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kazzajean

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Who the Daddy???
Posted: 09-14-05 14:48pm

Ok so im 25 weeks pregnant and have a big problem.
I started my period on the 16th of march and it lasted normal 5 days or so. On the 29th of march I had sez with a guy I met at a bar.
But on the 4th and 8th of april I had sex with my thenn partner. I cant really tell when my ovalation was. Can anyone help I have told my x that it is his but to tell you the truth I dont really know who it is. Im scared that my x will know it is not his once it iss born.
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GinACod

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Posted: 09-14-05 14:51pm

Hate to say it but it could be either one if you had unprotective sex with both.
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kazzajean

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Posted: 09-14-05 14:53pm

[so there is no way of telling. I did all the calculator things on the net and they say I prob concieved on the 2 - 4 th of april.
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GinACod

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Posted: 09-14-05 15:27pm

Well thats not 100 % accruate but sperm live up to 3 days so it could be the fling you had at the bar. The only way you can know for sure is a blood test ( the babys).
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kazzajean

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Posted: 09-14-05 15:54pm

My ex dosent know about fling and thinks this is his without question but I am afraid that there willbe something wrong with the baby and then he will find out. Other than that I am willing to say nothing
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angel6932

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Posted: 09-14-05 17:18pm

Trust me I would tell him. I mean your hubby that is something he should know. Long time down the road you dont want that to just come up you know. Seriously I would tell him its best he knows now.
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kikagonzalez69

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Re: Who the Daddy???
Posted: 09-14-05 17:19pm

kazzajean wrote:
ok so im 25 weeks pregnant and have a big problem.

I started my period on the 16th of march and it lasted normal 5 days or so. On the 29th of march I had sez with a guy I met at a bar.

But on the 4th and 8th of april I had sex with my thenn partner. I cant really tell when my ovalation was. Can anyone help I have told my x that it is his but to tell you the truth I dont really know who it is. Im scared that my x will know it is not his once it iss born.



well, if you used to get regular pds, you would've ovulated about 14 days after your last period. So it coul've been that night of the 29th or on the 4th. - sorry, I know it's not much help. But there's a website that gives you pretty good accurate answers of your ovulation.

Www.Babycenter.Com - you should check it out.
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GinACod

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Posted: 09-14-05 19:17pm

I hope it is your hubbys.. But she is right you should tell him there is a chance its another guys. But don't stress yourself over it hun its not good.. As for the baby having something wrong with it that comes to everyone don't stress over it . Its just as likely that the baby will be heathy and fine, you never really know. Plus with all the tests they do now standered in us they will see something if you have anything to worry about. But really its just as likely that your hubby could cause birth defects just as much as the guy you meet at the bar... Just eat heathy and think positive...
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luv4kyle06

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Posted: 09-14-05 19:45pm

My guess would be the guy at the bar!
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Happiness03

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Posted: 09-14-05 20:04pm

Not really sure. It is hard to tell since you had sex with two different people around the same time, also, it really depends on ovulation. Good luck.
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kazzajean

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Posted: 09-15-05 07:49am

Thanks everyone
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