I Really Need Help, Please!!! Posted: 10-04-05 11:50am
Hi,
my boyfriend and I are ttc and I have some
questions on my probability on being
pregnant. Here's the scenario I
recently went of of the pill on 9/11. I
have had my period twice this month. The
first time 9/11-9/16, this one was normal.
The second time was 9/20-9/25, this one
was really light and was pinkish and mucus
like(day1-3) then it changed to brownish
and thick(day3-4) then really red and
heavy(day 4-5). I was scheduled to
ovulate on 9/22 - 9/27. I had sex on
9/9, 9/10, 9/11, 9/16, 9/17, 9/18, 9/23,
9/24, 9/25, 9/28, 10/1, 10/2. I did have
sex during my period. Each time he did
cum but now always inside of me. I have
taken a pregnancy test on 9/14, 9/24,
9/29, 10/2, 10/3, all of which have came
back neg. This is really depressing :(
I have some of the symptoms but am not
sure if I am imagining them because I want
to be prego or are actually symptoms, I
have been feeling nausea, bloated,
tired(extreme), cravings for food,
cramping, my lower back is killing me and
my back is not out of whack, a bubbling
feeling in my abdomen, and my nipples
tingle but not all the time.
Here's the questions: first, what are the
chances of me actually being pregnant?
Second, how soon should I test again?
The neg. Are really getting me down. If
I were still on the pill I would be having
my period on 10/8.
Please reply!!
Baby dust to all those ttc xoxo
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kath_08012
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2005 Posts: 15
Posted: 10-04-05 16:28pm
I completely understand. I am going
through the same thing. I have been
trying for a month even though i've been
off the pill since july. I haven't had
my period other than the first week I was
off of the pill, which my gyno said is
normal until my cycle gets normal again.
We've been trying all month, every other
day. Like you, i've done quite a few
pregnancy tests but they've all come out
negative. The last one was today, I took
it because for the past couple of days
i've felt nauseated and uncomfortable. I
felt soooooo aweful when it came back neg.
I almost don't want to take any test
anymore because I feel so bad when I find
out i'm not preg.
I heard the average time it takes to
concieve is six months. Also I feel so
silly acting this way over a month because
a lot of people on this board have been
ttc for so long.
I don't have any advice for you, but I
could use some myself. I have no idea
when i'm actually ovulating since my
cycles all crazy from the pill. But when
I read your post, I felt better because it
sounds just like me and I feel a little
less alone.
So thank you...And baby dust to you!
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want2b
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 55 Location: Iowa
Posted: 10-04-05 16:36pm
Thank you for understanding. I am trying
not to get down about this, I just figure
keep trying and i'll keep testing every 2
weeks or so. I just hope that it happens
soon. Until then I will keep testing
and keep worrying, I guess. On the plus
side though, I am really conscious of my
health, even more so than before just in
case. You know.
I hope that some day soon it will come
back positive for me, for you, and for
everyone else trying.
Baby dust to all of you.
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kath_08012
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2005 Posts: 15
Posted: 10-04-05 19:22pm
I hear you about the health thing. My
husband thinks it's great....Guess who is
the designated driver all the time now! I
am also being really careful to take
prenatals and try to eat right. I
totally don't get the way your body acts
pregnant even if you aren't...I guess the
mind is a powerful thing and when you want
to be that bad you really feel that way.
I hate the build up to when you actually
take the test. I get myself all ready
and then when I see the negative result,
it feel so bad. Hopefully we're on our
way, though.
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lovablepetsworld
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 615 Location: singapore
Posted: 10-06-05 07:20am
I understand as I am also trying and
everytime the period comes late, I test n
neg. Results. My body acts pregnant but
the results dun cooperate. Feel like
giving up becoz this is adding stress.
But I really want a child of my own......
So badly that I have planned to rape my
husband this month for 15 days. Hahaha!
My period was on the 29 sept and it ended
on 3 oct... My cycle is about 30-32 days.
I raped my hubby yesterday nite. I am
planning another one tonite.
What are the tips after sex. Does lying
down after sex for 20 minutes before
getting up to do work or go toilet help
ttc???
Give tips plssssssssssss!!! Advance
thanks@!
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lesliepei
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2005 Posts: 187 Location: Canada
Posted: 10-06-05 16:38pm
Usually ovulate around 14 days from next
period start day. So, assuming 20 day
cycles, around the 16th day of your cycle
with first day of your period being day 1.
Another trick is to have sex every other
day for the whole month, then there is
always fresh sperm waiting for the egg.
Good luck
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lovablepetsworld
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 615 Location: singapore
Posted: 10-07-05 09:33am
Thanks for the tip any others?
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Nenis
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2005 Posts: 67
Posted: 10-20-05 19:34pm
I stopped my pill about a month ago I am
supposed to get my period in 2 days. I
have some light cramping and tender and
painful breasts. I hope I am pregnant but
I think it takes much longer than just a
month off the pilll.
