Hey everyone! My bf of 8 months & I
broke up about 2 weeks ago now, and it is
really hard, he was my first love, first
guy I had sex with etc. Well, now i'm
with this guy named anthony, and he's been
there for me through the whole break up
with my ex. I love him, but my ex still
has my heart in his hands. I love him,
but when we were together he was getting
to the point where he would get really mad
at me & start yelling and cussing me
out. My bf now would never ever do this,
he is the sweetest guy i've ever met. I
really do miss my ex, and we do talk still
everyday & I do still tell him I love
him. My bf now though is so amazing, I
couldn't imagine how I would've gotten
this far without him. I'm soo confused,
I don't know what to do. Someone help!!
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DinSf2003
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 3 Location: San Francisco
the Bad Boy Wins Again Posted: 09-30-05 00:25am
Women always love the bad boys- I have so
many nice guy friends and they never get
laid. I tell them to treat health forum
like caca and they will get tons of ass
but they just can't do it. The guys I
know who dump the most jonny juice are the
ones who verbally or phisically abuse
their women. The hottest girl that I
have ever met (she could have any nice and
or rich guy she wanted) was hung up on
this punk ugly ass kid for year because he
treated her like crap cheated on her and
beat the caca out of her weekly.
Anyway sounds like you are another dumb
health forum who is only attracted to the
guys that treat her like caca. You like
the bad boy because he is a challenge,
unpredictable, and probably very emotional
in his blow ups. Let me guess, you think
you can help him and change him into a
good boyfriend. Wake up dunce. You are
a gum dumpster to this guy. That being
said, you are never going to be happy with
the nice guy. Leave them both and find a
new bad boy who treats you just well
enough to keep you happy. Moral of the
story- its not wrong to beat your health
forum if they really want you to do it-
are you listening nice guys?
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Excuse Me! Posted: 09-30-05 19:01pm
Excuse me but I did not like what you
said, and you can go f*ck yurself for all
I care, I asked for advice, not for some
health question to tell me how dumb I
am..And don't even compare me to other
girls if you don't know me..Get a doing it
life
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Re: the Bad Boy Wins Again Posted: 10-03-05 16:14pm
dinsf2003
wrote:
women always love the bad
boys- I have so many nice guy friends and
they never get laid. I tell them to
treat health questiones like health
question and they will get tons of ass but
they just can't do it. The guys I know
who dump the most jonny juice are the ones
who verbally or phisically abuse their
women. The hottest girl that I have
ever met (she could have any nice and or
rich guy she wanted) was hung up on this
punk ugly ass kid for year because he
treated her like crap cheated on her and
beat the health question out of her
weekly.
Anyway sounds like you are another dumb
health question who is only attracted to
the guys that treat her like health
question. You like the bad boy because
he is a challenge, unpredictable, and
probably very emotional in his blow ups.
Let me guess, you think you can help him
and change him into a good boyfriend.
Wake up dunce. You are a gum dumpster
to this guy. That being said, you are
never going to be happy with the nice guy.
Leave them both and find a new bad boy
who treats you just well enough to keep
you happy. Moral of the story- its not
wrong to beat your health question if they
really want you to do it- are you
listening nice
guys?
the dumba** is wrong again!!! You have no
idea what you are talking about!!! Ha ha
ha ha ha ha ha...You are such a
loser...And because of that, you will
never be in a happy serious
relationship...You'll die alone being the
loser you are!!! For your
information...I'v dated both the bad boy
and the nice guy...And i'm now happily
married and have a baby with the nice
guy!!! What the hell do you know???
Obviously not much!!! You go ahead and
keep treating women like sh*t...It'll come
back to bit you in the a**!!! Loser!!!!
Teresa
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-03-05 16:29pm
Okay...Now i'll give you some advice
babyg!! Sorry had to vent there for a
sec!!! Lol!!! Don't pay any attention
to that fool!! I was with my first love
for 2 years when we broke up and it took
me 2 years to get over him. I was 15-16
yrs old and he was my first also. He
wasn't a bad boyfriend though he did have
the temper just like your ex!! Anyways
when we broke up, he started dating
someone else and it broke my heart....So I
started dating someone else. I tried to
convince myslef that I really loved my new
boyfriend (knowing that my heart belonged
to my ex) and started sleeping with
him...Big mistake!! I thought that if I
told myslef I loved my new guy and had sex
with him i'd start to feel for him what I
flet for my ex. Nope...Didn't happen not
with him or anyone I dated for the next
year. I wouldn't alow myslef to get over
him. I always called him and went to see
him and that doesn't work when you are
trying to get over someone. How old are
you...If you don't mind me asking??? I
really don't think that you can love
soemone when your heart belongs to someone
else....So my question to you is do you
really love your new guy?? Or, are you
just trying to convince yourself that you
do??? Look, i'll be honest with
you...You have a long road ahead of you if
you want to get over this guy becasue he
was your first love and the first guy you
had sex with. First thing you gotta do
is .S.T.O.P talking to him everyday and
you really really really gotta stop
telling him you love him (even though you
do)!!! Don't depend on other guys to get
you over him, because that wont work and
don't start sleeping with other guys cause
that wont work either. Lean on your girl
friends and stay busy...Don't sit around
at home thinking of him. You'll be fine
after a little while, I was. Two years
after my ex and I broke up, I met and feel
in love with the man who is now my
husband. As soon as you met the guy
you're going to marry, you'll realize that
the feeling you had for your ex was
nothing. You will get trough this...I
promise...Just give youself the chance!!!
Good luck...And i'm here if you need to
talk!!
Teresa
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Thanks! Posted: 10-04-05 18:48pm
Thanks for the advice teresa! I'm 16
years old..Just so you know :) my ex isn't
dating anyone cause he says i'm the only
one for him which I understand him saying
that, we've only been broken up for 3
weeks. I do really care about my new bf
a lot, he is a great guy, but yeah to be
honest I think I am trying to convince
myself that I love him..Maybe I do love
him but it's not the type of love where I
would spend the rest of my life with him.
He's wanting to take things wayy to fast,
he's talked about engagement & I was
like woahh we haven't even been together
for a month. My ex & I had just
started talking about that & we were
together for 8 months. I've been
thinking about this & there is no way
I could stop talking to my ex or push him
out of my life, no way..I've been talkin
to my best friend about it 2 & she
really loved my ex *as a brother/sister
love* & that means a lot to me that
they get along great, and my new bf she
used to get along with until she annoyed
him to much & he told her to stop
talking to her..You have to be able to get
along with my best friend to be with me,
you know? I really do think i'm supposed
to be with my ex, he cries to me all the
time about wanting to be with me, and how
there is no other girl in this world like
me. I know he means it cause if he
didn't he wouldn't be sticking around this
long trying to be with me. I love him.
As for my bf now, he's always questioning
me about my feelings, that gets to me
after awhile. He says he isn't mad or
anything that I talk to my ex but he's
always asking me if I love my ex more then
him, or if I care about my ex more then
him. I can't do that cause I do love my
ex more then him, he's been in my life for
over 2 years now. I look around
everywhere & all's I see is my
ex..Memories, pictures, gifts..I haven't
even told my family about us breaking up
cause they love him sooo much, and his
family loves me...We all get along great.
I can't live without him..He is the one,
I can feel it. Even though I am only
16..
What do you think??
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-05-05 15:08pm
I think that you are head over heels in
love (and it doesn't matter if you are ony
16)!!! I also thik that you guys can work
past your diffrences and be together!!!
It sounds to me like you are both love
sick. Stop suffering and stop making him
suffer...You two belong together. I had
no idea that you cared this deeply for him
or I would have made my post a little
diffrent!!! Lol!!! Good luck girl!!!
Follow your heart above all else.
Teresa
white
get back to me soon and let me know what
happens!!!
Please take him back soon, because if you
don't...You could lose him forever.
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 10-06-05 17:52pm
Hey girlie! I did talk to my ex last
night about 'us' & he really has been
trying to change for me. All the feelings
I had when we first got together are
smacking me in the face, it feels like i'm
falling in love with him all over again,
it's awesome! I member on my b-day last
month I walked up to him & he just put
his arms around me & I asked him what
he would say if I asked him back out, and
he started crying..That answered my
question. I could tell he was cryin
inside all day that day, once a few tears
fell dow his cheek..That was the first
time we saw each other since we broke up.
I tell ya it killed me inside, wow..Then
that night we, you know did it haha, and
it made it worse but yeah there's somethin
bout this guy I can't resist..We're so
much alike, wow! We know every little
thing about each other & he said he
has a special gift for me & I know
it's a engagement ring & he's plannin
on proposing in front of all our
family..I'll bawl like a baby, seriously I
can't wait till the day though when that
happens. Thanks for all the advice!! I
feel so much happier now we're back
together..He's my everything!!
