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LiDdLe_MoMmY_704
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Location: Washington, D.C
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a Week And Still No Call....
Posted: 12-02-03 20:25pm
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Hey everyone! Thanks for tha welcome
messages =)
well I forgot who was asking about who my
baby father is. His name is david or
"junior" . He's half black so my family
doesn't approve of us having a kid
together. I'm also one of those
anti-racial people too. I hate
racists....Almost as much as the thought
of abortion. But yea, it's been a week
and he has not called me. I knoe for sure
he wrote down my appointment. I have one
this friday, the 5th and he is supposedly
coming but I havent heard from him at all.
He hasn't called to even see if i'm alive
or dead. I guess he just does't (excuse
my language) give a sh*t. But that's his
loss. I'm moving in with my sister in
june and she is going to help me out. I
decided to keep it. I looked at all my
options and even talked to people at the
pregnancy care center and there is a lot
of help out there so i'm gonna do this!
Tomorrow i'll be 7 or 8 weeks (don't know
for sure but I will friday!) well i'm
gonna go....I'll start posting more now!
I also got my wic yesterday =)!!!
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smith8500
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Location: Louisiana
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Well
Posted: 12-02-03 20:45pm
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Well sweetie,
we are all here to support you along the
way ok. Talk to us anytime you can and we
welcome you to our group!
Love,
chanda
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smith8500
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And
Posted: 12-02-03 20:45pm
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And you are right, his loss. You don't
need him.
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 12-02-03 22:08pm
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I haven't talked to my babys daddy for
quite some while now and I dont want to
...Its the best choice I ever made,
leaving him....Keep ur head high!1
jordan
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 12-03-03 10:33am
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Whats 'wic' cos ive herd so many people
tlk about it
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-03-03 12:17pm
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Thats great you got wic! It helps so
much! You dont need the dad, just get him
for child support!
Liz its like a center and they give you
vouchers or coupons for things that the
baby needs like free milk and cereal and
stuff like that.
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 12-03-03 12:19pm
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Wic also gives u stuff u can get while ur
preggie, like milk,cereal,cheese,fruit
juice and peanut butter!!!~speaking of
which, I need to go get my food!!!!
Jordan
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-03-03 12:32pm
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Your on that too jordan? I didnt know
that. I think wic is the best thing next
to food stamps! Its great for mothers!
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-03-03 13:37pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 12:44pm; edited 1 time in total
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 12-03-03 18:38pm
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'wic' sounds cool! We've got a new scheme
where any1 who's had babies since
september 1st this year gets £250 which is
$431 which I thinks really gud considering
its 4 free!
Liddle mommy-f**k this guy,he aint worth
it.I mean,what kind of a man doesnt bother
2 c if his pregnant girlfriends doing ok?
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LiDdLe_MoMmY_704
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Joined: 01 Dec 2003
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Location: Washington, D.C
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Thanks!
Posted: 12-03-03 22:57pm
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I completely agree!! I actually talked to
him last night and he sed he would help me
but I have no trust in his word so
....We'll see lol and he also sed he would
go to my Dr. Appt. On friday so if he
does that then he'll be a step up. Other
then that everything is good! I'm
outgrowing my pants now =( which sucks so
bad cuz I dunno what ima do for maternity
clothes, what did you all do?? (if u were
low on money)
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-04-03 12:01pm
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Hey you can go to target! I took my sis
every payday and I bought her clothes. I
got her everything and they are really
cheap there. Oh we have a clothing store
here and their maternity pants and shorts
are like 8 bucks, and for me thats good
for whenever I get preggy! You know if I
knew you like I know jeni, id say, send me
like 20 bucks and ill get it for you and
send it to you! Lol, but I dont want to
sound crazy to you! Like ill rob you or
something!
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-04-03 12:03pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 12:45pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-04-03 12:13pm
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Sweats are ok, but when my sis was
pregnant she never wanted to hide it, she
wanted clothes to show off her belly,
which is why I bought things for her. I
think I will do the same, like wear nice
clothes and stuff. Maybe sweats for home!
I once saw this girl and she was pregnant
and she was wearing this low cut dress and
it was so short, she looked terrible.
Like she didnt care she was pregnant, she
just wanted to be sexy. Which she wasnt
because she killed the look.
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-04-03 13:10pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 12:45pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-04-03 13:21pm
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Thats good you guys were happy! You
should be!
It was so great last night jose's boss
gave him 3 becks, which are non-alchoholic
beers! I was so happy! He drank two and
my mom came over and had a few sips and
said it was good. Im all I can buy you
those from now on! He got me mad last
night because he was playing his dump
playstation and I was watching tv and he
was all throwing smart remarks at what I
was watching, so I got mad and he was like
"baby im sorry! What did I do?" and I was
like "get away from me!!!!!" I think I
should stop saying that because when I do,
it only brings him to bug me more, to hug
me and me and stuff and im like "get off
of me!!" it was annoying so he got all
sad. I didnt care. Lol
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-04-03 13:34pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 12:45pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-04-03 13:46pm
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Aww your kids sound so cute! Yeah jose is
very emotional, only with me because his
mom didnt raise him to be that way. The
very first time I cried, because I had the
hiccups and jose was on the phone and he
said "i dont want to be with you anymore"
and hung up on me, I was like what the...?
And I cried and he called and was like
"are your hiccups gone? I was playing"
and I was like "i dont know you dummy,dont
do that!" and he started crying. I was
like "hey-sissy. Im cryin here not you!"
and he laughed. He is affectionate. Im
sorry mike's not, but you wouldnt want him
like jose, he hangs on me when im mad, and
holds me real tight. I try fighting him
off but it doesnt work. Why dont you tell
him you need affection and emotion? I
would. I tell jose. Well not tell, I
yell. Lol. Like if im hurt ill shout
"come over here and be sensative you
dummy! Cant you see im not in a happy
mood!!! Geez!!!" and he'll come and be
like "baby im sorry let me hug you and
kiss you" the im like "get off of me your
too late!!!" lol. Its funny. But be open
and agressive about things like that,
going elsewhere will only cause trouble.
You cant ask him to be open, you need to
demand it. Lol. You have to have mike
but the nuts and keep him that way, so he
knows whos boss! You are the breadwinner,
you are the women, you are the mom, you
are the wife. Demand it.
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insurancegirl
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