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jhun11
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Abortion
Posted: 09-13-05 23:57pm
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How to abort 6 months pregnancy?
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 09-14-05 06:14am
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Is there something wrong with you or the
baby that you have to abort?
I would go post this in the abortion forum
as most people here are pregnant or trying
to be and I don;t think would give you
answers on how to abort a 6 month fetus.
Unless there is something wrong I think
it's horrible to want to abort this late
into your pregnancy.
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angel6932
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Post Eles Wear
Posted: 09-14-05 06:23am
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I agree look I don't know your
cercomstancis so I agree you need to post
eles wear
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lovablepetsworld
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Re: Abortion
Posted: 09-14-05 07:53am
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| jhun11
wrote: | | how to abort 6 months
pregnancy? |
hi jhun11,
aborting a baby at 6 months is very
dangerous for the mother. Why would you
wanna kill the baby who is now swimming in
ur belly?
Maybe u wanna talk about it. There are
many women out there trying for a baby in
vain and here u r wanting to end the
baby's life?
Please talk it out or visit ur doc for
advice or perhaps see a counsellor and
talk about ur problems...
Pls dun take any harsh decisions when u r
angry or stressed out.
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GinACod
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Posted: 09-14-05 09:10am
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I agree trying to abort at 6 months is
very dangerous for a mother. If you
don't want the child just stick out the
rest of the prego and give it away. And
there is plenty of ppl to talk to hun.
Please don't make any rash decisions.
Most of the worse of the pregency is
behind you now. If your scared or
confused thers plenty of ppl here that
will be willing to help you with your
nerves and stress and everything to help
you. But really the best thing would be
to find some counceling and give the baby
up after its born. Best of luck to you
and understandable if your scared or
confused... Everyone is scared their
first pregancey I was.. I bet if you ask
everyone on here they would tell you the
same. Please find some help and talk to
us. Don't try to abort, you could risk
death for you also.
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SadMommy
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Confused?
Posted: 09-16-05 14:30pm
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Did you know that if the baby was born
today it would live? It is a baby now. I
am pro-choice but this is crazy to me. It
is ver diffrent to abort a fetuse then to
abort a baby. Have you looked into what
they do to the baby when you abort at this
stage? It is nothing nice for the baby
and it dose hurt them... Please rethink,
I am sorry that you feel alone and
scarred, you can talk to me if you want.
You are blessed with a child, and need to
see that. Is it money or something like
that that has you thinking this way? How
old are you?
I am praying for the baby and you.
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 09-16-05 23:16pm
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It is always a baby from second one>
I am pregnant in my abdomen and believe me
he has been since the very first day. He
swims now, he flops over and he kicks--i
am 11.5 weeks preg and I feel all this
movement for awhile now, with my miracle
baby.
Please let us understand what is the
problem you are having so we may offer
some words of encouragement. I am sorry
you are feeling this way. Please talk to
someone.
Joanna
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jenn_smithson
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Re: Abortion
Posted: 09-19-05 11:39am
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| jhun11
wrote: | | how to abort 6 months
pregnancy? |
If you are in the us, you cannot abort a
pregnancy that has progressed to the 6th
month unless your health or life are
threatened by continuing the pregnancy.
If your health and/or life is being
threatened, you may have to travel to
obtain an abortion. Your ob/gyn should
have listings for the few doctors who
consent to perform later abortions and if
you have health insurance, they should
cover the cost of a termination performed
to save your life. If you are having
problems coping with the pregnancy
psychologically, you really need to see a
psychologist. Your county should have a
mental health board that can help you get
care if you don't have the money. It is
very important for you to be mentally
and physically healthy at
this time in your life.
Please pm me if you need anything.
Peace,
jenn
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Pooh-Bear-2000
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Re: Confused?
Posted: 09-19-05 12:46pm
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[quote="sadmommy"] it is ver diffrent to
abort a fetuse then to abort a baby.
[quote=sadmommy"]
i don't agree with that statement at all!
It is a baby, human being, from the time
of conception.
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 09-19-05 13:24pm
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That is right--heart beats at 18 days past
conception
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SadMommy
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Agree Or Not..........
Posted: 09-19-05 13:30pm
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I am pro choice because every situation is
diffrent. I would never personally kill
my baby. Medically, I am speaching about
the difference between a fetus and a baby.
The heart of a fetus does not start to
develop until a few weeks after
conception, they have no brain until a
while after that. I am only asking her to
look at the full picture, medically. At 6
months along it is a baby. Heart, lungs,
brain, feet, toes everything is developed
or almost developed. Morally it is not my
job to tell someone what is write and what
is wrong. Yes, I feel sad for the babies
that have mothers who choose to take this
option. I really don't know what to say,
I was just trying to get her to look at it
from a medical point of view if a loving
point of view was not working.
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angel6932
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Posted: 09-19-05 13:59pm
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I agree with you. I am also pro- choice
but in this situation sorry I am almost
ready to have my baby and there is no way
in hell that I would kill it. I would
risk my own life just to save hers. Call
me crazy but I wanted this baby more than
anything in the world so there is no way
that I am giving her up without some kind
of fight. She might feel diferntley about
it.
Also I have noticed she has not
replayed to any of us. What did you
decide to do? I have been praying for
you. I understand that medical reasons
you might have had to chose this option
but really you should have went more in
depth here because all of us are pregnant
and so you might not get the help you
need.
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SadMommy
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Confused?
Posted: 09-19-05 14:00pm
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Ok, so this whole abortion issuse has
stressed me out. I have just had a
miscarige/d&c almost one month ago. I
came on this site to talk to people who
understood and could talk to me about it.
I was just going through the different
questions and stumble on this one, next
time I will not respond unless I am strong
enough to handle the back-lash. I also am
ok with admitting I am wrong. If the
heart of a fetus beats 18 days after
conception sorry, I was told something
else. I also want to say that when I was
speaking of being prochoice, I was
speaking of medical issuses, children
being abused exc...........
My heart goes out to anyone who has lost a
child and I was trying (in my own retarded
way) to get her to see she is lucky to be
having a baby.
Have a nice day and I will stick to what I
know next time! :lol:
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angel6932
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Posted: 09-19-05 14:12pm
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I understand completly. I didnt catch
what I just said I agreed with untill I re
read it. Sorry I am not prochoice. No
you can hear the heart beat at 10 weeks
well that is when we heard ours. There is
no way in hell that I agree with killing a
baby sorry there is always another choice.
Sorry I thought that I was agreeing that
it was wrong.
I have also miscarried and I was only 17
and I didnt care what my situation was I
was going to have that baby and make it
have the best life that I could give it.
I was going to give it up for adoption.
But never did I once think of killing it.
Sorry if I affended anyone but this is my
choice
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fatfamily02
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Re: Confused?
Posted: 09-19-05 14:22pm
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| sadmommy
wrote: | ok, so this whole abortion
issuse has stressed me out. I have just
had a miscarige/d&c almost one month
ago. I came on this site to talk to
people who understood and could talk to me
about it. I was just going through the
different questions and stumble on this
one, next time I will not respond unless I
am strong enough to handle the back-lash.
I also am ok with admitting I am wrong.
If the heart of a fetus beats 18 days
after conception sorry, I was told
something else. I also want to say that
when I was speaking of being prochoice, I
was speaking of medical issuses, children
being abused exc...........
My heart goes out to anyone who has lost a
child and I was trying (in my own retarded
way) to get her to see she is lucky to be
having a baby.
Have a nice day and I will stick to what I
know next time!
:lol: |
i dint feel back lash just trying to help
the ones who say its not a baby until....
Well, I dont know when. But I believe
it is a baby from second one!! I believe
god has imparted to it a soul and I
believe it feels long be4 they say it
does. Hey they tried to tell me my new
borns dint feel. I know my 10 day old
baby felt them wack off his foreskin, and
my daughter came out with her bones in her
head overlapping, and I also know she felt
that. She hated me trying to put that
cotton cap on her head and cried so I
stopped it.
I was awaiting this baby I now carry for
18 years and I am preg without a uterus.
I can feel everything, his(or mine) blood
flowing thru the sac, I feel his heartbeat
with my hand, I am only 12.1 days
pregnant. When I was like 4 weeks
pregnant. I was feeling him right by my
left ovary--i bent a certain way- and I
felt like a tiny tiny knife stab in that
area, I think he felt me and I felt him.
Then about 2 or 3 weeks later I got up to
go to the pot, when I sit down it like
puts a pressure on the right and left
abdomen cuz my belly hangs on my legs. I
felt another large stab and I felt him
jerk outta the way. I know he felt that
one, and I was only 7 or 8 weeks pregnnt.
That was the first time I felt him
move.
I dint need this pregnancy to teach me
that from the very first moment it is a
baby, but it has confirmed to me
more--just how much it is a baby, fetus,
embryo, it is still a life and is alive
from the very beginning. Not getting
onto anyone at all.
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SadMommy
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Fatfamily02
Posted: 09-19-05 14:43pm
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Everything is ok with you and the baby so
far? I didn't know you could carry a baby
without a uterus. I am learning all of
this. I hope everything is good for you
and the baby through out your pregnancy.
:-)
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 09-19-05 16:03pm
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Thank you so much . Yes, it is good.
Baby moving all the time. I love it.
Never got to feel my babe's so young. I
can feel everything.
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jenn_smithson
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Re: Confused?
Posted: 09-20-05 13:34pm
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| fatfamily02
wrote: | | i was awaiting this baby I
now carry for 18 years and I am preg without a
uterus. |
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sandyallen
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Posted: 09-20-05 14:32pm
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Welcome back jenn smithson!
Jhun11, I am pro-cnoice and it is between
you and your Dr. If you should or should
not abort, especially if their is a
medical problem. I realize that things
are done differently in the phillipines as
I have been there and that is where my
cousin-in-law is from and I am not here to
judge, you need to do what is right.
Sadmommy, I am so sorry to hear about your
miscarriage!!!! I understand what you
are going thru, I too have miscarried and
it is very difficult and I am not here to
back-lash you. This is why I am
pro-choice I agree that every situation is
different.
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SadMommy
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Thank You Sandyallen
Posted: 09-22-05 15:01pm
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Thank you for the good wishes!
I am alittle sensitive to everything
right now, that is what I mean by
back-lash. Normally I could handle a
discution but lately I get stressed out
for any little thing. I am getting tired
of it myself.
I was told to wait 3 month before trying
to get pregnant and I am getting
impatient. I was telling my husband
yesterday, why don't we start trying now
because it could take us awhile. But,
what if I get prenant right away and my
body is not strong enough?
Crazy...........
I just started a period I think yesterday
for the first time after the d&c. So
I have'nt even ovulated yet I don't think.
This whole thing is crazy to me. Sad and
crazy............. :roll:
but on a better note, I am getting
emotionally stronger everyday! I have a
12 year old that keeps be busy with
sports! :lol:
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