Whats Your 50 Ways to Leave a Lover? Posted: 10-02-05 17:38pm
Remember that '70s song fifty ways to
leave your lover? I hear it occasionally
on those classic hits radio stations.
Well, like most, i'm in a relationship
that is going nowhere and downhill every
day. Its messy as there are kids involved
too. However, I do not seem to be able to
drum up the courage to face my wife and
tell her that i'm leaving.
So i'm asking how has anyone else
approached the same issue and how did you
tackle it?
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babsbrats
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2005 Posts: 2
With Respect And Honesty Posted: 10-02-05 18:14pm
Apparently you loved her at some point so
she deserves to hear it alone and with
total honesty. Give her time to accept
it, decide what you are going to tell the
children then tell them together and let
them know that it does not change how much
you love them and explain some of the
simple changes that will take place unless
they are older children then tell them the
truth also.