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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005
Posts: 262
Location: Ohio
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Posted: 09-26-05 18:31pm
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I frist got pg at 18.. Its those that
are 15 and below that we seem to think
shouldn't be getting pg or having babys..
It worries me only cause of all the news
from along time ago about them throwing
babys away like they are garbage. I'm
glad they made it so that a women can take
their babys to the hospital and drop them
off with out having to say anything.
17-19 is understandable. I worry but I
will be supportive. Yes I look downn on
it but i'm a mother of a girl that is
almost 7 and to know that girls 2x her age
are getting pg and having sex that just
scares the heck out of me. I know I
didn't do anything til I was 15 and even
then I had been going with the guy since I
was 13. Then again we broke up a month
afterwards. I'm 25 now have 4 kids and a
hubby thats loves all of us.. I have 2
kids that are not biologicly his but he
feels as though hes their father anyway.
I know i've been with 7 guys over my life
and thats includeing my hubby. I know
alot of my freinds back in hs couldn't
count on thier fingers and toes how many
they have been with.
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mommy2B06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2005
Posts: 150
Location: Texas
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Websites
Posted: 09-26-05 19:28pm
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Do you know of any webites that I can read
up on about labor??? It would be
helpful....
Christy
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005
Posts: 788
Location: US
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I Hope This Works
Posted: 09-26-05 19:29pm
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mommy2B06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2005
Posts: 150
Location: Texas
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005
Posts: 788
Location: US
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Posted: 09-26-05 19:33pm
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lilmsnick
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2004
Posts: 30
Location: Miami
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Posted: 09-26-05 22:55pm
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| kourtney08
wrote: | first of all, where in her
post did she say she planned this baby?
Accidents happen. I don't think young
girls should be going around trying to get
pregnant, but if their pregnant and come
here for advice, what exactly do you gain
from telling her to grow up, and not have
her child?
Second of all - to the original poster, if
your mom is unstable, then why are you
living there? A 14 year old shouldn't be
in an unstable home
either. |
i think what angel was trying to say is
instead of at 14 having sex she should
have been doing other things like playing
with her friends going to th movies and
doing things that kids are supposed to do
and it is very difficult and going to be
easy
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venus05
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Sep 2005
Posts: 6
Location: school
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Re: Im Pregnant And 14
Posted: 09-27-05 18:01pm
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You need to tell someone soon, go to a
doctor or school counselor, something, you
are too young and carrying a child may
damage you, because your body is not even
fully developed like an adults, it will be
very hard on your body to carry another
human when you need to finish growing up,
please tell someone now
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abbymae
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Apr 2005
Posts: 20
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Posted: 09-29-05 19:01pm
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Tell your mom! There is nothing anyone
can do....You're pregnant. It happened,
you can't turn back, you're having a baby.
There is nothing she can do! Good luck
with everything. I hope you and the baby
are healthy after the delivery!
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005
Posts: 788
Location: US
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hoosiergurl927
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Sep 2005
Posts: 22
Location: Indiana
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Support
Posted: 10-01-05 12:01pm
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:shock: I think instead of dissing the
girls who are already preggo you should
support them b/c what done is done. So
just be there for them.
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RGLwantababy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005
Posts: 14
Location: USA
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Re: Im Pregnant And 14
Posted: 10-01-05 17:11pm
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| baby_gal_zoe
wrote: | | :cry: im pregnant and 14 I
need help I live alone with my mum my
boyffriend knows and she doesnt but shes
very unstable at themoment and I cant tell
her I want to keep my baby and so does my
boyfriend please help me please im scared
???? :!:
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hello 14 and pregnant, I think that you
should tell your mom. Iwas in the same
situation when I was 15. You will soon
learn that the only person to have your
back is going to be your mother. So what
if she is unstable? That is where your
boyfriends role comes in at. That is his
responsibility to pick up where you and
your mom fall short. I hope that all is
well and good luck. :)
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sheila_a1109
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005
Posts: 13
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Posted: 10-02-05 23:21pm
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You know being pregnant at a young age is
really hard my first pregnancy I was 14
also but I was forced to have an abortion.
4 years later 18 years old here I am
pregnant 35 weeks this time my mom was
here and she was the first person I told
besides my boyfriend of course. But I
was in school took the test and I came
home and told her right away she got
really upset and was crying but it didnt
take her long at all to say ok sheila its
time to get down to business we need to
get doctors appointments take care of your
self and all that loving stuff the person
you need most during pregnancy I would say
is your mom because you can talk to her
about anything and she will tell you
anything she might get on your nerves
sometimes but moms opinon is always best.
Also with me being young and my boyfriend
too he reacted kind of weird. He didnt
really say anything and tryed to avoid me
for a little while they do it because they
are scared and dont know what to do I have
a friend going through it now but he got
over it in about 2 weeks and said sorry he
was just scared and
he should stick with you I
hope he is a good boyfriend because being
a single mom at your age could be very
hard so I would suggest to start getting
help now from anyone, get your
appointments in, and tell your mom!
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005
Posts: 788
Location: US
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Mom
Posted: 10-03-05 06:01am
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So how are you feeling now? I havent
heard from you in a while? Are you ok?
What is going on with your mom is it ok?
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whyte_kissez
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2005
Posts: 87
Location: Minnesota
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Posted: 10-03-05 19:09pm
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Hey... I agree with liteskinshorte dont
stress urself its bad for the baby. Im 17
and 4 months pregnant.. You need to tell
your mom.. So you can get into the doctor
to make sure everything is ok. I was
scared as hell to tell my mom, because I
knew it would hurt her and make her upset.
But I did it and she was okay. Your mom
will get use to it. But shes also more
supportive towards me because the father
of my baby wants nothin to do with me or
the baby. So good luck! Buh bi!! Best
wishes!
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mommy2B06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2005
Posts: 150
Location: Texas
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Posted: 10-03-05 20:21pm
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Im 17 and 27 weeks pregnant.. U need to
tell ur mom..It will be ok.
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kacy_82
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Oct 2005
Posts: 32
Location: British Columbia
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Posted: 10-15-05 14:09pm
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Well I don't think everyone should be so
hard on her, she came here looking for
some advice and she can't go back now and
undo what has happend. I'm sure she knows
that she should have waited and tryed to
be more safe.
I do think you should tell your mom, she
is the one person that a girl needs the
most at a time like this. I hope all goes
well for you and everything works out.
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craziechic19
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Oct 2005
Posts: 1
Location: Tyler ,Texas
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15 And Pregnant
Posted: 10-16-05 17:50pm
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Look, I know how hard it is to be
pregnant. I have already had 2
miscarriages, and its not an easy thing.
The first time I was pregnant, I was
freaking scared that my family would
disown me. But you know god would never
give you something that you cant handle.
So just look at it as gods precious gift.
God blesss all yall mothers and mothers to
be.
Kacie
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callie8323
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2004
Posts: 231
Location: nc
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Baby
Posted: 10-17-05 18:28pm
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Im 21 w/ my first baby its so hard and the
postpardum is harder but don't abort this
baby its not the childs falt. It will be
hard but uou had sex this is what happens.
Good luck
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Mindy621
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005
Posts: 2
Location: Ohio
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Dont Judge!
Posted: 10-18-05 20:21pm
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I feel for you..I'm not 14...But I know
how you feel. Plus, no one should be
judging you on your age..Anyone that has
sex has a chance to get preg! There are a
lot of things that can help you out..Such
as wic..And things like that..Just go to
the doctor and she will help you find
things..And if your mom isnt that
stable..Then see if there are things
called low income housing around where you
live..And they go off of your income..Or
your boyfriends..And thats all you have to
pay for rent..And you will have a better
place for your baby. God made you
pregnent for a reason..So stay strong!
I'm 20 and have a 18 mon. Old..And the
dad was never around..So I know how it is.
If you need someone to talk to..My e-mail
address is bo
ngo_monkey_99@yahoo.Com e-mail me
anytime!
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Mommie Dearest
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Oct 2005
Posts: 123
Location: BARBADOS
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Re: Im Pregnant And 14
Posted: 10-20-05 13:21pm
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| baby_gal_zoe
wrote: | | :cry: im pregnant and 14 I
need help I live alone with my mum my
boyffriend knows and she doesnt but shes
very unstable at themoment and I cant tell
her I want to keep my baby and so does my
boyfriend please help me please im scared
???? :!:
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we aren't god and none of us was put here
to judge you. I always say you never feel
the pinch unless you stand in the man's
shoe. I have an 11 year old daughter and
as much as I preach to her, mistakes do
happen. I wudn't want for her to be
pregnant at 14 or 16, that's for sure, but
that doesn't mean that I am going to
condemn her or blame her either, that in
itself is a receipe for diaster.
So all I can tell you is, that being a
mother at any age is a challange. Babies
are cute and cuddly when they belong to
someone else, when they are yours to keep
forever, just know that from here on in,
your life has taken on, although one of
the most beautiful, it is a very drastic
and complicated change. It will no longer
be just you, but you and your baby and for
a long time to come, every decision you
make in your life will affect you and that
child, so make them wisely. Having a
child is something that even married
couples think long and hard about, becuz
babies do disrupt your life, as sweet and
as soft and as adoreable as they are. I
just want you to be prepared for the
challange that lies ahead of you and your
boyfriend. They aren't like books that
you can put on a shelf and leave it there
when you get fed up with it and then go
back to it when you have time. They are
with you forever. So if you are really
sure that having this baby is what you
want, then you need to talk to you mother.
At your age you need to have all the
support that you can mustor, so hang in
there and do the right thing for you and
your baby, and nothing beats the power fo
prayer I have learnt although I am not a
christian, get on your knees and ask a
question. He will deliver it to you and
you will know.
Wish you all the best and let me know how
things turned out for you.
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