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angel6932
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Posted: 10-03-05 05:59am
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Yes sometimes a woman can can have high
hormone level and it come out pos but
however the blood test would show the
truth. I am so sorry that she is like
this.. I think that your plan is a good
one my only fear is that what if she
really is pg and its not yours? I worry
about you. Will you be ok?
All test are the same but the one that I
like the best is first responce cause it
will tell you as soon as up to five days
before your missed period and since she
hasnt had one then it would defintly show
you..
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GinACod
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Posted: 10-03-05 10:13am
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Out of curiousity a blood test can show
pos after a week can't it or is it 2
weeks? Just wondering but the urine
tests she shouldn't be passing until 3
weeks or so unless she does have a high
hormone count to begin with.. Sorry
kinda wondering here... I'd confrount
her about it all. And see if you can get
any opion from her doctor about it. Mono
is a kissing thing though you can get it
from shareing a cup and what not too.
But as for the lieing she shouldn't be
doing that. Ask her to be straight up
with you. I would talk to "a doc" and
see what he would say about when you would
past a blood pg test how many weeks and so
forth. Then also on a urine test. Get
all your facts then confront her about the
lieing to you and everything. Cause it
does sound like she is lieing to you.
But atleast if you have all the facts you
can point all that out to her and cheching
her in the lie. Other thing have you
ever had sex with her before (even
protected) cause if you have then it could
be yours. Condums alone are not 100%
effective. So if you have your sperm
could have gotten in and gotten her pg its
been known to happen. Anyway get
everything straightned out then confrount
her. (btw a women can get pg at anytime
not just on ovalation times) gl hun...
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 10-03-05 10:51am
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Firstly no one can be a few days pregnant
casue there are those 2 weeks from period
to conception that is added on to pg
length.
Make her do a test in front of u. If it
is positive it is .N.O.T yours. It's
impossible.
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gumby5647
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Posted: 10-03-05 11:09am
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Hey all.
Monday morning. I just got off the phone
with my doctor's secretary or whomever.
I asked if I could make an appointment for
today because my "gf" thinks she's
pregnate and I wanted the doctor to do
tests. I kindly explained the
situation. How she was supposed to start
her period the day after we had sex...And
that she took tests sunday monday and
tuesday and they all were positive. She
said that the only way they could bring
her in is if she was 10weeks pregnate.
Because it would be impossible for the
doctor to really see anything. And they
asked when her last cycle was (or
something). I told her 8/26. She said
then she probably concieved sometime
around the the middle of september if that
was the case.
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GinACod
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Posted: 10-03-05 11:43am
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Thank you lil blaze.
I would confront her if this was the first
time you ever had sexual (protected or
unprotected) ativities with her. Cause
thats just not right.
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gumby5647
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Posted: 10-03-05 11:53am
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Yes. That satuday was the first time her
and I had sex.
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annaf2001
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Posted: 10-03-05 12:08pm
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Actually as far as I know mono is
something that stays in your bloodstream
for the rest of your life once you get it.
Sounds like she lies a lot. Don't
blaime yourself for this, you just got
mixed up with the wrong girl. And there
no way she can tell by a preg test one day
after, usually it takes those pee test at
least 3 weeks to detect. Sorry she is
playing you. If anything demand a
paternety test after the baby is born and
make her look stupid when she can't
provide evidence even with dna.
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gumby5647
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Posted: 10-03-05 12:10pm
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I was told a paternity test could be done
as early as 10 weeks? Anybody know for
sure?
Bueller?
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annaf2001
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Posted: 10-03-05 13:10pm
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I thought it could only be done after
birth. With a hair test or something.
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Posted: 10-03-05 13:18pm
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Didnt you watch desperate housewives last
week? Lol
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gumby5647
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Posted: 10-03-05 13:35pm
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Well, I got her to admit to lieing about
mono...
Beeblue818: hey
gumby5647: where are you?
Beeblue818: at a place
gumby5647: a place?
Beeblue818: a place where u can use a
comp.
Gumby5647: that you have to pay?
Beeblue818: yeah
beeblue818: so what did u need to talk
about since its costing me money"/
gumby5647: first off. Stop sending me
text messages....Those cost me 10 cents
everytime you send one to me and 10 cents
everytime I send you one
beeblue818: ok
beeblue818: and I didnt go to school casue
I forgot to wash clothes I have no clean
ones and I didnt do my math homework I was
on the phone till like 4 am today
gumby5647: with who?
Gumby5647: I thought you had big tests
today that you couldn't miss?
Beeblue818: I did but I can always remake
them up tom. Besides gives me an extra
day to study and I talked to my x last
night I think we r getting back together
and another friend who has a spot for me
to move into that is better than what I am
living in now
gumby5647: that's good to hear.
Beeblue818: yeah even though I screwed up
he wants me back and I got a friend
looking out after me even though I gotta
move furthur away and I had to finish
court stuff today too
gumby5647: court stuff? For what?
Beeblue818: my emancipation someone filed
the papers the wrong way so it isnt
totally legal so I gotta go back and make
it so I can leave
gumby5647: I thought that was done clear
back in june
beeblue818: yeah I thought it was too the
lawyer filed it wrong and the mistake just
got caught so inorder for me to able to
leave I gotta do all that caca over
gumby5647: how long is that gonna take
beeblue818: I dont know i've been calling
lawyers all morning but no one takes my
kind of case so im sorta stuck but once I
get the process going again it takes less
than a month to get out
gumby5647: so here's the deal. I know
you lieing about the doctor checking to
see if you had mono
beeblue818: y?
Beeblue818: I mean how?
Gumby5647: you had mono earlier this year
right?
Beeblue818: yeah
gumby5647: what did your doctor find? Do
you have mono?
Beeblue818: I did earlier in the yr but
its gone now
gumby5647: thats what she concluded from
the blood test she did
beeblue818: I guess she mainly took them
to tey to c what was making me tired
gumby5647: that's curious. Because mono
stays in your bloodstream for at least a
year...Before your body recovers
completely...Sometimes its stays that way
for life. So, you're lieing about that.
If your doctor knew you had mono earlier
this year it would have been pointless for
her to check for it because it would have
still have shown up....
Gumby5647: so what's really going on here
brittany...
Gumby5647: you keep changing your
story...
Beeblue818: I went in b/c I wasnt feeling
good i've been to the doc. A couple tiems
this year and each time i've been in I was
really tired so she took a blood test to c
what was making me tired but I didnt go in
and ask for a pregnancy test
beeblue818: I didnt have mono earlier I
was just saying that I dont know y I did
but I said it
gumby5647: so if you lied to me about the
mono, how do I know that you aren't lieing
about the pregnancy tests?
Beeblue818: b/c that is the truth u can
aks my best friend who was with me
beeblue818: if u dont believe it
gumby5647: i've talked to two doctors
today. My doc and someone who isn't. I
explained the situation to them....Both of
them said its medically impossible for you
to test positive on a urine test the day
after sex unless you concieved sometime
around the middle of september
beeblue818: well I dont know y it was like
that but I didnt tell u this I have taken
about 8 tests now 7 turned poistive one
negative the two I took yesterday were
both positive
gumby5647: when was the negative one?
Beeblue818: it was on thursday
gumby5647: well, gosh,....You didn't feel
the need to tell me that?
Beeblue818: no b/c all the others have
turned positive one out of 8 big deal
gumby5647: uh yeah, it is. It means that
something is going on. Those tests are
designed to lean more neg than positive.
(that's straight from the doc's office's
mouth). So that show an inconsistancy on
the store tests
gumby5647: here's what I want you to do
gumby5647: go to this page.: http://bloomingt
on.Citysearch.Com/yellowpages/directory/bl
oomington_il/220/402/page1.Html
gumby5647: pick anyone
gumby5647: call them up and make an
appointment
gumby5647: either way my insurance won't
cover you so i'll have to pay it in full
by myself
gumby5647: and tell me what they say
beeblue818: ok so y do I have to make an
appointment out of town casue I dont have
money or gas to go out of town
gumby5647: I because I want you to go to a
doctor here in bloomington. You get the
appointment and i'll come pick you up for
it
gumby5647: pick one....Call them up and
explain the situation ....Tell me what
they say and when the appointment is
beeblue818: ok give me a min. Or so
beeblue818: what day do u want it to be?
Beeblue818: and the time?
Gumby5647: doesn't matter
gumby5647: like I said
beeblue818: is friday ok?
Gumby5647: fine
beeblue818: 10 am?
Gumby5647: fine
beeblue818: ok good
gumby5647: wait
beeblue818: what
gumby5647: I get off at 11...So try and
make it for around 12 or 12:30
beeblue818: ok what about 1
gumby5647: thats fine
beeblue818: good
beeblue818: and I wont have to miss any
school or work
gumby5647: ok
beeblue818: is there anything else u need?
Casue I gotta go back to calling all the
lawyers in the state of illinois to find
one that will help
beeblue818: the appointment is made btw
too
gumby5647: where are we going
beeblue818: 308 saint joseph
dr bloomington, il
gumby5647: what's the name
gumby5647: ok, nevermind I see it
gumby5647: salle calhoun
gumby5647: you told them what the
appointment was for correct?
Beeblue818: um yeah
beeblue818: what was it for like just
checking to c if im preg.?
Gumby5647: is that what you told them?
Beeblue818: yeah
gumby5647: ok
beeblue818: and we better get this stuff
figured out soon b/c within a month or so
im going somewhere else
gumby5647: going somewhere else?
Beeblue818: yeah
gumby5647: you moving out of lincoln?
Beeblue818: um maybe if I can get my
emancipation caca again but it'll be about
a month or more
gumby5647: ok. So the appointment is for
friday at 1
beeblue818: yeah
gumby5647: okie doke
gumby5647: talk to you later then I guess.
(and no more text messages...That's
getting expensvie for me)
beeblue818: ok and I was wondering
gumby5647: only text me if you get your
period
beeblue818: what did u want to do with the
baby casue I want to abort it
gumby5647: I don't want to hear about more
positive tests
gumby5647: lets just go to the doctor
first and see what he has to say
gumby5647: so, i'll let you get back to
your lawyer calling
beeblue818: thanks
gumby5647: talk to you later
beeblue818: yep
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i just called the place to confirm the
appointment.....Oddly enough they didn't
have anything under her name for that
tiem... :roll:
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angel6932
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Lying
Posted: 10-03-05 18:34pm
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I didnt think so... I figured that she
was lying.. Ok this girl is lying threw
her teeth. First of all she couldnt have
had one neg and all the rest be pos I mean
the one the day bf pos and then the next
day neg and the next pos again.. Hunny
just ignore the girl she lying and you
cant get into trouble for that if you know
what I am talking about. Anyway if she is
then its not yours there is no way. I am
sorry that she is putting all of this on
you.
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lesliepei
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I Agree
Posted: 10-03-05 20:27pm
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I agree with angel....If she is pregnant,
there is no possible way that it is your
baby....I would turn away and never look
back... Chalk this one up to a really
good learning experience...For your own
safety, use condoms!!! Good luck and god
bless
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gumby5647
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Posted: 10-03-05 20:53pm
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I had a second convo with her shortly
there after.....
A small part is missing at the
end....Wasn't really important to the
context of the situation.
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beeblue818: I made the appointment 1:15
for friday and u'll have to pull me outta
school in order to get out someone has to
call me out so yeah
gumby5647: what
beeblue818: just call my school and say I
need to get out at noon for a doc.
Appointment that's all u need to say and
then i'll meet u where we met before
gumby5647: I thought that by making it for
1 on friday you wouldn't miss any school
or work?
Gumby5647: you just told me that 2 hours
ago
beeblue818: well I only miss one class and
its choir so it isnt important
beeblue818: well nevermind i'll have
someone else call me out
beeblue818: dont worry about it i'll just
be where we met before at 12:20
gumby5647: i'm picking you up at wendy's
at 12:30
beeblue818: yeah sure
gumby5647: actually, make it 12:15ish.
Beeblue818: ok I can do that
gumby5647: we'll do a store test before we
go
beeblue818: ok
gumby5647: okie doke
beeblue818: thanks
gumby5647: what did you tell don when she
called you
beeblue818: she said u called and told her
to call me she was like do u need to make
an appoint. I said yeah and asked for one
on friday and she told me she couldnt give
info. To u I had to tell u myself
gumby5647: no no....Did she ask you why
you needed to come in?
Beeblue818: no I told her
beeblue818: wel lyeah she kinda did
gumby5647: tell me what you said to her
beeblue818: I just said I needed them to
check if I was preg.
Beeblue818: and she said they could do
that and ok\
gumby5647: ok
gumby5647: so, you lied to me again.
That's strike two now....
Gumby5647: what gives
beeblue818: wehat did I lie about? I made
the appointment
gumby5647: no...No you didn't.
Beeblue818: yeah I did
beeblue818: friday at 1:15
beeblue818: after she called me casue u
told her to
gumby5647: I called osf about 20 mins
after we got offline. Didn't have any
appointment for you. Then, I took a
shower and came to heyworth....Called
again to see if you had made it in the
meantime...You hadn't. At that point,
she asked for your phone number and thats
when she called you
gumby5647: so. You lied
beeblue818: yeah well its made now and
yaeh I did I was gonna call when my
siblings werent around me
gumby5647: so why did you tell me that you
had made it. Why didn't you just say, I
can't make it right now because my
siblings are around?
Beeblue818: b/c I just didnt it was easier
to tell u that
gumby5647: well, either way you try and
paint the picture, you still lied.
Beeblue818: yeah I know but its made now
so its set
gumby5647: what company does your bf work
for?
Beeblue818: I dont know I didnt ask him
specifically but I do know what place he
works in
gumby5647: how long have you been dating
him?
Beeblue818: a year
gumby5647: where'd you meet him
beeblue818: first I met him online then we
got together then he left again but we
never did anything
gumby5647: what place does he work in
beeblue818: city centre in dubai
gumby5647: how long where you with him
before he left
beeblue818: well it was he was already
over there when we met he came to visit me
a few weeks and went back over
beeblue818: he's been there longer than 12
months even though that was minumum its
good pay and he wanted us to have a rich
future
gumby5647: so you repay him by giving up
your virginity to a stranger you've never
met?
Gumby5647: that's nice
beeblue818: yeah well im paying for it now
I lost him
beeblue818: but I dont think for long
gumby5647: you said you were getting back
together
beeblue818: I thought we were he keeps
saying stuff like that then pulling it
away
beeblue818: we've been going back and
forth
gumby5647: so, he's normally from
lincoln?
Beeblue818: no he was orgininally from the
uk then moved here when he was young owns
a place in wi
gumby5647: so he lived in lincoln at one
time?
Beeblue818: no
beeblue818: he never has
gumby5647: how old is he then?
Beeblue818: 20 just turned 14 days after I
turned 17
gumby5647: I see
gumby5647: so he's only met you once
gumby5647: ?
Beeblue818: yeah and he's coming here in
dec. Also
beeblue818: well not lincoln im not going
to b here
gumby5647: where are you goin?
Beeblue818: as soon as my emancipation
goes through im getting an abortion and
going to little rock to a friends
gumby5647: so, if that's your plan then
why are you still talking to me and going
to the doctor on friday?
Beeblue818: b/c it was ur stupid idea to c
if im preg. I cant afford the abort. And
I was going to prove its urs so u could
pay for the abortion
gumby5647: how much is it?
Beeblue818: I dont know maybe like 300
depends where u go
gumby5647: well, if it's mine....I'll help
you pay for an abortion. I'll go 50/50
gumby5647: that seems only fair
beeblue818: ok I agree with half that is
fair
beeblue818: casue this was half my fault
gumby5647: and that's if it's mine. Doc
should be able to tell how far along you
are
gumby5647: friday will have been 13days
beeblue818: yeah
beeblue818: it takes 4 weeks before u can
get an abortion also
gumby5647: actually it's about 2 and a 1/2
weeks
beeblue818: oh well I called and they told
me 4
gumby5647: in nebraska...It's like 2 1/2
weeks
beeblue818: oh well I called a clinic here
and they said 4
gumby5647: either way, the longer you
wait...The more it'll cost
beeblue818: yeah well im going with 4
weeks like they told me
gumby5647: if the doc on friday comes back
negative....Then that's the end of all
this. I'll drive you back and we're
done. If it comes back positive, we'll
see how far along you are. If doc says
more than 2 weeks....It's not mine and
again, we're done. That's the
understanding
beeblue818: yep it is
gumby5647: okie, just so we're clear
beeblue818: we r clear and ur paying for
friday right?
Gumby5647: yup
beeblue818: ok
gumby5647: also, bring your results from
you're doctore with you so this doc can
look them over
beeblue818: yeah I will i'll call her once
I get through with the lawyers I still
have 4 more to call \
gumby5647: ok, you have till friday to get
them
gumby5647: but just bring them
beeblue818: I will
gumby5647: ok
beeblue818: so once we find out friday, is
it ok to abort it?
Beeblue818: I mean with u
beeblue818: casue im to young and my life
hasnt started yet
gumby5647: if the doc can confirm that you
are pregnate and that i'm within the time
frame....We'll go from there yes
beeblue818: ok
gumby5647: if that's the case we'll talk
more after friday
gumby5647: if thats not the case, i'm
taking you back to wendy's and I never
want to see you or hear from you ever
again.
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Posted: 10-04-05 09:36am
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Nother thing that can make a positve test
is ovolation test most pg test dont really
give false positve.
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angel6932
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Posted: 10-04-05 10:51am
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fatfamily02
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Where's My Angel
Posted: 10-04-05 10:55am
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This is mama--you there??
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angel6932
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Posted: 10-04-05 10:57am
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Mama I have missed you so bad... I am
glad you are back..
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 10-04-05 18:37pm
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Gumby, if she's pregnant, it's not yours,
it's most likely her exes and she's just
trying to get you to pay for the abortion
cause they're probably broke lil twits who
f-ed up and now need a way out. When u
go (if) on friday, explain to the doc that
she said she took a test the next day
which came up positive and he'll set her
lying lil head staright. She sounds like
such a chickenhead. I hate health
question b*tches!!!
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