Give yourselves time to be married!
Marriage is not easy, trust me. It seems like it is going to be this romantic and beautiful thing and it is ..Sometimes.
I used to think that we were going to deal with the bad moments and live with the great ones. It is the other way around. Marriage is tough work. They say that the first two years are the hardest and I agree. My husband and I have been married for about 14months and together for three years. I love him more then anything and we both make decent incomes, live in our own house, and have supportive families. Money is a huge issue as is learning to compromise and live with someone new. I cant even imagine having a baby right now. We need to have time to develop a great relationship and a loving secure home before bringing a baby into it. But your going to do what your going to do. I know now that no one could have told me that before I experienced it. I got married a month after I turned 18 and am now 19. I always had such a romantic image of what life would be like, and yea sometimes it is great and I do love being married. I just want you to realize that it is hard and I think it is much better to be married for a while before bringing a child into your lives. My hubby and I are going to wait two and a half more years to have kids. That way i'll be 22 and we will have been married for 5 years.
Just listen to someone who has been there. I want children more then anything in this world. But I also want to be able to give my children the world. I know that if I wait, I can give them so much more then I can now.