Hey...
Im 18 years old and a virgin. I give and
take oral sex to/from my boyfriend. My
poblem is....That whenever he tries
fingering me, my vagina hurts like hell.
I started shaving my pubic hair an year
ago and my pubic region becomes a lil'
hard after I shave. Is it a problem in
me or is it something else, because even
when my boyfriend licks me, my vagina
hurts, I dont know if I cud hav an orgasm
at that time, but the most wet ive got was
a few weeks back when my boyfriend was
kind of rubbing his penis against my
vagina, now again, I dont get even close
to an orgasm that way now. Fingering the
most hurtful thing, when my boyfriend
tries to finger me, my vagina starts
hurting bad n I cant take it. I usually
masturbate using a pillow, the humping
thing and sometimes fingering, but thats
rarely. Can you please help me?
Thanx
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-19-05 09:29am
It sounds like you probably need to feel
yourself out down there by yourself, like
when you're in the shower or in bed or
something, that way you can figure our how
to slide your fingers inside of yourself
in a way that doesn't hurt. Then, you can
show him :)
sliding your fingers inside can be painful
if you're dry; that's why I suggest doing
it in the shower, after some gentle
clitoral stimulation (use a washcloth if
using your own finger is too much!) to get
"wet", you need to get horny, and that's
that.
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msbradford
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Re: Question Posted: 09-19-05 15:54pm
If you give and recieve oral sex then you
are not a virgin sweetie...You just havent
had vaginal sex...
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-19-05 23:46pm
That totally depends on your
definition of virgin. If she considered
vaginal sex the only way to become a
non-virgin, then she is still a virgin.
That's what I believe too, although it
gets a little grey in the area of anal
sex. However, most women aren't going
to have anal sex as their very first kind
if sexual intercourse ever. I recieved
oral sex long before I had vaginal sex,
and I felt that I was still a virgin after
oral sex becuse i'd never had a penis
inside my vagina. It totally depends on
what the person who is having the sexual
encoutner believes.
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xymindy
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Posted: 09-20-05 09:09am
Ok ile try that, but why does it hurt when
he licks my vagina...??
Is it ok that it hurts coz den it'll give
me an orgasm...Like first pain and then
pleasure??
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-20-05 10:34am
He may be licking too roughly; tell him to
be more gentle. It sounds like you're
extremely sensitive, so he doesn't need to
smash your vagina with his tongue!
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angel6932
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Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Re: Question Posted: 09-20-05 10:40am
msbradford
wrote:
if you give and recieve oral
sex then you are not a virgin
sweetie...You just havent had vaginal
sex...
i desagree! For a long time I thought
that to untill I meet my husband who gave
and receved. At first I didnt think he
was but I know that he was. Well all I
am saying is that is your oppioun.
He really maybe doing it all to hard. I
agree you need to find out what you like
yourself. I suggest the shower too.
