I just miscarried last fri. At 6weeks.
We have been trying for 2 1/2 years and
this was our first pregnancy. I have
been so exhausted that I can't even get
out of bed, but I can't sleep. Has
anyone been through this? How long will
these symptoms last?
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 10-01-05 19:40pm
I'm soo sorry hun, I hope next time is
20x's better for you. I know its a
recovery time of 6 weeks after you give
birth maybe its the same with miscarrages.
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Posted: 10-01-05 21:11pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray
that god will grant you all another baby..
I sort of know what your going through I
wasnt really trying to get pregnant but I
did alot of times 5 to be exact and
everytime I had a miscarriage I had an
abortion once that was the first time and
I was depressed from that for about 6
months and I said ill never go through
that again so when I got pregnant I said I
was keeping the baby but I kept on having
miscarriages I thought it was because of
the abortion and yea I was depressed for a
while about it. The main reason I was
not out and stuff is because I was in so
much pain but after the pain goes away you
should be okay just have someone
supporting you and go out somewhere with
some friends and try not to think about
it. But I turned up pregnant again..And
im not 34 weeks and I guess the abortion
didnt effect anything I guess just
sometimes your body doesnt want to work
with you..You know it will be okay if you
really want a baby just keep trying. I
know everyone says yea right you wanted a
baby but really I didnt im still young I
just graduated it was my boyfriend he is
in foster care and he really wanted a
family of his own and he was sneeking on
me I had no idea and I was on birth
control pills too .. I wouldnt recommend
them to anyone they suck! But just next
time watch everything you do once you even
get a feeling your preganant start
prenantel care and really take care of
yourself!
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 10-02-05 08:52am
Sheila,
i got pg on all my babies on the pill.
Some ppl they just don't work on. I
would sugest the patch or somthing else.
The depo messes with your cycle so not
sure if you wan tot take that risk or not,
then theres the wire thing but thats not
safe at all. If that thing moves the
slightest it it will tear up your insides
(that happened to my mom) also some babys
have been born with that thing in their
bodies :cry: . Then theres the pill
which by the looks of it only makes you
more furtial and the patch that can
irritate your skin. Theirs also a
diafram (yes it would suck) but atleast
that keeps most of the little critters out
lol. Then of course condums and
sprermaside. I guess it all depends.
There might be more but I can't think of
the rest. I just sugest staying away
fromt he wire thing...
I know I gave up on pc after my 4th baby
and just got my tubes tied, but I had
already had my share of babies.
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Mommie Dearest
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Oct 2005 Posts: 123 Location: BARBADOS
Miscarriage Posted: 10-04-05 12:38pm
I am so sorry to hear what you are going
thru and I can relate. I think that every
woman deals with getting over a
miscarrigae differently and only you will
know exactly when you are ready to 'get
over it'. I had two last year, one of
which was a twin, I lost them two days
before xmas, nice xmas present huh? With
the first pregnancy which was in august
2004 I thot that I wud never stopp crying.
I cudn't eat, didn't want to talk to
anyone and was basically a basket case. I
even shut my fiance out and the pain after
was awful. I hated and blamed myself: 1,
becuz I was on depo and I was also dieting
really badly. I was every diet pill ever
made. But the thing is that I didn't
expect to be pregnant. With the twin now
I was trying, but I guess that whole deop
thing was still circulating in my body and
they didn't live past 11 weeks.
Devastated once again, I swore not to get
pregnant ever again. However, I am now 9
weeks along and having the worse 'morning'
sickness. I have a really good feeling
about this pregnancy and I know that by
the grace of god that my baby is going to
be just fine. I have put everything in
his hands and I know that he will bring me
thru it, and you have to do that too.
You are going to be just fine, just hang
in there and get over your miscarriage
when you are good an ready. We all deal
with stuff differently, and although I
went thru it I still don't have your
feelings and only you know how you are
feeling and when you are ready to face the
world again. So just take it easy and
take one day at a time. You are going to
be just fine :p
