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Jadc
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Me And My Girlfriend Help (read)
Posted: 09-20-05 15:01pm
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Hello
im new to the forum and I wasnt sure were
I would put this.... So correct me
please.
Well im 16 years of age and male... And
my girlfriend is 17
this is about sex by the way..
Well me and my girlfriend have sex nearly
everytime we c each other... Thats every
weekend because we live apart (1hour train
ride) and during sex im worried...
Because when im inside her going at it...
For like 5 mins im close to cumming.. But
we try changin persisions to stop myself
and it sometimes works... But I jus want
to know how to stop my self.. Because
basically... I think my girlfriend is
worried to shes gets fed up that she cant
get an orgasm as quick n all... So I was
wondering on tips for me and her...
Thnx alot for replyin if do
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angel6932
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Vibrator Or Fingering
Posted: 09-20-05 15:09pm
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Ok sorry it was just I thought this would
get you more replys. So anyway. You
really should problly try a vibrator on
her. See that is what happened to me and
my hubby he would always go before me. So
one day I got on here and someone said
well he needs to try fingering you and if
that dosnt work then a vibrator. So try
either one of these or both. Trust me it
works and she will go allot faster. Try
having her sit on you and touch her with
either the vibrator or you and see if that
dosnt work and when she starts then that
is when you finish her off.
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Jadc
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Posted: 09-21-05 07:00am
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Thanks alot I will try that :p
but do you think im (cum) quicker because
of my age?
And is it natural for a guy of my age....
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angel6932
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Hope I Have Helped
Posted: 09-21-05 10:00am
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Its completly natural sweety. Ya most men
are like that. They have to just learn to
hold off a bit. Which I dont know
anything about that. I will ask my hubby.
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cd998776
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Posted: 09-21-05 13:52pm
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Masturbating prior to sex can often help
you last atleast a little longer. Guys
who really know what they are doing often
use kegels to strengthen their pc muscle.
Once their pc muscle gets strong enough,
many are able to orgasm, without
ejaculating, also making the recoup time
shorter; but that would take you a while.
You might also a desensitizing lube; I
don't know if they work, but I have heard
that they can make you last a long time if
you get the right kind. If your goal is
simply to last longer without much money,
time, or effort, your best bet is just
masturbating prior to sex.
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Sam-J-J
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Posted: 09-21-05 15:33pm
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Thats the best tip i've been given before.
Just masterbate a few hours before you
intend to have sex. "never go into battle
with a loaded gun" lol.
Also, just try and think of non-sexual
thoughts whilst you're doing it.
Obviously, not thinking of them too hard
or you'll lose your erection. One of my
friends said he likes to do his 8 times
table in his head whilst doing it to take
his mind off a little lol.
But I think he was jokin! :)
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Jadc
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Posted: 09-21-05 16:10pm
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Lol what did take my mind of cumming was
talkin dirty to each other while on the
job :p and it helped but my girlfriend is
to shy to talk dirty.
But I will take all advice but mainly
angels because.. I like playing with
her... We take turns lol :)...
I heard something before that a mans penis
can be very sensitive around the bell end
area... I was wondering if I had that if
it exsists ... Dont laugh at me its a
genuine question hehe :p
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angel6932
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Posted: 09-21-05 18:13pm
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| jadc
wrote: | lol what did take my mind of
cumming was talkin dirty to each other
while on the job :p and it helped but my
girlfriend is to shy to talk dirty.
But I will take all advice but mainly
angels because.. I like playing with
her... We take turns lol :)...
I heard something before that a mans penis
can be very sensitive around the bell end
area... I was wondering if I had that if
it exsists ... Dont laugh at me its a
genuine question hehe
:p |
thank you but now I dont understand what
you are asking. Yes guys are sensitive is
that what you are asking?
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Jadc
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Posted: 09-21-05 18:18pm
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Well a mans penis is sensitive near the
head of area of the penis... But can it
be over sensitive?
:p
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angel6932
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I Guess So.
Posted: 09-21-05 18:38pm
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Im not sure about that, but I know that my
husband is very sensitave. So I guess you
can be.
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Jadc
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Posted: 09-21-05 19:44pm
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Oh thanks for your advice people... I
will try to get around the forum and post
to others but thnx again :) but still
reply for more idea's for me thank you
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Chemical_Romance
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Posted: 09-22-05 14:10pm
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Hey i'm jadc's girlfriend. Just wondering
are there any other things we could try
other than a vibrator cuz I have 1 but I
dont get much from it. Maybe I need a
better one I dont know...
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cd998776
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Posted: 09-23-05 11:36am
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| jadc
wrote: | well a mans penis is
sensitive near the head of area of the
penis... But can it be over sensitive?
:p |
yes. It can also be less sensitive
(meaning he will probably have a hard time
getting off).
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Jadc
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Posted: 09-23-05 17:56pm
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Oh k thnx for that.... Thank god I dont
have a less sensitive penis lol :p
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