Could This Be Implantation Pain? Posted: 09-15-05 17:46pm
A little background- I have been ttc since
I mc in mar at 8 wks. Each month when af
would show up, it was devastating and so I
decided this was the last month we were
going to have calculated sex (didn't want
to be big & preg in the hottest months
of the year with only a swamp cooler).
I was set to ovulate on the 10th and we
had intercourse. I am hoping the pain I
am feeling is due to implantation, but I
never felt this with the other pregancy
(that I remember) according to webmd
calendar today is implantation day. The
pain is in my lower abdomen and doesn't
feel like gas pains....It hurts to sit and
walk, but leaning forward helps. I am not
bleeding nor did I will the last one. I
have no idea if this is what is supposed
to happen...I just don't want to be
disappointed again...I guess we will just
see on the 24th if af shows up or not.
Any experiences from others would be
appreciated...Thanks
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maahmee
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Joined: 16 Sep 2005 Posts: 6 Location: AZ
Posted: 09-16-05 00:28am
I feel for you! I am in a similar boat.
I have had 3 previous mc, but I don't
remember feeling this pain with any of
them. I hope for us both that our babies
are just getting a good grip and holding
on tight. I don't know if this is a
proper thing to say since this is about
the 2nd time i've ever responded to a
posting, but I will say a prayer for you
and your tiny one. Do you have any other
children?
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beladebz
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Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 5 Location: UT
Posted: 09-16-05 09:46am
Thanks for the prayers! I had the one mc
and it almost killed me, (didn't have to
have a d&c because I passed everything
naturally without any painkillers) but to
have three? You must be really strong. I
dont have any other children, been married
2 years in nov...And just turned 28 on
wed. Hubby was so excited when I told him
about the first pregnancy and he felt so
helpless when I lost it that he just
sobbed and sobbed. My older sister can't
have kids so I was releived to know that I
could get pregnant...I took a test with
the first one and it was negative, but I
was so late that I thought the same thing
was happening to me. But I hope you are
right that they are just grabbin on
tight...
I would liken this pain to the mc
pain....Just less intense, but constant
and lower. I was way irritable yesterday
(maybe because I was hurting), but I also
had to pee like 5 times. Still in a
little bit of pain today.
Do you have any other children? I'm glad
you replied...I haven't ever posted on
this message board before...And I think it
was just fine what you said.
Deb:)
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maahmee
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Joined: 16 Sep 2005 Posts: 6 Location: AZ
Posted: 09-19-05 22:31pm
I have replied 2 times! Why is it not
posting??! I hope you are doing okay.
I I care! I will try again.-maahmee
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beladebz
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Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 5 Location: UT
Posted: 09-19-05 23:35pm
Hi! :)
i am doing fine now.....The pain ended
about 1:00 pm or so the next day. I asked
my mom and she said it could have been a
bladder infection and that "after 7 kids I
think I would know if there was
implantaion pain & bleeding" lol there
are so many women who do, maybe she just
got lucky.
How are things going with you? I hope all
is well.
Today I have had wicked heartburn---4 tums
and that was just since 4:00 pm. I don't
know if it's too soon for that. I am
trying to remember how I felt when I was
pregnant the first time...But I didn't
even know I was until about 6 days after
missed period....And that day I had eaten
lunch at about 3 pm (late I know) and when
I got home at 5:30 I was starving...So
that was a hint that I might be. Even
though I was still in denial since the hpg
was negative.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Take care
deb:)
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maahmee
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Joined: 16 Sep 2005 Posts: 6 Location: AZ
Posted: 09-21-05 00:44am
Hello! So glad to hear you're doing ok.
I really did reply 2 times, ( long
letters, maybe that's why???) and i'm glad
to hear about your heartburn!! :) sooo,
if you don't mind my asking, when are you
due? I am due on the 26th or so of may.
I haven't been to the Dr. Yet. I hate
Dr.'s. I will go, soon, but... Oh I just
am not very excited about finding a new
Dr. And going through all of the first
visit stuff. My reason for mc was more
than likely incomp. Cervix, but it wasn't
proven. I am down to not much cramping.
I feel okay. Oh, what the heck, i'll just
be really honest and say that I can't
believe heavenly father actually is
letting me have another one . I feel sooo
lucky. I don't think it'caca me all the
wayyet. I probably sound like a nut. I
have 4 kiddos. It's hard to admit
sometimes, some people get that "haven't
you ever heard of birth control kid of
look. But...This is america folks! I
lovelovelove being a mommy, and if no oone
else likes it, they can go.. Eat tuna or
buy some captain crunch. I know that
makes no sense, but hey... Anyways...I
bet your husband is very happy. Do you
feel good, like a weight is off, or are
you still worriede? I better submit this
and see if it worked. It better have!!!
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maahmee
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Joined: 16 Sep 2005 Posts: 6 Location: AZ
Posted: 09-21-05 00:54am
Wow, I just read what I wrote. I'm glad
it went through, but do I need spell check
or what? I am sorry to just ramble. I am
usually only on the computer to get school
stuff for my son. I hope the rest
of the week is uneventful for you, as far
as your tummy goes. Are looking forward
to the -oh so beautiful- maternity
clothes? Man, I had just gotten down to
my weight goal(109) but that's okay. I am
going to be large and in charge soon. :d
I promise i'm not crazy, just tired.
Look forward to hearing from you.
-maahmee ( not my real name, but that
would be funny if it was. !!!!)
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beladebz
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Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 5 Location: UT
Posted: 09-21-05 13:04pm
Hi! Glad to hear you are ok! I am
supposed to be starting on the 24th...I
hope dont. I am going to my sisters
house...The one who cant have kids and she
sent me a text this morming (at 2:30)
saying to bring another test down for
her....I am so freaking excited!!! My mom
had a dream taht we were both pregnant at
the same time. She would be due 2 weeks
before me if we are. She is 6 days late
and it would be a miracle for both of us.
I am gonna go out on a limb and ask if you
are lds, your refernce to heavenly father
made me think so. I am praying our
heavenly father lets me have one.
I am still worried since I haven't taken a
test yet. Hubby would be sooooo excited.
And so would both our families. I moved
so I would have to find a doctor too and
that will let the cat out of the bag since
I will have to ask siters in law for
referals.
The first time I was on weight watchers
before and lost 25 lbs...And gaining 1
pound after 10 weeks of losses was what
made me wonder if I was. That is awesome
that you have reached your weight goal.
I am usually on aim with the same name if
you want you can im me sometime. Just
tell me who you are lol I have quite a few
people that are on my list just to get
files and we never talk....But it would be
cool...Then its more private too :) take
care & you are in my prayers!
Deb:)
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maahmee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Sep 2005 Posts: 6 Location: AZ
Posted: 09-21-05 16:10pm
Okay! This is the 3rd message i've tried
to write today. What am I doing wrong??!
I wish I knew how to im you, or whatever.
Heck, i'd give you my email address if I
could. I have no clue how to do this.
This is maddening. I hope you and your
sis had fun peeeing on the sticks. Oops
my caps lock. I woill try again toknight,
after my rehearsal. I'm lucy mack smith.
Hope that answers your question :) :)
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beladebz
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Joined: 15 Sep 2005 Posts: 5 Location: UT
Posted: 09-21-05 18:08pm
Question answered lol :)
i am gonna pee on a stick on sunday
morning.....And sis prolly will on friday
morn...It will be fun. Have you taken a
test already then???? Tomorrow is the
earliest for a hpg.....But hubby thinks I
freak out and take the test too
soon.....At least be late 1 day he says
lol. I have been burning up...At the
store I thought I was having hot flashes!
It would be awesome if my sis was preg.
If you have aol instant messenger you can
add me to your list, im beladebz.....Just
tell me you are lucy m. Smith and i'll
add ya :) that shouldn't have near as many
problems. Also you can email me. Debz77@yaho
o.Com
sound like you are busy! Talk to you
laters!
Deb:)