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Q: Getting Pregnant After 2nd Miscarriage
asked by: jknight on September 16th, 2005
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I am eager to start trying to get pregnant again...But also very nervous about becoming pregnant....It has been three months and 4 days since I miscarried for the second time, the time before that was dec 04. I have had 2 cycles since my miscarriage (three if you include the m/c bleeding), but my cycles are very irregular....Here is some history. June 12 miscarried, july 19 frist day reg. Period, no cycle for august, and very light period on september 3rd last 2.5 days(light bleeding but very bad cramps on the first day). If anyone has experienced this sort of irregular pattern it would be nice to get some imput from you...I am very worried that I am starting to go throught menopause.....Even though I know I am too young.
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SadMommy
replied on September 16th, 2005
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I'm So Sorry.....
I have just passed 3 weeks since my m/c. It was my first. How long did you wait until getting pregnant for the 2ed time? I am new to this so I am not sure about the period thing sorry.... But ia m so sorry for everything you have been through.
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jknight
replied on September 16th, 2005
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How Long I Waited
After my m/c in dec. 04 I didnt get pregnant for 6 months, I prob concieved towards the end of the middle of may if that helps any
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SadMommy
replied on September 16th, 2005
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Crazy Huh....
I sit here alot and just thing why me? My sister is 5 months now. We were 1 month apart. I am so happy for her but am sad too. I am going to try right away but am scarred. How did you handle the second one? I don't think I would be able too. You are very strong...... :)
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lil_blaze2004
replied on September 16th, 2005
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I had one miscarriage in 1996 and then another in 1999. I went on depo after that and got off of it in hmmmm.....2001 (about) I then got pregnant again about 1 yr ago. I now have a healthy (well he has a cold) 3 month old (on wednesday) I had big gaps between my pregnancy because in the 90's I was still a teen. It is possible to carry a pregnancy to full term after 2 miscarriages, they just say you are high risk. You will have more ultrasounds (which is actually great!) and they'll just keep a closer eye on you. Don't worry jen, it'll happen. I'd wait a lil longer before trying though. Good luck to the both of you.
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fatfamily02
replied on September 16th, 2005
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I had this really long thing and it logged me out.

I was saying--i have misscarried 6 times and had 3 live birth from 1980-1985. I went threw the most pain ever in my life and only god could fix it or help me on it. But he did heal my heart and blessed me with a miracle baby in my abdomen at 43 with no uterus. So I know we can all get threw this and god can give back all the enemy has stolen.

I am sorry for any one having a loss like this, or any loss of a child, no one deserves it. That is exactly why I am against abortion(unless rape incest or medical reasons).

God bless all who have endured and who remain with hope in their heart for something better.
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jknight
replied on October 10th, 2005
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I am not possitive but I think that my periods are returning to normal so I think that is a good sign.....My history again....June 12 miscarriage....July 19 period.....Sept 3 period....October 4 period.....Have a period that regular seems like a good sign to me I will wait for one more cycle then I think I am going to start trying again....I will have waited 5 months with 4 cycles, anyone think that it too soon? Again thanx for all the support
jen
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justacanadiangirl
replied on October 10th, 2005
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Good luck jenn! I hope u get what u want soon!!!!! :)
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lil_blaze2004
replied on October 10th, 2005
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Ya, wait for nov's period and then get cracking!! Good luck!
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jknight
replied on October 10th, 2005
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Thanks for all of the support...I am going to wait until I get my cycle in november then I will go from there....I am hoping that I will be pregnant by the begining of may....I will keep you posted
jen
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michelle1981
replied on October 11th, 2005
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Re: Getting Pregnant After 2nd Miscarriage
jknight wrote:
i am eager to start trying to get pregnant again...But also very nervous about becoming pregnant....It has been three months and 4 days since I miscarried for the second time, the time before that was dec 04. I have had 2 cycles since my miscarriage (three if you include the m/c bleeding), but my cycles are very irregular....Here is some history. June 12 miscarried, july 19 frist day reg. Period, no cycle for august, and very light period on september 3rd last 2.5 days(light bleeding but very bad cramps on the first day). If anyone has experienced this sort of irregular pattern it would be nice to get some imput from you...I am very worried that I am starting to go throught menopause.....Even though I know I am too young.


i had my first m/c mid june as well. I bled for almost 7 weeks(off and on), maybe 3 consecutive days at the most 'period' free. So I finally got my first official period august 27th for about 6 days, which was normal, and since then I had been waiting and waiting until I woke up this morning.....And there it was.....My period! Finally

i was told by my doctor to wait until my periods were regulated before I start trying. I would love another baby soon.

Hope you get the news you want asap.....Good luck!
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SadMommy
replied on October 11th, 2005
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Question?
I have had one period since my d&c (after d&c bleeding). Do we start ovulating right away? I had my d&c in august. I'm confused on the whole thing.

T~
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lil_blaze2004
replied on October 11th, 2005
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Re: Question?
sadmommy wrote:
i have had one period since my d&c (after d&c bleeding). Do we start ovulating right away? I had my d&c in august. I'm confused on the whole thing.

T~


yes you do ovulate right away again. But docs say to wait at least 3 cycles again cause your body has to get itself back into shape. Miscarriages are hard on the system and they want you 100% if you want to carry a baby.
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jknight
replied on October 22nd, 2005
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Thanx all for the support, I am just eagerly waiting for my period to come in november, if all goes well then I should get one between the 2-10th, I well keep eveyone posted ty again all
jenn
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michelle1981
replied on October 23rd, 2005
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Take care jenn...Best of luck!
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rees87
replied on September 28th, 2009
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Hi, this isnt really a question, more information as i have found reading on this website usefull
i got pregnant in dec 2008 - after trying for 18 months, went for my 12 week scan in march and there was no heartbeat, baby had died at 10 weeks i was devastated especially with how i was treated (like it was normal and i didnt matter) i had a rough few weeks with this pregnancy i was very sick and really tired.
i then started trying again almost straight away,my period came 2/3 weeks after the miscarriage, it took 3 months to get pregnant again, i felt great for this pregnancy i had a scan at 8 weeks to check for a heartbeat, this was all ok so i felt alot beta i then notice when i was 11 weeks that i had alot of discharge one day which i didnt feel ok about, i went to see my doctor who told me to wait for my scan which would have had me waiting for another week, even though i was telling them i knew something was wrong, i ended up at the hospital for a scan and again there was no heartbeat and baby had died at 10 weeks again, so i had to have a D&C both times which was really sad, I have been told to wait 12 weeks this time were as last time they said to just have one period before trying again, i find this so frustrating as there is no reason given to actually wait. if anyone has any help or advice or even if i can help you wth anything please let me know, x
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