Hi, this isnt really a question, more information as i have found reading on this website usefull
i got pregnant in dec 2008 - after trying for 18 months, went for my 12 week scan in march and there was no heartbeat, baby had died at 10 weeks i was devastated especially with how i was treated (like it was normal and i didnt matter) i had a rough few weeks with this pregnancy i was very sick and really tired.
i then started trying again almost straight away,my period came 2/3 weeks after the miscarriage, it took 3 months to get pregnant again, i felt great for this pregnancy i had a scan at 8 weeks to check for a heartbeat, this was all ok so i felt alot beta i then notice when i was 11 weeks that i had alot of discharge one day which i didnt feel ok about, i went to see my doctor who told me to wait for my scan which would have had me waiting for another week, even though i was telling them i knew something was wrong, i ended up at the hospital for a scan and again there was no heartbeat and baby had died at 10 weeks again, so i had to have a D&C both times which was really sad, I have been told to wait 12 weeks this time were as last time they said to just have one period before trying again, i find this so frustrating as there is no reason given to actually wait. if anyone has any help or advice or even if i can help you wth anything please let me know, x