Yeah I never caught that either. So did
you go to the er? I know how hard it can
be to not want to tell your mom that your
pregnant. But please dont make the
mistake I did and not tell then lose the
baby and then you get a really bad
infection that may cause you never to be
able to have kids. But thank god I did
conceve again and am due in two weeks.
Please let us know were worried about you
and we will be here for you.
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BabyGT
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Aug 2005 Posts: 111 Location: Wisconsin
=( Posted: 09-24-05 11:59am
Well, I went to the doctor and...I had a
miscarriage =( ...I know it sounds tupid,
that im 15 and was pregnant, ish
juss...Ack =( my mother, is really mad at
me because of this, and she is just making
this so much worse for me. I asked the
doctor, what happened and stuff, well, why
I has having a miscarriage (he said
something had stopped growing) I wasnt
listnening, which I know I should have,but
I was crying so badly...And I just, lost
track of where I was...And didnt wanna
hear anything else...He did talk to my
mother though and...Ack =( ... I cant
stop thinking of...What I did wrong...
Thank you so much for posting you guys..
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 09-24-05 12:10pm
I am so sorry
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Prayers For You Posted: 09-24-05 12:11pm
I am truly sorry.
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BabyGT
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Aug 2005 Posts: 111 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 09-24-05 21:40pm
Don't be sorry, I just hope I never have
another m/c...Cuz it's very upsetting =\
...
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El
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Trial Run Posted: 09-24-05 21:57pm
It's not unusual for a first pregnancy to
end in miscarriage- in fact, it's most
likely to be the first one- your body will
sometimes do a trial run at pregnancy,
especially if you are young. It wouldn't
have been because of anything you did, and
it doesn't mean it will evr happen
again.
Most women never even know about it, they
just think they are having a heavier than
usual period, or are a little bit late.
If you hadn't taken the test on that day,
you would never have even known.
Talk to your mum about it. She's probably
not so much mad at you, but has just had a
big fright herself - her baby was pregnant
!!!! Use this as an opportunity to get
closer to your mum, so you guys can talk
about this kind of stuff in future. It
could end up being a good thing for both
of you.
Having a mum you can ask for advise is way
better than coming to a forum like this,
and waiting for replies etc. Don't you
think?
Take care of yourself.
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Rayne
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2005 Posts: 7
Posted: 09-24-05 22:45pm
Sometimes your body is trying to tell you,
that physically, you just aren't ready to
have a baby-- yes, you have your period,
yes you're technically a woman-- but
everyones body is different. It poses
serious health risks to become pregnant
within one year of having a miscarriage,
so please protect yourself now. Get the
pill, use protection for yourself and your
partner. Best of luck.
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mia7
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Sep 2005 Posts: 378
Posted: 09-25-05 18:19pm
I wen to see the doc because I thought I
was having an irregular period. I had
been bleeding for three weeks at that
time. From spotting, to moderate, to
heavy bleeding with bloodclots. They
asked me for an urine sample and it turned
out that I was pregnant. So I went to see
another doctor (since the first one was
very inconsiderate and when I asked him
well how could it be if I am bleeding all
he said was "well you could be having a
miscarriage for all I know " and then he
said "well my job is done, that's why you
are bleeding")
so when I went to see the other doctor he
sent me to get an ultrasound and it turned
out that my baby was still in there and he
had a regular beating heart.
Later that day I had more bleeding so I
went to the er and they took blood samples
and kept me there for a while. The next
day I had more bleeding but it was until
the following day when I had such heavy
bleeding that that I went back to the
er.
They kept me there overnight and took more
blood samples and took another ultrasound.
The next day I had another ultrasound and
the baby was still in there.
They told me I had implantation bleeding
and since the second week of august until
now almost the end of september, I have
been bleeding with the exception of today
and yesterday I only had one little
drop.
I am still scared though because I have
had cramps the whole time and I have been
feeling them a lot more today.
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 09-26-05 08:42am
I'm sorry hun... I hope it goes better
for you next time when your ready..
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lovablepetsworld
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 615 Location: singapore
Posted: 09-26-05 08:47am
I'm sorry to hear about the news, do take
care......
Brave the world u dun make the same
mistake again......... I know u will have
a great time ahead..... Take care n rest
well.... Recover first than think about
ur future and ur mum will be fine in days
to come.