What Is the Best Method Besides the Pill? Posted: 10-04-05 16:34pm
My bf and I have been relying on the pill
for over a year now and i've gained weight
and lost my sex drive since ive started
taking it. Now I want off but he doesn't
want to use condoms all the time. What
can I do besides the two? I know there
are lots of different types so that's not
what i'm asking. I just want to know
what has worked for you.
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cherrysodapop
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2005 Posts: 72
Posted: 10-14-05 16:17pm
My boyfriend used the pull out method for
about 2 months.. We had sex pretty much
everyday and I never got pregnant.. Some
could call me lucky tho. That tends to
never work. U could always try another
brand of pill.. If u dont want to use
condoms.
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churchie_7
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jul 2005 Posts: 58
Posted: 10-17-05 09:23am
I hated the pill. So we switched to
condoms, and I love them. Seriously.
We should have used them all along.
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Loola
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Joined: 14 Sep 2005 Posts: 17
Posted: 10-17-05 10:01am
I was on the pill and thought that it was
the best thing. You could try the depo
shot or the patch. I have never tryed
them but my gal pals have. I had heard of
complications with the idu so I have never
thought of that. I think thats what its
called anyway.
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BlueCatt
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Nov 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Toronto
Posted: 11-19-05 20:43pm
Why don't you try an iud? Mirena is the
one I got and it's great, although
expensive so may not be an option if you
don't have a group health plan that will
pay some of it. It cost over $300.
Look into it.
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askara
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Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 11-21-05 04:08am
Iuds arnt normally used in peopel who have
not yet had kids, its some what hard to
get them in there .. Or so I was told.
The depo shot can be prefect for some..
And horrendious for others, never use it
unless you have been on a progesterone
based pill before to make sure there are
no side efects.. Cause ones in in your
body you cant get rid of it. Same goes
for the implant etc.
Natural family planning , withdrawal
method, plain old luck arnt the best
ideas as they are obviouly reliant on two
people in heated passion remembering that
now is not the time to put that there, you
can serioslyy reduce chances by working
out when you are ovulating and not havign
sex then.. But you will find thats when
you will be the horniest!
The patch is not over here in england in a
big way yet, but it looks like the answer
I have been looking for!! But people I
the states who use it have told me that it
can come off.. And once its off it no
longer protects you.. There is no "under
flow" of it incase it calls off.
Condoms are always a good idea anyway,
especially if you are with new partner(s)
due the amount of stds going about, but if
you are both clean then thats fine. You
can go to any family planning clinic and
they will be able to test you or give you
free condoms.
As with anytign you take there are going
to be some side effect I had the depo shot
for 6 months and will never have it again,
the side effects I had did not outweigh
the pros.. But thats just me.
Hope this helps
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solar001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Nov 2005 Posts: 82 Location: Weston, FL
Posted: 11-23-05 14:38pm
This is a message for cherrysodapop:
pulling out is not only stupid, but risky.
Even before a man ejaculates, there is
what's called "pre-ejaculate" that
contains sperm cells. If you hate
condoms, then try a dyaphram, if you don't
want that, then try a hormonal method.
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solar001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Nov 2005 Posts: 82 Location: Weston, FL
Posted: 11-23-05 14:43pm
The pill can be annoying because of all of
the hormones. The patch has lead to over
a dozen deaths in one year here in the
states. I'm starting nuvaring, which has
less than 1/2 of the hormones that the
pill has. Talk to your gyn. Nuvaring is
a rubbery/plastic ring that is inserted in
the vagina and stays there for 21 days,
after that, you remove for one ring-free
week (just like the pill), and then you
start over with a new ring. It's easy to
use and you don't feel it. There are
mixed reviews as far as how it feels
during sex, but it seems much easier than
the pill and less risky than the patch.
The patch has caused a great deal of blood
clots in women which have led to death.
The downside of the patch is that it has
just as many hormones as the pill, but it
has contact with your body 24/7 (this is
why nuvaring only has about 1/2 of the
hormones as the pill).
Check out www.Nuvaring.Com.
You can even get a voucher for a free
ring.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 11-23-05 17:54pm
Iud's are safe for all women whose uterus
is the right size. Planned parenthood can
offer the paragard iud for about 275$.
They will insert it in women who have
never had children.