Well i'm 17 and almost 4 months pregnant.
The father of my baby denys this baby and
the fact that we were together. He was
cheating on his g/f the whole time we were
together and his mom hates me with a
passion. And he says he wants nothin to
do with me or the baby. Im scared of
being a single parent. Im scared of not
raising my child the right way. Plz
help... Is it hard being a single mom?
:( :cry:
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angel6932
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Been There Posted: 10-03-05 20:00pm
Oh hunni I understand I have been there.
I know how hard it is. Look sweety you
really dont even need a man to help you
with a child. I am sure that you will do
just fine. All you have to do is give
that baby all of the love you have and you
will be fine.
Do you have a job? Are your parents
supporting you at all?
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whyte_kissez
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Posted: 10-03-05 20:08pm
No I dont have a job. I've been looking.
But its hard with school and everything.
My mom supports me. But my dad dosent.
My dad was never there for me when I was a
child and still isnt so I really dont care
what he thinks.
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angel6932
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I Agree Posted: 10-04-05 10:56am
Thats true. Even though I lost the baby
when I was 17 the guy still regreates not
being there for me and doing what he did.
That was four yrs ago. I saw the guy a
while back and he told me he was sorry
that he was young and stupid and he really
regreated everything that happend. I just
smilled and said well ok now I am married
and going to have a baby by a man that
wants me and the baby. Yeah that hurt him
really bad.. Serves him right though. I
promise one day this guy will wake up and
be like what in the hell have I done and
he'll come running and you will prob be
like sorry we dont need you were better
off without you..
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Storywriter
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Re: Single Mother? Posted: 10-04-05 11:17am
whyte_kissez
wrote:
well i'm 17 and almost 4
months pregnant. The father of my baby
denys this baby and the fact that we were
together. He was cheating on his g/f
the whole time we were together and his
mom hates me with a passion. And he
says he wants nothin to do with me or the
baby. Im scared of being a single
parent. Im scared of not raising my
child the right way. Plz help... Is
it hard being a single mom? :(
:cry:
yeah it is hard my mom was a
single mom twice one time she was divorced
the next time she lost my stepfather to
cancer but she managed and very well.
She made sure my brother and I lived in a
nice place and went to a nice school.I
have a friend who is a single mom she
lives home and her mom helps her.
It's not easy but you can do it.If the guy
didn't want to stay around and deny's the
child than maybe your baby and you does
not need a piece of sh*t like him for a
father i'm sorry but that's how I see
it.
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whyte_kissez
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Posted: 10-04-05 12:36pm
Thank you... I agree I dont need him...
And if hes gunna be like this now then
theres no point of him trying to see his
child cause hes just pathetic and
worthless in my eyes.
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angel6932
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Posted: 10-04-05 13:11pm
That is good hunni that you are seeing
that now. I promise your baby is worth
ten times more than a man..
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 10-04-05 13:35pm
Hey, first off...Congrats on the
pregnancy! I'm sure it's going to be
awful tough being a single mother, but
look at it this way. If he was around he
sounds like quite a jerk and I really
don't think he'd change a diaper, wash a
load of clothes, or try to help you in
anyway it would only be more work for you
if he stuck around (and who knows for how
long). So in the long run as long as that
baby has his/her mother, he won't need him
as a father (if you can call him that,
sperm doner maybe.), and you don't need
him. You obviously already care for this
baby, so you'll be fine! Keep your chin
up!
-hopefulmjz
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 10-04-05 13:39pm
Hey, first off...Congrats on the
pregnancy! I'm sure it's going to be
awful tough being a single mother, but
look at it this way. If he was around he
sounds like quite a jerk and I really
don't think he'd change a diaper, wash a
load of clothes, or try to help you in
anyway it would only be more work for you
if he stuck around (and who knows for how
long). So in the long run as long as that
baby has his/her mother, he won't need him
as a father (if you can call him that,
sperm doner maybe.), and you don't need
him. You obviously already care for this
baby, so you'll be fine! Keep your chin
up!
-hopefulmjz
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whyte_kissez
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Posted: 10-04-05 13:44pm
angel6932
wrote:
that is good hunni that you
are seeing that now. I promise your baby
is worth ten times more than a
man..
thank you for your support! :d
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whyte_kissez
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Posted: 10-04-05 13:45pm
hopefulmjz
wrote:
if he was around he sounds
like quite a jerk
-hopefulmjz
yup I agree... Hes a really ass .. Sry
bout the language but I dont see how ne
guy could do that.. Thank you
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