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gumby5647
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Yea? Or Nay? Here's the Senario...
Posted: 09-30-05 09:09am
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We have unprotected sex at 3am saturday
morning. She starts freaking out because
she was suppose to have her period that
day or sunday. Sunday she takes a store
test that comes out positive, which causes
her to freak out even more. Thursday she
feels sick and goes to the doctor for
strep throat. While doing blood work the
doc finds the pregnancy by accident.
All this within a week of sex
so what's the verdict here?
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angel6932
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Ill Try to Help
Posted: 09-30-05 09:12am
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Ok bare with me on this one ok. This the
first time you have had unprotected sex?
Have you seen the test?
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gumby5647
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 09-30-05 09:13am
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Yes, it was the first time we had
unprotected sex. No, I haven't seen
either result....She lives about 40 mins
away....
Actually,....She "claimed" to be a
virgin...
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Sorry
Posted: 09-30-05 09:22am
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Ok first make her take another one but in
all reality she wouldnt be abel to find
out 1 day after having sex sorry. I hate
to be the barrier of bad news but it might
be shes liying or she could be and its not
yours. See if this had happend about
three weeks then I would believe her but
see none of it makes since to me.
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gumby5647
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 09-30-05 09:24am
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None of its making sense to me either.
But she claims that i'm the only guy she's
ever slept with....
What do I need to do? Am I on a tight
time line? When should she retest?
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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I Am Really Sorry
Posted: 09-30-05 09:34am
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As soon as you see her dont let her wait
anymore. If it comes out neg then you
know she was lying about that. Now if it
comes out pos. Then I am sorry its not
yours unless you have some supper strong
sperm. But I have never known of someone
being abel to test the morning after and
it be ++. Trust me I would have done it
if that were true.
I cant really tell you what to do from
there but this is pretty much your facts
now you have to decide from the two
answers you get if you want to continue
being with her..
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gumby5647
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Posted: 09-30-05 09:47am
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Which test should I have her do?
Another store test? Or should I take her
to my doctor and have him do blood work?
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jennyfur01
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Posted: 09-30-05 10:10am
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Id have her take a store test in front of
u
btw....Why was the dr doing blood work for
strep throat? Ive always just had the
throat culture...Never heard of blood work
for it
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angel6932
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Posted: 09-30-05 10:27am
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Sorry it took so long. Yes I would have
her do a first responce test in front of
you. I didnt really catch that I have
never heard of that either. I am so sorry
that she is putting you through all of
these lies..
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gumby5647
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 09-30-05 10:32am
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Heh, it's amazing how something like this
can really uh renew your relationship with
god..
*edit* why won't the board software let me
keep the "g" in god capitalized?
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angel6932
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Posted: 09-30-05 10:34am
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Amen.. I already know.. Trust me since I
have been pg he has been my best friend
more than normal I always had been close
but now really close
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gumby5647
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 09-30-05 10:40am
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I had really lost my way a couple years
ago,...And just recently started reading
my bible again.....And then this happened.
:(
i made a vow with him, that if he gets me
through this, I won't lye with another
woman again unless she's my wife.
(which is what I should have done in the
first place, I know).
You've all be great. You've only re
confirmed what everyone else has been
telling me.
If anyone wants to chat with me more you
can im me at:
aim: bmichel5581
yahoo: gumby5647
thanks!
*edit* capitalized!
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posted: 09-30-05 10:44am
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I am really sorry that you have to deal
with this. You know you have made me
rember how I use to be then god got a hold
of me and bam I changed. For the better.
I was told several yrs ago after an
unforcnate accident that I would never
have kids. Well here I am today 38 weeks
pregnant. Yes like you too I made the vow
with god if he would just heal me I would
promise to raise my kids in church and do
the things I believed was right. Once
again he has blessed me with a loving
husband and a baby girl on the way.. He
really will help you if you call on him..
That is why he is my best friend well
besides my hubby..
Can I ask something you seem very
intelligent how old are you??
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posted: 10-02-05 14:13pm
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BabyGirl05
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Posted: 10-02-05 15:41pm
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No she couldn't have gotten a positive
test result so soon
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gumby5647
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Posted: 10-02-05 16:11pm
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Here's all the intel i've gathered so
far.
Her last period was 8/26. She was
supposed to start the sunday (day after)
we have sex. She took a store test that
day....Was positive. Took another store
test monday....Positive. Took another
store test tuesday....Positive. Thursday
she went in to the doctor...For
strep/flu/allergies (who knows)...And
while checking for mono they discovered
the pregnancy. Doc conveniently didn't
tell her how far along she was. But she
imagened "only a couple of days along".
:roll:
she text'd me a message today saying she
took another store test....Positive.
I've sent both online convo's I had with
her to angelsomebody in this thread.
Maybe she could put an outsiders
perspective on it...
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lesliepei
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 10-02-05 19:21pm
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If her last period started on august 26th,
then she would have ovulated somewhere
around the 9th of september. And it is
absolutely impossible to have a positive
pregnancy test the day after unprotected
sex. It takes a few days for the egg to
make its way to the uterus, then has to
find a cozy place to implant. And only
then does it start making hcg (the hormone
that the pregnancy tests test for). Then
it takes almost a week for the hormone
levels to be high enough for a home test
to detect. By the way, the egg is only
good for 12-24 hours after being released.
I truly feel you are being totally
played on this one. Good luck and i'd be
getting myself a lawyer if I were you
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Info
Posted: 10-02-05 21:44pm
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| gumby5647
wrote: | here's all the intel i've
gathered so far.
Her last period was 8/26. She was
supposed to start the sunday (day after)
we have sex. She took a store test that
day....Was positive. Took another store
test monday....Positive. Took another
store test tuesday....Positive.
Thursday she went in to the doctor...For
strep/flu/allergies (who knows)...And
while checking for mono they discovered
the pregnancy. Doc conveniently didn't
tell her how far along she was. But she
imagened "only a couple of days along".
:roll:
she text'd me a message today saying she
took another store test....Positive.
I've sent both online convo's I had with
her to angelsomebody in this thread.
Maybe she could put an outsiders
perspective on
it... |
the name is angel6932.... I am just
teasing you by saying it like that..
I still have all of the info and yea I
still say she is lying first and formost
you cant be only a couple of days pregnant
by test.. She really need to growup.. I
have already told you. Secondly check
your private message I sent you one. Then
I sent you another one.
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gumby5647
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 10-02-05 21:58pm
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Small update...
In the convo I had with her...She said the
doc was testing for mono because she had
it earlier this year.
I've just been informed by my girl friend
that mono will stay in your blood for at
least a year before your body completely
"recovers" from it....
Yay...More evidence against her.
At this point in time i'm trying to decide
what to do.
I could just walk away and ignore her text
messages and delete the current yahoo name
I talk to her under....
Or...
I can follow through with my plan. Go
down and see her...Make her take a store
test infront of me....Then, try and make
an appointment for tuesday with my doctor
and see what he has to say. Btw, tuesay
will be the 10th day since we had sex.
Saturday sept 24...Tuesday oct 4th.
If anyone wants to read the yahoo
convo's...Just shoot me an email and i'll
email them to you....
Bmiche
l5581@gmail.Com
bm
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gumby5647
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 10-02-05 22:53pm
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I dont know much about store tests and
whatnot.....But is there any reason or way
they could come out positive even though a
person isn't really preg?
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