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pao b
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Mesege to All Teen Parent Or Want to Be Teen Parents
Posted: 09-30-05 17:08pm
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:d hello well I have read alot of the
other stories and I could not connect with
any of them I was pregnant at age 14. I
had my son 3 months after I turned 15 I
love my son to this date I do, he is the
light of my life but it has been so hard
to get to the point where I am right now
my parents did not support me she (my mom)
kicked me out. So out of options I
moved in with my babys father that has
been okay until now that I realized that I
am not happy with him and I can not live
with him the rest of my life. I am 19
now I will be graduating and receiving my
pharmacy tech certification in june 2006
so then I know I could support my baby.
Any way the point of my story is that even
though having a child at 13,14or even 15
may seem like a fun walk in the park there
is road blocks but things can be done if
you are already pregnant keep going think
positive and you will suceed, but if you
are a teen and you are not pregnant enjoy
life because god will give you a child
when he thinks you are ready.
I am sorry if I bore anyone
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shortygot_ashorty
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Posted: 10-05-05 05:45am
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You arent boring me! I think that was one
of the most real things that ive heard in
here yet. Way to go for telling it like
it is and really.... Alot of girls should
here it. There are alot of girls in here
who are ttc and they are sooo young (13,
14, 15, ...)i think that all of us should
be responsable...But sh*t does happen. I
just hope that girls will listen to what u
have to say considering you've been
through it. Congratulations on graduating
and your pt certification!!!! Alot better
than I have faith in for myself.
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pao b
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Thanks
Posted: 10-05-05 17:00pm
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Thank you for replying I though nobody had
even read it so thanks alot.Good luck with
your baby touch,after he or she is born
one qhestion how old are you?
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shortygot_ashorty
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Posted: 10-06-05 04:10am
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17 still tooooo young but a lil better
than i've been hearing about. And no, it
wasn't planned lol
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pao b
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You Are Right
Posted: 10-06-05 09:12am
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You are right it is better you are about
to graduate right. So you live in san
antonio you are so lucky it is beautiful
overtheir.Well compared to houston anyway
three weeks are going to fly.Do you worry
alot?Brace your self for months of little
or no sleep man I hated those days I had
like ten incidents where the bottle melted
away on the stove cause I fell asleep. :d
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shortygot_ashorty
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Posted: 10-07-05 21:39pm
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Right....Lol wow thats crazy im gonna try
to nurse for at least 3mts and that way
ill be more used to having to be awake.
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 10-07-05 22:42pm
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To be totally honest, I dont think anyones
opinion affects any young girl who wants
to have a baby, none of our opinions
matter, until they have a baby and find
out how hard it is for theirselves.
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shortygot_ashorty
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Posted: 10-07-05 23:48pm
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Tru
but wat I said was I just hope that they
will listen considering shes been through
it.
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 10-07-05 23:52pm
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But her telling girls she had a baby at a
young age just makes them think it's
okay.
Some girls dont even care how hard it is,
they just want a baby.
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shortygot_ashorty
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Posted: 10-08-05 06:13am
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| dalicialynn
wrote: | but her telling girls she
had a baby at a young age just makes them
think it's okay.
Some girls dont even care how hard it is,
they just want a
baby. |
you didnt listen to me.....
Like I said....... Tru
but I hope they will listen to her since
shes been through it.
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 10-08-05 16:01pm
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I did listen to you, was just telling you
that it does make girls think its okay.
Mhm.
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shortygot_ashorty
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diamondsz
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Re: Teen Pregnancy
Posted: 10-10-05 13:08pm
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| shortygot_ashorty
wrote: | | you arent boring me! I
think that was one of the most real things
that ive heard in here yet. Way to go
for telling it like it is and really....
Alot of girls should here it. There are
alot of girls in here who are ttc and they
are sooo young (13, 14, 15, ...)i think
that all of us should be responsable...But
sh*t does happen. I just hope that girls
will listen to what u have to say
considering you've been through it.
Congratulations on graduating and your pt
certification!!!! Alot better than I
have faith in for
myself. |
okay life isnt that bad kids are extremely
hard work though, if both of u are hungry
the child comes first in everything and if
you have to stay up 24 hrs because they
are sick you do it but there are benefits.
The only thing with being a teen mom is
dad may not stay around as he want a life
to live. I got married at 18 and had a
child at 19 i'm a little bit more mature
but if it wasnt for dad I wouldnt be able
to do it. Im 21 now and expecting # 2
but I have a job and a house as well as my
partner, im not trying to say not do it
some ppl are meant for it but you should
think it through first.
My daughter is a really good kid but the
first 2 months killed waking up every 2
hrs sucked, and when their sick they cry
and theirs nothing you can do to alleviate
any of it but hold them and love them
while they scream in ur ear lol!!!
Honestly I enjoy it now cause she starting
to talk and sing but you have to help them
grow to this stage read up on kids before
having them............
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ZOrder
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Zorder
Posted: 10-10-05 13:18pm
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See this resources - this is big danger
for our child: teens and pills
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pao b
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Dalicialynn
Posted: 10-14-05 09:44am
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You might think I am trying to tell other
teens that it is okay but when I was still
in high school I would go and talk to the
other teens about teen parents you know
from the lower grades and after hearing
mine and other teen parents stories they
would brake out in tears and talk to us
about ways that they could prevent our
present being their future.I am not trying
to make it seem like it is or was easy
because trust me it wasnt but I would not
trade the experience for anything.I
actually admire teens that like me went
through with having their baby and are now
raising them instead of killing them
through abortion or giving them up for
adoption and wondering for the rest of
their life what happened to my child.Not
that I am againts adoption I am just
saying it would drive me crazy to know
that my blood was out there somewhere with
out me.
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shortygot_ashorty
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