Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 116 Location: rhode island
Gurls Pleasee Help... Posted: 09-24-05 19:40pm
~*~well hey guys...Im wasnt to sure where
to post this...But here it goes...Im gonna
be 32weeks on tuesday the 27...N as alot
of u ladies know my sons father left us
when I was about 3 months prego...But
lately ive been talken to my ex(not my
sons father) me and my ex have allways
been really close but the whole thing is
when I met him I never thought id allways
like him...(love him)...So I kinda did a
stupid thing n lied about my age...He now
belives im 19 when im 17...But the whole
thing is tryn to tell him in 17 im so
scared he wants to by my sons father...N
he wants to be in the room when I
deliver...But im worried there going to
ask or say my age n hes gonna have a break
down....Hes 27...Im 17...But he belive im
19...N I want to be with him belive me I
want to be with him...He is the worlds
best guy...Hes allways been there for me
threw anythingggg.....N now I love for him
to be my sons father...But I dont no how
to tell him of my age...Can anyyyyy of u
kind sweet hearted ladies help me out...
Pleaseee...Im hurten deep down n id like
some advice on this please n I thank u all
who answer sooo much...Thank u....
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Not a Teen Posted: 09-24-05 20:05pm
Hi I am not a teen but I still thought I
would try to help you. I am 20yrs old.
Trust me sweetie you don’t need the guy
that left. If he can’t see what a
miracle you are carrying then he isn't
worth your time.
Ok now to the 27 yr old guy. Ok I
don’t really know what to tell you but
that you need to tell him how old you are.
It isn't fare to him or you. I don’t
personally care about your alls age. But
I think that he should know the truth. I
can say from experience that it isn’t
easy to tell the man you love you are not
the age he thinks you are. The only thing
different was I never told him how old I
was cause I thought he knew cause our boss
got us hooked up and come to find out my
boss lied about my age. So one night
after weeks of dating I ask him to go to
prom with me and he was like what in the
hell are you talking about. I thought
that you were in college. Well that was
true I was a senior in high school but
taking college classes to. I was 18 and
he was 22. Anyway after that night I
didn’t expect him to stay with me well
anyway he did. And now we are married and
expecting our first child in a couple of
weeks.
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loneytearz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 116 Location: rhode island
Posted: 09-24-05 20:15pm
Thank u hunnie...U helped me somewhat...I
just dont no how to open up n tell him...I
mean im kinda hopen it wont matta n hell
be like well w/e but on the other hand I
dont think he will...Im so so scared to
tell him...But thank u soo much ya reply
helped me...=-)thank u
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
? Posted: 09-24-05 20:18pm
Sweet heart you need to tell him. If he
is what I am thinking from what you say
then he will understand.
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Happiness03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 333
Posted: 09-25-05 10:15am
Yes, you definitely need to tell him. You
need to just start the conversation and
say something like, "i made the mistake of
lying to you about my age...". Just let
him know you are scared to lose a love
like him because you want more than
anything for him to be a part of you and
your baby's life.
Just be prepared, he is going to be upset
at first. A lie is a lie, and you will
just have to be honest with yourself and
let him know that, because really, who
likes to be lied to? Just reverse the
situation to where you are in his place,
and that will help you to empathise with
his feelings. Good luck to you!
