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Q: Emotional Wreck
asked by: britney0581 on September 22nd, 2005
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Hi, I was wondering if it is normal to be very emotional after having a miscarriage. Not just emotional about the loss of my child, but about stupid things. I get so upset(not angry, but sad) when my fiancee leaves even if its just for a moment. Everytime he leaves the house I cry uncontrollably although I know he's coming back. I cant help it. Why is this? Thanks so much
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SadMommy
replied on September 22nd, 2005
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I Hope Normal
I really hope it is normal because I am the same way. I feel crazy right now cause I am so sensitive to everything. I had a d&c one month ago yesterday. I had a altrasound done so I have pictures and I bought a frame. They are hanging on my wall infront of my bed. I think it gets better though. I feel better then I did last week, it gives me comfort to know I will one day have a baby in my arms. I will forever miss this one though.

I am sorry you are feeling like this, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Is your husband there for you to talk to?

Love,

tammy
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britney0581
replied on September 22nd, 2005
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My Fiancee
My fiancee is here for me but he can't be here all of the time. He goes to work and although he practically lives with me, he doesn't technically live with me so its very hard for me to be without him here. Plus he is going through a major time right now and I have to comfort him as well as he has to comfort me. He is very worried about my health becuase I am still having severe stomach pains and a little bleeding and I miscarried a little over two weeks ago. And also I have asthma and possibly diabetes and could pass out so easily from those two things plus the loss of blood, so he is very concerned for me right now. When he leaves a cry so hard..And im worried about my emotions..Am I being too emotional..Should I just shut up...Or is it okay to be so upset
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SadMommy
replied on September 22nd, 2005
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Normal
We have to remember not to let this run our lives. I am getting stronger with each day that passes, I think you will too.

I also was still bleeding, only until last week did I stop and I started what I think is my first real period today.

As for being emotional, I cry for anything, it hurts to smile sometimes I am so disapointed.

Do you have other children? How old are you? Are you planning on trying again?

Best wishes,

tammy
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fatfamily02
replied on September 22nd, 2005
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Post partum depression if from the sudden loss of all the hormones that were running thru your body as pregnant--i dont see why that might not be the case in miscarriage too.. I really think that might be a lot of it.

God bless you all

speedy recovery I pray amen
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SadMommy
replied on September 22nd, 2005
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That Makes Sense.
That makes sense to me, we were still pregnant whether we had a healthy baby or not huh. Maybe that is why I am starting to feel better, cause my hormones are going back to normal?
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fatfamily02
replied on September 22nd, 2005
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Yep I bet its part of the problem!! Good luck you girls
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