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sweetkissesxo05

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Joined: 16 Sep 2005
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Location: mi
Is There Something Wrong With Me?
Posted: 09-17-05 00:43am

Hey everyone this is my first time on this site....I will explain myself I am 18 yrs old I have a boyfriend ...We have been together for a yr and a half . Well we have unprotected sex which is okay with both of us, I want a baby but he has a job and I dont well he does want a baby but isnt sure because of the money situation well ..... I had my period about 3 weeks ago and it was normal at the end I spotted I dont know if thats normal or not anyways for the past week or so I have had like weird feeling on my lower tummy its not really cramps its like pressure but sometimes it kinda feels like a pinch if I touch my tummy its weird and I have noticed like more the usual white discarage ... And I had pain in my right boob like a lil shooting pain .... I am dont know if I am pregant or whats wrong with me if I was pregant I am sure it would be to early to tell I am kinda scared to tell anyone I mean I know it would be okay but I think that its to soon . I know that he did cum in me its sounds grose but I was on my period and then it ended the next day and I was spotting and after that he did it again 4 days later and again 2 days after that and then 3 days ago! I am just kinda scared if I am not pg what else could be wrong with me? Are these signs of pregancey? If not what the hell is goin on! Thanks I hope someone can help! Please!
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heather_0332

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Joined: 05 Sep 2005
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Location: Tennessee

Posted: 09-17-05 00:47am

Are you on b/c?If he came inside you then there is a great possiblity that you are.I dont know about the symptoms though.
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sweetkissesxo05

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Joined: 16 Sep 2005
Posts: 8
Location: mi

Posted: 09-17-05 01:27am

No I am not on b/c .....But I am have like a constant pressure feeling in my lower stomach I cant explain it....Its like cramps but it stays ...I know it sounds crazy I dont know whats goin on I just know my stomach feels really weird! I cant even expalin it!
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sweetkissesxo05

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Joined: 16 Sep 2005
Posts: 8
Location: mi

Posted: 09-18-05 00:13am

I have had to pee alot too I dont know if its because of my tummy or what... I am competely clueless and I dont have my next period till the 3rd of this next month! I am confused! If I am pg I am sure it would be soon to tell ! I said something to my boyfriend today that my tummy has felt weird he said u better not be pregant! So I am screwed if I am ! Gosh I am stress I dont know what to do! I am sure I will hear more about it by him soon! But I sure in the hell am not gonna open my mouth about it again to him! It kinda bothers me! Oh well! I know he loves me hes just a butthead sometimes! :oops:
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heather_0332

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Joined: 05 Sep 2005
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Location: Tennessee

Posted: 09-18-05 09:17am

I know what your going thru hun with the boyfriend.When we were younger neither of us were ready for a child.We had a couple of scares though and that is what he said too, "you better not be pregnant".We've been together 5 years now and we are both excited to have a baby.Just be patient and try not to stress, I know thats hard.Wait for your period to see if you start a normal one.Then take a test.
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fatfamily02

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Joined: 20 Jul 2005
Posts: 3050
Location: Georgia, USA

Posted: 09-18-05 09:28am

I think you are pregnant, sometimes we have to wait as much as 3 weeks past the missed period to get a urine test to come back pos. So if the first one dont work, dont give up until almost 2nd missed period.

Good luck--boy friend just being dumb I bet. If I knew for real I bet he feel different. Dont worry about him, worry about you and the baby right now. I bet you are!!!
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sweetkissesxo05

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Joined: 16 Sep 2005
Posts: 8
Location: mi

Posted: 09-19-05 00:09am

Thanks guys for ur support ... I definitly was really sad today ! I didnt talk to him one time today! It hurts my feelings kinda! I guess I will see whats in store tomarrow~ the fact is he is alot older then me so he just be mature and a man but I am here basically feeling like if I am in the end I will have to do this on my own which is pathetic I didnt climb on top of my self! Gessh! He will call eventually I am not gonna chase him! I love him and he he really loves me ike he says he will man up and be here no matter what! Thanks heather and fatfamily.... Its nice to have people here! ~shawna
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sweetkissesxo05

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Sep 2005
Posts: 8
Location: mi
I Am So Stressed
Posted: 09-20-05 17:00pm

Well I think I scared my boyfriend away ... I told him how I have been feeling and he says u better not be pregant....When he cummed inside me his is takeing the risk too.... I tryed calling him he dont answer ... He hasnt called... I am flipping out... I dont know what to do...On top of that I have to take care of my mom I moved back home to help her cause shes depressed and stuff and her boyfriend works and she dont want to be alone shes scared so I am dealing with that and on top of tht I am trying to find a job I must have applyed at 32 different places I gt interviews after calling and calling and then they dont call back.... Now I might be pregant with a baby whos father I have been with for 1 yr and 6 months and now he dont want to talk to me......Omg I dont know what to do anymore! I cant this caca! I am so stressed out... Is there anyone who can help me please!
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GinACod

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005
Posts: 262
Location: Ohio

Posted: 09-20-05 17:06pm

You could jus be too stresses with your mom and everything. That triggers weird/pg like symtoms also. I would wait til after your next scheuled period then take a test. If it comes neg but you still think you are go get a blood test done. If that comes back neg then its just stress and you need to come down. If you are pos then you still need to get your stress down cause that is not heathy for you or the baby. Take care hun I hope everything works out for you.
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