Pregnancy Depression - I Need Someone Posted: 09-30-05 02:32am
:cry: :cry: im now 34 weeks and 3 days
and my whole pregnancy I have been so
lonley my boyfriend went into basic
training my 3rd 17th week and he was there
forever and when he was supposed to come
home it turns out he had to stay longer
and he might not even be back for the
delivery and my mom got locked up my 20th
week and him and my mom are the two people
that I was looking forward to being with
me through this and its just hitting me
how depressed I am I realized I was upset
but my nurse came and she noticed and she
sent me to a theripist and now I have to
see her twice a week this is all happening
too fast its scaring me and my boyfriend
hasnt contacted me in 3 weeks and im
panicing someone please I just graduated
from high school last year and I lost
contact of just about everyone so my
friends are not here niether I need
someone to boost me up thanks... :cry:
~sheila
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 09-30-05 05:25am
Aw sweetie, depression is common during
pregnancy and it makes it even harder when
the people you want around yuo are not
around. My mom never saw me pregnant and
has still not met my son who is almost 3
1/2months old now. She lives on the
other side of the ocuntry and is ill so it
is hard for her to travel. I know here,
they have baby/mama pre-natal classes,
where you learn excercises, cooking
etcc... It just helps to meet other
preggos too. Find out if they have
somethign like that inyour area. Will
your mom be out of jail before the baby
comes?? As for your bf, is there a way
you can contact someone to find out if he
is safe? Keep coming here too, it can be
a great place for support.
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Support Posted: 09-30-05 06:50am
I dont really know what to say except I am
here for you if you need someone to talk
to. I know what its like not to have
support while being pregnant. When I was
younger I got pregnant and lost the baby
all by myself. So really hunny if you
will keep coming here you will have all of
our support.
Thanks so much your replys made me cry its
so nice to know that someone you dont even
know can be there for you and talk to you
my mom doesnt know last time I seen her
she said she might and she might not she
is not sure and I talked to my boyfriends
recruiter today she said that in a.I.T he
is alwasy busy so its hard for him to find
time to write or call I really hope he
does soon though. But I will definatily
see if we have classes like that here i'll
ask my doctor next time I have an
appointment..Again thank you so much for
being there for me and writing to me I
really need it..Thank you :)
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Welcome Posted: 10-02-05 01:11am
Your welcome that is what this site is
for, people like me to help people when in
need.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 10-02-05 05:52am
Well at least you know your bf is safe!
And you can even phone places like your
local community centre or city to find out
about any prenatal classes.
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 10-02-05 08:33am
Another thing if you can't get into
prenatal classes yet you could always join
a church if you want. You make some
freinds that way too. Its a good place
normally they have services on wed. And
sundays so 2 days a week being around
other ppl makes you feel less lonely too.
Plus it has a way of up lifting your
spirt and makes you feel better about your
self. I know I hated chuch when I was a
teen, loved it as a child and just now
started taking my kids on wed. And I go
everyonce in a while. I still read the
bible and everything I just got preached
at as a kid so its kinda hard for me to
sit and listen to a preacher though I do
enjoy it. Sometimes I wish I could join
my kids in their classes.
