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PregnaJordan
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Check This Out , Its Sad...
Posted: 12-03-03 13:21pm
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Ok...I haven't let ya'll in on something
in my life, and I figured that I would
share it now...My baby's daddy(you know
how I talk bad about him all the
time???)well, he is not the best person in
the world..Along with having another girl
preggie at the same time as me, and
cheating on me when I was pregnant and
lived with him...He was charged with
homicide last halloween...Its really sad,
b/c I have no connections with him at all
and the only way that I can see a picture
of him is to go to our local news site and
look at his mug shot.You can see it at http:
//www.Thecarolinachannel.Com/news/1753634/
detail.Html
the worst decision I ever made in my life
was to be with him...But I wouldn't change
the fact that I am preggie...I love my
baby...I just hope it don't look like
him!!!  ps
he is the one in the middle...
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-03-03 13:57pm
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Girl dont even feel bad. Luckily I never
got pregnant but the guy I lost it to is
in prison for homicide too. Boy was that
a mistake. I know you feel terrible but
just dont think about it. You really,
really dont need this guy at all. Just
take care of your baby even though it is
from a dummy. Im here if you need me!
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-03-03 14:06pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 12:47pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-03-03 14:08pm
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I know, I was ashamed like oh my gosh I
cant believe I ever liked him! When I was
with him I was 17 and he did it this year,
so I was never around him good thing. Hes
scum but im glad I dont have to deal with
him. They have to deal with god. They
took a life that wasnt theirs.
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-03-03 14:10pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 12:47pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-03-03 14:17pm
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Not me, but some guy he didnt like. When
he was with me he not violent. He was a
rapper and nice. So I dont know. I dont
even like thinking about him. But jordan
has to. I think you just just say you had
a sperm donor!
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 12-03-03 14:18pm
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Yeah, he didnt do it, but he was there and
in sc, the law states.."hands of one,
hands of all.." so basically, if you were
there and u knew it was going to happen
then you basically killed too...The guy
that shot him, got 25 years for
manslaughter, and the other girl and chris
are still charged wtih homicide, but
haven't gone to court yet..
Jordan
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-03-03 14:28pm
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Well then he deserves to be there whether
or not he had the gun. He was an
accomplice by knowing what was going to
occur and he knew the other guy had a
firearm and knew what was planned. He
could have said no but he was there.I cant
belive people can be so cruel.
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-03-03 14:43pm
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 12-03-03 16:27pm
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I really dont want him in mine and the
baby's life....He is a jerk...I've lived
for seventeen years not ever seeing,
talking or having any contact with my
father and it doesn't affect me...I like
just having one parent...Its eassier
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-03-03 16:42pm
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It is, but sometimes a father figure is
good too. To be able to teach the things
a mom cant. Like with my sister, jose is
there to be the father figure and the baby
loves him. So you dont really need the
dad there, but maybe an uncle or something
can help. Well you cant get him for child
support, but if you do get welfare, then
he has to pay it once hes out. Not you,
he needs to repay the government.
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 12-03-03 16:55pm
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Hes outta jail(for now)--they got him on
house arrest...So, I can get child
support...But, I don't want to b/c if I do
then he has a right to see the child and I
dont want my baby around him...I kow that
that sounds bad, but yall dont know this
boy like I do...Once we broke up, he
started doing heavy drugs again and I dont
want my child around that. My ex
boyfriend, he is being really sweet about
the whole thing and he wants to be there
when I have it...Hes being really
supportive and he hates chris too but ill
keep yall posted...
Jordan
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-03-03 17:17pm
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Well actually you can get child support
but he might not be granted visitation
unless it is supervised. You can explain
to the judge the situation and they will
side with you. Just explain his backround
and why you need support but refuse to
have hte baby in a bad environment. If he
chooses not have visitation at all, then
its better because the less he visits, the
more he pays. So it can work. My mom
does that stuff for girls who dont know
about the system and she tells me about
it! Lol. So I know. I just some forms
and a letter and I think you can collect
asap. But if you really dont want the
money, than thats fine too. I just wanted
you to know you can work around that.
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 12-03-03 18:10pm
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Oh my god,u gotta keep ur baby away from
this guy-he is evil & he looks
horrible 2.I hope u can do it on ur own
cos ur better off doing that then being
with some1 so evil that they cud take part
in something like this.I hope he goes down
4 a very long time.
P.S. No offence but I hope ur baby dont
look like him either!!!
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nikki_caro
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sparklypixie12
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-04-03 09:38am
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 12-04-03 10:48am
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Gosh,im so surprised about the amount of
people on here who've never met their
fathers-what kind of men r these people if
they can abandon their families like that
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-04-03 11:08am
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PregnaJordan
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Yeah...
Posted: 12-04-03 11:43am
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My mom said that when she told my "dad"
that she was pregnant he left and moved
out of state...A few years ago, she
tracked him down and found out that he was
living in west virginia and she asked me
if I wanted to see him and I said
no...Chris just woke up one morning and
woke me up out of a dead sleep and said,
"i'm not happy with you anymore, call your
mom and go home...", it broke my heart but
then I realized if he is gonna do
something like that then he doesn't
deserve to be around our child...I don't
see how he can live with that on his
consciense though..He did call me a while
back, before I had my # changed and said
that if I didnt' let him see his child he
would take me to court and fight for
custody...I was like, whatever, look at
your record, you think that some body in
there right mine is gonna let you have
custody of our child...? For some reason
he thinks he can get it...He can't prove
that I am an unfit mother though...I don't
do drugs (like he does)--the only thing I
come close to doing that is bad is
drinking caffeine sometimes, for gods
sakes...I can't honestly say that I love
him or ever did...I love my child tho and
he will not take her from me....
Jordan
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