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Spearmint Altoids

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:20pm

Two, three weeks ago, my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex for the first time. It wasn't much; we only went at it about 5 minutes before I decided to stop. Afterwards, she used her hand until I came on her body (about 10 minutes later). And two days later, she got her period.

I'm assuming that she can't be pregant, but she's somewhat worried, as it is the first time she's ever had unprotected sex. It does seem a bit ridiculous, having to worry about pregnancy when I didn't even cum in her; but I would feel better if any of you had words of reassurance...
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:27pm

Pre cum can get a girl pregnant just as cum can. I don't think she's pregnant but you should always use protection unless you want a baby.

If you don't want a baby then I suggest you get your girl on birth control. It saves a lot of worrying.
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Spearmint Altoids

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:30pm

Yeah, that was the only time we didn't use protection. It certainly hasn't been worth the worry.
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:37pm

You have a lot of choices to prevent pregnancy ya know??
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Spearmint Altoids

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:40pm

Well of course. The pills and all that. Like I said, whenever we do the dance, we use condoms.

Just curious...How old are you?
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:42pm

17 and 5 months pregnant.
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Spearmint Altoids

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:44pm

Ah, I see. I'm seventeen as well. Is the father of your kid still with you? Or has he high-tailed it?
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:47pm

He passed away before I found out I was pregnant, a lot of his family supports me & they are excited about it.

I got pregnant while on birth control.

Note to self : don't take any medications while on birth control just to be safe, it lowers the percentage of it working.
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Spearmint Altoids

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:48pm

I'm sorry for your loss, but i'm glad his family is supportive about it.
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 09-18-05 22:51pm

Yeah, me aswell.

It's nice that I didn't have to tell my mom though, she suspected before I did because I was late on my period, she went and bought the test & made me take it!

I think everything will be okay though.
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