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Q: Getting Prenant After Miscarriage
asked by: SadMommy on September 15th, 2005
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:cry: I had an m/c 3 weeks ago and am feeling emotionally drained, sad and scarred. I would like to try and become pregnant a.S.A.P. How long should I wait to make sure that I have a better chance of having the baby. Is too soon not good health wise?
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lil_blaze2004
replied on September 15th, 2005
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I am sorry for your loss. I had 2 before having my son and it does feel like the end of the world. It will get better! I promise!

Docs say to wait anywhere from one full cycle to three. Meaning wait till you get your period (not this m/c bleeding) and then you can try but it is more advisable to wait about 3 months. Good luck with everything.
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First_time_mum
replied on September 16th, 2005
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I am sorry to hear 'bout your loss. I had mine (early miscarriage) just recently, last december. Like you, I wanted to get pregnant immediately 'coz I am not getting any younger. My dr advised me to have at least 2 mos before trying for another one. It is possible for you to have another baby soon. Cheer up my dear. I got pregnant immediately after 3 months. I wish you well and goodluck.
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angel6932
replied on September 16th, 2005
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I am sorry for all your losses. I also have miscarried. The dr told me that if I was to miscarry earler on in this pregnancy that I should wait atleast 3-4 months but I have heard of people getting pregnant a month after and they are fine. So I will pray that god will show you what to do or even make you pregnant.
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SadMommy
replied on September 16th, 2005
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I am so afraid of thoseing another baby it has me stressed out all day. I can't think of anything else...... My son is 12 years old and this would have been my second child. I just keep thinking what if I can't have anymore.
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angel6932
replied on September 16th, 2005
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I Am Sorry
Oh swetty I am sorry. Listen you really need to just sit down and breath. Listen has the dr told you that you cant have anymore kids? If not then you all should try again. I wouldnt see why you couldnt try again. Really I am praying for you. I know how it feels and yea we were scared to try but its something a woman just dosnt want to give up untill she has a child. We were even talking about adoupting a baby. But then we found out that we were pregnant. Thank god for your 12yr old and seriously I would still try and dont stress out about it cause that can have an effect on you conceving. I hope that you all get pregnant. I will pray
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SadMommy
replied on September 16th, 2005
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Thank You
Thank you for talking to me, I really don't have anyone to talk to. No, the dr said everything looked fine that I should be able to have more babies. I actually had a d&c done at 12 weeks pregnant. I went in for a normal dr visit, I was feeling fine and he did an aultra sound and there was no heart beat. I know that there is a reason for everything and when I do have my healthy baby I will be so happy. It's just hard, we had already been picking out names and things. I just will not try to get so excited until after my first trimester this time. It weird because I feel like I have lost a child that I have held and bonded with. I am greiving as though I have lost a child that was in this world already. I am tired of smiling all day when all I want to do is cry.
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angel6932
replied on September 16th, 2005
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Prayers For You
Please cheer up and yes that is easer said then done. I really think that you will have more babys and I know how hard it is not to get excited over having a baby in the first trimester. I did it to. I will pray for you.
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SadMommy
replied on September 16th, 2005
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I Will Try
I am trying with each day to get back to my normal self. I know it is not the end of the world, it just feels like it.

Thanks for talking.........

W/love,
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angel6932
replied on September 16th, 2005
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Loss
I know it does feel like the end of the world. I cryed for my baby for a hole yr after I lost it. But the diffrence was I was only a teen. I was 17 when I got pregnant. I understand now why I lost the baby and I know that it was for the best.

I will keep praying for you.
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SadMommy
replied on September 16th, 2005
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Thanks
Thanks for responding to my messages. I feel like I need depression pills but my dr said not to take any if I am gonna try to get pregnant. I just feel wierd, like im supper sensitive to every comment made, I over react. I think my family is getting tired of it. I am not normally like this so it is throwing me off too... Crazy girl on the loose! :lol:
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