What are you asking? She either has it or she dosnt there is no other opption. If she is pregnant and you are wanting her to not be well then that is abortion. What do you mean she followed the diretions. All you do is put the patch on and thats that.

they give you 4 patches..You gotta replace them each week on the same day..She pretty much followed those instructions to the hour

i've hear there is a pill that kills the embrio in the first month of pregnancy...I dont know if its true...Hence why I am asking...We've decided that if this pill doesnt exist..We will keep this baby

The pill is abortion...No matter how you look at it....I would go to the abortion forum because there are a lot of people here (myself included) who are and have been trying to get pregnant.

Ok so your saying she got preg on the patch? Ok actually I will prob regreat this but there is a pill. You have to go to some kind of clinc. I am not for abortion cause that is what it is but I understand everyone has to make there own dections. How old are you to?


I got preg on the patch too. Lol I did what I was suppost to also and the next thing I know I am a month pregnant like your girlfriend.

she's 19 and i'm 21

Ok. I am 20 and my hubby is 25. So what are you all going to do? I know this must be hard on the both of you.

it is specially with a long distance relationship

w've been together for about a year...She lives in tx and I in fl...Her parent dont approve of me at all...I love her to death...And this has us both really scared

Love her, well marry and someone has to relocate right?? Seems logical to me --you are both adults right. Please dont have abortion. There are so many who cant have a baby--adoption is a possibility. Im not telling you what to do just suggesting, but please I beg you dont abort the baby.

Good luck

Wow I just got dayschaview I hope that’s is how you spell it. Ok I feel like I am reliving my life all over again. That is the way it was with me and my husband to. We got together three yrs ago I was 18 and he was 22 just fixing to be 23 anyway my parents like him at first then the next thing I know they find out that were sleeping together and this man has taken there daughters virginity and they hate him. Well several months later I found out I was pregnant. Well you know what hit the fan. They blew up. His parents on the other hand were like well are you sure and is she ok. So they were on our side. Well needless to say he up and decided for me to go to that clinic I was telling you about and get that pill. I told him hell no if I was old enough to be having unprotected sex then I was old enough to have the baby. Well he finally cooled down and realized I was right. But unfortunately I lost the baby anyways.

We decided that even if our parents didn’t approve that was fine cause we were together and that was all that mattered and if our parents truly loved us eventually they would approve. Well here I am fixing to have our first full term baby in a couple of weeks and our parents love us. The only problem there is they hate each other. Lol anyway. So what I am trying to say is if you too really care about each other and you want this baby then who cares if her parents hate you. Trust me I have been there.

Most parents come around if you decide to have the baby and keep it. Marry the girl if you love her. Eventually they relize that you not a little boy anymore. They'll come around. I'm against abortion myself but I am prochioce but really i'd rather carry a child and give it for adoption rather then kill it.

Amen!!!!