think of killing it.

Sorry if I affended anyone but this is my choice

i dint feel back lash just trying to help the ones who say its not a baby until.... Well, I dont know when. But I believe it is a baby from second one!! I believe god has imparted to it a soul and I believe it feels long be4 they say it does. Hey they tried to tell me my new borns dint feel. I know my 10 day old baby felt them wack off his foreskin, and my daughter came out with her bones in her head overlapping, and I also know she felt that. She hated me trying to put that cotton cap on her head and cried so I stopped it.

I was awaiting this baby I now carry for 18 years and I am preg without a uterus. I can feel everything, his(or mine) blood flowing thru the sac, I feel his heartbeat with my hand, I am only 12.1 days pregnant. When I was like 4 weeks pregnant. I was feeling him right by my left ovary--i bent a certain way- and I felt like a tiny tiny knife stab in that area, I think he felt me and I felt him. Then about 2 or 3 weeks later I got up to go to the pot, when I sit down it like puts a pressure on the right and left abdomen cuz my belly hangs on my legs. I felt another large stab and I felt him jerk outta the way. I know he felt that one, and I was only 7 or 8 weeks pregnnt. That was the first time I felt him move.

I dint need this pregnancy to teach me that from the very first moment it is a baby, but it has confirmed to me more--just how much it is a baby, fetus, embryo, it is still a life and is alive from the very beginning. Not getting onto anyone at all.

Everything is ok with you and the baby so far? I didn't know you could carry a baby without a uterus. I am learning all of this. I hope everything is good for you and the baby through out your pregnancy. :-)

Thank you so much . Yes, it is good. Baby moving all the time. I love it. Never got to feel my babe's so young. I can feel everything.

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Welcome back jenn smithson!

Jhun11, I am pro-cnoice and it is between you and your Dr. If you should or should not abort, especially if their is a medical problem. I realize that things are done differently in the phillipines as I have been there and that is where my cousin-in-law is from and I am not here to judge, you need to do what is right.

Sadmommy, I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage!!!! I understand what you are going thru, I too have miscarried and it is very difficult and I am not here to back-lash you. This is why I am pro-choice I agree that every situation is different.

Thank you for the good wishes!

I am alittle sensitive to everything right now, that is what I mean by back-lash. Normally I could handle a discution but lately I get stressed out for any little thing. I am getting tired of it myself.

I was told to wait 3 month before trying to get pregnant and I am getting impatient. I was telling my husband yesterday, why don't we start trying now because it could take us awhile. But, what if I get prenant right away and my body is not strong enough? Crazy...........
I just started a period I think yesterday for the first time after the d&c. So I have'nt even ovulated yet I don't think. This whole thing is crazy to me. Sad and crazy............. :roll:

but on a better note, I am getting emotionally stronger everyday! I have a 12 year old that keeps be busy with sports! :lol: