Sexual Health - Women Forum

Well...Lol im a man but I know I can help you out with this one :)

in order to have good sex, it doesnt just have to do with your mans penis or stimulation of your vagina or clit. You have to stimulate all your senses. :d

here's some tips that can help make your nights more....Pleasurable :)

-eat sweet foods, like fruits. Passionfruit (yum!), starfruit, strawberries, cherries (hehe), mango, papaya, guava....All what you could consider "sexy" foods to eat before and after sex

-have a nice scent in the air. Before my girl and I make love we always burn some incense with a very light scent. Preferably something slightly spicy with a sweet smell to it like rose scented, ocean, jasmine, etc

-dont be afraid to show off your body. My girlfriend is beautiful and in good shape but im a little fat with boobs and a gut :-p I dont mind letting her touch me cuz she loves me. Don't be shy is the key thing! Touch his chest, neck, shoulders, the insides of his thighs, maybe his genitals occasionally, touch his hips, kiss his neck, maybe nibble on him a little or bite him, give him little kisses up his neck to his ear and whisper quietly to him, maybe kiss his ear. Allow the same for yourself! Have him gently suck or kiss your breasts, put a little pressure on your hips, let his hands go between your legs a little or let him squeeze your thighs gently. Remember, good foreplay is important to good sex! The more aroused you are, the better :d I cant stress that enough

-colors even have an effect on this. Reds, blues, purples, blacks-they all are very sexy and its not just your curtains or sheets that have to be that color. Your langerie is a wonderful thing to change colors ;)

-have him say sweet things to you, listen to some soft music, or talk a little before and after sex. Dont say stuff like "im gonna medical question you" or "its gonna be rough baby" you have to be sweet. Romantic sex is the best!! Of course it all depends on who you are and your style :-p

-finally the way he stimulates your vagina is another key thing here. Idk if you know where your gspot is but dont be afraid to guide him a little if he needs it. I've found not all women have one g-spot but can have many. Usually the main one is between 1 to 3 inches in on top and it feels like a wet sponge. That's your clitoral sponge. Let his penis ride against that in whatever manner you want. It'll harden up, your vagina will tighten and you may feel like urinating (thats your cum building up). Also let him rub your clitoris while he makes love to you. It may excite you a little more.

If you need more help, or tips, just post again or email me.

Kymera_ gr7@yahoo.Com
-chris :)

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