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baby_gal_zoe
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Im Pregnant And 14
Posted: 09-22-05 14:34pm
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:cry: im pregnant and 14 I need help I
live alone with my mum my boyffriend knows
and she doesnt but shes very unstable at
themoment and I cant tell her I want to
keep my baby and so does my boyfriend
please help me please im scared ???? :!:
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LiteSkinShortE
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It Will Be Okay
Posted: 09-22-05 16:16pm
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Well..To start off I am 16 and I may be
pregnant myself but i'm not sure. But
believe me everything will be okay. Don't
stress your self out because that will
only cause stress to your baby and it's
not good for you either. Well, even
though your mom might flip out or
something its best to tell her asap the
sooner the better. But I hope that
everything will go okay with you. I wish
you the best of luck! If you need a
friend or somebody to just talk to feel
free to pm me at anytime.
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SomeGuy333
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Posted: 09-22-05 17:34pm
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First off, you shouldn't be going around
getting pregnant at such a young age.
Your both still children and have a long
life ahead of you. Having a child at
such a young age can also be dangerous
because it can increase the risk of
difficulties during labor. As I said,
you still have the rest of your life ahead
of you, if you have this baby it makes
school 100 times harder and you will lose
all of your free time taking care of it.
You will haft to wake up in the middle of
the night several times every day to feed
it. In truth you shouldn't have children
until after your married and things have
settled down because it is already hard
enough then, its even difficult on the
child because their parent/parents are so
young as well.
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GinACod
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Posted: 09-23-05 14:58pm
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I agree with with someguy...
But also I was 18 with my first but he is
right about all your free time being taken
up but I will still support you if you
have any questions I wish I would have
waited longer but I do love my girls.
Babys are hard there not easy, if at
anytime they become too much to handle ask
for help or if you don't think you can do
it anymore take it to the hospital or an
adoption agency please. I worry about
such young age to be having a baby.
Please tell your mom yes she will be mad
but it should fade. I have a daughter
half your age and i'm so frightened that
somthing like this would happen to her,
but I would support her if she chose to
keep it. I would be upset I have to admit
but I would rather she had the support
from me then no body or a stranger.
Please tell your mom asap.
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mommy2B06
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17 And Pregnant
Posted: 09-25-05 15:04pm
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You really need to tell your mom so that
she can take you to the doctor....I was
really scared of tellin my mom..But when
you think about it what can she do to you?
Its done and over with so she will have
to be ok with it. Yes it takes a few
days, but things get better. :)
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mia7
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Posted: 09-25-05 17:52pm
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Well, all I can say is that you should
really take it easy and don't stress out.
You do need to tell your mother and try to
look at it as something positive. You
have a child with a beating heart growing
inside of you and you should be happy
about that.
My cousin was pregnant at 14 a few years
back and she talked it out with her
mother. Her and her mother were never
really that close until the baby came.
Then my aunt realized that she needed to
spend more time with my cousin and
supported her 100% my cousin graduated
from high school with 3.9 gpa and went on
to college and did everything that she
wanted to do. It wasn't easy, but she
realized that it was time to take
everything serious for the sake of her
baby.
Some people might view your situation and
tell you to consider adoption and so on.
I suggest that you listen to your heart
and do what you know is right.Hopefully
your mother supports you and helps you out
with this. It will really make things
much more simple once you know that you
have the support of your mother.
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GinACod
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Posted: 09-26-05 08:40am
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I just worry cause some kids concel their
pg have a baby and do awful things to it.
I just don't want anyong to do that.
I just hope that someone will be
supportive enough that they will help you
with the baby wether its your mom (
hopefully it will be) or an aunt, sister,
cousin or someone. Thats the only reason
I placed that there. I really would like
to know that things will be ok for you.
I worry about that. I know it was a big
story for a while. I just hope you get
some support and I pray if you decide to
keep him/her that you can handle it and
that everything will be great. I just
worry about such young ages, but i'm not
saying that some adults might have done
the same.
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angel6932
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Posted: 09-26-05 09:36am
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| someguy333
wrote: | | first off, you shouldn't be
going around getting pregnant at such a
young age. Your both still children and
have a long life ahead of you. Having a
child at such a young age can also be
dangerous because it can increase the risk
of difficulties during labor. As I
said, you still have the rest of your life
ahead of you, if you have this baby it
makes school 100 times harder and you will
lose all of your free time taking care of
it. You will haft to wake up in the
middle of the night several times every
day to feed it. In truth you shouldn't
have children until after your married and
things have settled down because it is
already hard enough then, its even
difficult on the child because their
parent/parents are so young as
well. |
i totally agree. I dont understand 12and
up kids trying to get pregnant. I mean
lets get real I am 20yrs old pregnant and
I am married I am having the hardest time
of my life. Do you girls ever think about
that? It is so hard emotionally and
physically oh yeah mentally to. It is so
hard. I have help so if you all dont how
the hell are you going to support a baby.
I am sorry but I am so sick of hearing all
of these little 12-14year old girls crying
I am pregnant well you shouldnt be having
sex in the first place. If you are old
enough to be having sex then you are old
enough to take the responsability of being
a parent.. Man I sound so mean but its
the truth. Girls you have your whole life
a head of you why blow it on trying to
grow up to soon.
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Kourtney08
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Posted: 09-26-05 13:11pm
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First of all, where in her post did she
say she planned this baby? Accidents
happen. I don't think young girls should
be going around trying to get pregnant,
but if their pregnant and come here for
advice, what exactly do you gain from
telling her to grow up, and not have her
child?
Second of all - to the original poster, if
your mom is unstable, then why are you
living there? A 14 year old shouldn't be
in an unstable home either.
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angel6932
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Posted: 09-26-05 13:15pm
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That is not what I was saying at all I
would never tell anyone not to have there
child. And further more your right I
should have showed more compation did I
mintion I am fixing to have a baby and
sometimes my hormones make me do and say
stupid stuff so to you the orginal poster
I am sorry if I hurt you I would never
want to hurt a child.
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map
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Ugh Teens Need to Stop Haven Sex
Posted: 09-26-05 13:41pm
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To many teens out there haven babies but I
was a teen once and I ended up getting
pregnat we did use a rubber but hey
accidents do happen it broke and when I
ended up pregnat I was 14 had the year I
turned 15 iam know 25 and he will be 10
this year..But im gonna say I did not
finish school do to the facted he was one
thoes babies that was sick with ear
inffetions alot was up alot with him
during the night I missed so much school
it was not funny. So think twice if you
really think your ready to be a teen mom
and just rember the daddy's dont stay
around. Iam married and I have 3 kids
know just think twice if you really want
to be a teen mom my mom was not made at me
but dont keep it from your moms they need
to know. If you dont think you are ready
for a baby there are women waiting out
there to adopte a baby
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mommy2B06
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Posted: 09-26-05 17:33pm
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I was on the pill for almost two years and
got pregnant....Im only 17 and if it wasnt
for my loving boyfriend and mother it
would be hard as hell on me too. Dont
stress out over it..Your mother will be
okay with it eventually. My mom almost
had a cow when she found out, but now
things are great and she goes with me to
ever one of my visits.
Im 26 weeks pregnant 2morr.
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SomeGuy333
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Posted: 09-26-05 17:50pm
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You shouldn't be having sex at such a
young age either. If your out there
having sex you should be prepared to be
pregnant.
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angel6932
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I Agree
Posted: 09-26-05 17:57pm
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That is what I was trying to say. You
play with fire you get burned
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mommy2B06
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Rude People
Posted: 09-26-05 18:02pm
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Its not as if I was tryin to get
pregnant..Im 17 and I have only been with
2 people..The first person I was with for
a few years and the second person (babys
daddy) I have been with over a year. Its
not as if I am out runnin around sleepin
with everybody. Things happen for a
reason you know. Some can get pregnant
more easily and some cant get pregnant at
all. So I think if you cant say anything
nice to mean I would appreciate it if you
wouldnt comment at all. Im doing good I
think for my age, im finshing school and
work part time at a lawyers office. How
many 17 year olds out here could be doing
that?
Christy
Last edited by mommy2B06 on 09-26-05 19:20pm; edited 1 time in total
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angel6932
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Not You
Posted: 09-26-05 18:03pm
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mommy2B06
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Im Soooo Sorry!!
Posted: 09-26-05 18:07pm
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Im soo sorry. I thought you were talking
about me. Hope I didnt make anyone mad at
me.
Christy
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angel6932
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Posted: 09-26-05 18:11pm
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No swetty I was pregnant at 17 too once.
It was hard as hell so believe me I know
what you are going through. Its these
younger kids I dont understand. Man I
didn't even know what I was doing. Still
not so sure. Lol
yeah I have only been with two people
myself. My hubby and someone eles. Put
it this way I wouldnt have been with him
if it hadnt been for date rape. That is
why I say I dont understand kids under 16
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mommy2B06
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Ohhh
Posted: 09-26-05 18:16pm
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I feel so bad that I got all rude and up
tight with you, when you wasnt even
talking about me. Anyways..Hi my name is
christy, and as you already know I am 17
and im due jan 3rd but my doctor says it
will come sooner prolly. Im kinda scared
about the whole labor thing? Any useful
comments?
Christy! :d
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angel6932
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Me Too
Posted: 09-26-05 18:21pm
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Me to. I am due anyday as I said so yeah
I am really scared
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