I Am a Total Nerd!!! Appt Tomarrow!! Posted: 09-14-05 09:29am
My Dr. Called me last night because they
have a cancellation for tomarrow. I went
in a few weeks ago and they told me that
there was no way I was prego. So I go in
tomarrow just to find out how far I am and
to make sure everything is okay. I am so
excited!!! Where you guys excited? I am
a little scared about the whole labor
thing but I have another 7-8 months to
talk myself into it. It does not feel
real yet. I know that I am prego but it
is just starting to sink in. Did you guys
feel this way? When did it hit?
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 09-14-05 09:43am
The first time yes I felt that way too.
Everyones a bit scared but its worth it in
the end. You forget everything you went
though the pregnancy, the labor and
delivery once you have that baby in your
arms....
The second that test came up positive I
was excited and scared. Then came that
feeling of complete questions... Am I
ready? Am I going to beable to take care
of it? It all, really works out in the
end. After the questions and during you
feel sick also so you might want to get a
book and read while sitting at the toilet.
Also drink lots of water and eat your
allowed to gorge now hehe.. Your eating
for 2 congratulations!!!!!!
Don't worry all the wondering is gone now
comes the hard part... First
triemesster!!!
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Sammy001
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Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 711 Location: ,
Posted: 09-14-05 10:03am
I felt that way too, until I got about 6
months pregnant. I was lying in bed one
night, and it hit me like a ton of bricks.
I remember saying, " oh my god, I am
going to have a baby in 3 months".....It
just sunk in.
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Pocket Angel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 241 Location: Thiells, New York
Posted: 09-14-05 10:13am
Yep, I felt the same way!
When I first found out, I was only a
little over 4 weeks! I was very excited
and nervous. I found out at the end
july, but my insurance didn't kick in
until september 1st! So I had to wait
forever for my first appointment. I
wanted to buy baby stuff, I wanted to
pitch a tent in toys r us, I couldn't stop
thinking of names!
Then I would get weird thoughts, like,
what if there really isn't a baby in
there? What if I lost the baby and I
didn't know it? Keep in mind I didn't
bleed at all haha. Other than some
light cramping, I didn't feel any
different!.
Then around the 6 week mark, the middle of
august, I started getting sick. I also
started to show a little. I still
didn't really feel pregnant, but then I
realized that the only thing I could blame
it on was the baby haha. My whole
mentality changed, I didn't want to think
about baby stuff at all. Didn't even
want to think about baby names, didn't
even want to think about what I had to
buy. I guess I was kind of resenting
the baby for making me so sick haha.
The bad sickness lasted about 4 weeks, it
started getting better when I hit 10
weeks.
I had my first doc appointment when I was
9 weeks. The doctor was not helpful at
all. She told me everything I already
knew! So just don't get your hopes
up... I thought I was getting a due date
and more specifics... Nope! I thought
they would give me a sonogram... Nope!
I walked out of there knowing just as
much as I did when I went in.
I had them schedule a sonogram for 10
weeks... I went in and that was amazing.
Couldn't tell what sex it is just yet,
but I saw its hands and its heart
beating... When she let me hear the
heart beat, tears started running down my
face. It is the most amazing thing you
will ever experience... Hearing your
babies heart beat for the first time!
They confirmed that my due date was april
6th.
Now here I am at 11 weeks... Still get
waves of sickness sometimes during the
day, but I feel pretty good. Being
tired all the time is what kills me!
But now I am back to thinking about baby
names and baby stuff, and being happy
instead of miserable.
I guess the point of my post is, your
emotions and feelings will change alot
during the next few weeks. It is true,
you are going to feel like your on a
rollercoaster! But the first trimester
is usually the hardest. In my opinion,
if I could make it through the first
trimester, I can make it through labor
haha. I am still a little scared of
labor, but then I think about how many
women have done it... What makes me any
different?
Good luck with your appointment!
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 09-14-05 10:31am
Labor isn't really all ppl crack it up to
be. Yes it hurts like nothing you ever
felt before but really you do forget about
the pain after you have him/her in your
arms. If you didn't do you think ppl
would have more then one?
Anyway your going to have a real
rollercoster ride with your emotions for
the next 9-12 months while prego and even
after. Alot of things change while your
pregnant. And alot of things change
after you welcome the baby home. Trust
me. I use to be a huge out door person
and really big on going places all the
time now I just want to sit at the cp and
play or talk. Though gratned yes I take
kids to park and out to play and
everything else but I mostly enjoy time
indoors. Thats just me. Plus you find
your alot more patinet then you use to be.
Its like your house was made of bricks
and now its glass... Then it turns into
very heavy see though plastic for a while
then it gets darker and darker til others
can't see in except in places. That
would be a good way to talk about how
others see your emotions and what not.
Grr talking about kids my 2 year old is
getting into something again... She just
dumped half my spices out on to the
counter and now well.... Grrrr gl...
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 09-14-05 10:33am
Jelly beans all over... Well looks like
its lunch and nap time.... Naps god I
miss them..... You'll sleep alot now
too... Get alot cause it doesn't last
after they get older....
( 4 kids, 6,5,2, 10 weeks)
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 09-14-05 12:06pm
ginacod
wrote:
jelly beans all over...
Well looks like its lunch and nap time....
Naps god I miss them..... You'll
sleep alot now too... Get alot cause it
doesn't last after they get older....
( 4 kids, 6,5,2, 10
weeks)
holy cow! How do u do it? I have
enough with just my 3 month old!
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 09-14-05 12:27pm
Patence alot of patence... Yes I have my
days I wish I could just run away but
there really enjoyable.. Like nap time
hehe its a break for me and lets me
relax.. Plus i'm a stay at home mom so I
really can do alot. But other then the
load of laundry, sweeping, vacuuming,
mopping, and contently cleaning up after
them... Its well worth it. I'm just
really tired of watching pooh bear 24/7
(hempalump or however its spelled). But
that gives me an hour of peace too. Too
bad my older ones don't settle down like
that but hey thats whats schools for
right? Its great really, their very
well behavied most of the time. Just
keep at the rules.. Enfoce them everytime
and you won't have many problems.. I
think after the first it gets easier, but
then again my 6 year old trys to take over
on the mothering... Its cute and funny
but really annoying... Right now my 5
year old is a angel does everythingsd shes
told and shes the one that gets spoild the
most (i don't reward the bad behavior only
the good)...