Tips On How to Appear More Approachable And Friendly Posted: 09-20-05 00:41am
Hi. I'm 24 yrs old and would like
guidance on what I can do to become more
approachable to other people. Many see me
as being very aloof, insensitive, and
extremely quiet. I want to change the way
others see me and i'm interested in having
others feel more comfortable approaching
me.
If it helps you in coming up with an
advice for me, i'll admit that I had
little or no popularity/friends throughout
my entire life.
Thanks.
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Bek
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Posts: 206 Location: SA
Dlpprojection99 Posted: 09-20-05 02:10am
What is your self esteem like? Are you
happy with the person that you are? I
think that if you build on your self
esteem then automaticly your approach to
others becomes more open and friendly.
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bicca
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Posts: 16 Location: austin, tx
Posted: 09-26-05 23:05pm
I totally want to know the same thing.
I've always thought I was comfortable with
myself. Sure i'm neurotic about a few
things, but I like myself. Here's the
catch, i'm absolutely unapproachable.
People are like "it's because you're cute"
and so i'll wear my ugliest clothes for
days, and still nothing from anyone who I
don't extend myself toward.
Everytime I try to figure out why people
pass me by or feel uncomfortable with me,
people tell me it's because i'm not
comfortable with myself. Hearing this
over and over has made me more
uncomfortable with myself than I guess I
was before. I'm getting it now and it
makes me pretty sad.
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