I Have Problem And I Need Help.. Posted: 10-06-05 21:13pm
I have a problem I am a 16 year old white
male and I have a extremely strong
attraction to hispanic females, even more
so than white girls - and that is the
problem. I view this in the same light as
a gay/lesbian person might view their
homosexuality (in a bad way of course).
I feel this attraction is unnatural and
needs to be corrected. Does anyone have
any advice.
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overlyworried
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Posted: 10-08-05 22:42pm
This is not unnatural at all! A lot of
people have a preference. My sister is
white and she will date only hispanic
males.
If you are attracted to hispanic females,
then so be it. Nobody should accuse you
of being "wrong" for liking what you like,
especially yourself. I say more power to
you and don't worry about it.
Besides, our nation is becoming more of a
mixed based society anyway, and i, for
one, think it's great! :-)
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Super Nova
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Posted: 10-09-05 14:04pm
overlyworried
wrote:
this is not unnatural at
all! A lot of people have a
preference. My sister is white and she
will date only hispanic males.
If you are attracted to hispanic females,
then so be it. Nobody should accuse
you of being "wrong" for liking what you
like, especially yourself. I say more
power to you and don't worry about it.
Besides, our nation is becoming more of a
mixed based society anyway, and i, for
one, think it's great!
:-)
maybe "unnatural" is the wrong word,
however it does seem to be a little
uncommon. All but one of my white friends
do not find hispanic females at
attractuve but when im talking to black
guys it takes a 180 degree turn. I feel
the way I do about my attractive because I
believe it not normal.
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overlyworried
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Posted: 10-09-05 14:36pm
Well, it may be a little bit uncommon in
your area ... But there are a lot of
places that have mixed couples. I'm a
white female that is with a black man ...
In texas, no less. We've had so many
people that give us dirty looks ... And I
eat it up. I like who i'm with and I
could care less what other people think.
You shouldn't worry about the color of
someone but about what type of personality
they have and how they make you feel.
Just because your friends do not find
hispanic females attractive, it doesn't
mean you have to. There are a lot of
beautiful females out there ... Be it
white, black, hispanic or other. It's
perfectly normal for you to be interested
in someone of a different race. You like
what you like and I don't think you should
worry yourself over it.
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GMO
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Posted: 10-10-05 15:32pm
Well I too have a strong attraction to
hispanic girls. I think it's just fine!
I have never had one, nor do I know where
or how to try to find one. But to me they
are great looking woman. Being a white
male myslef, the though of race has never
crossed my mind! Just look at selma
hyack! Wow!!
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overlyworried
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Posted: 10-10-05 15:41pm
Lol, gmo! :-)
i agree, totally. You can't help who
you're attracted to! And if you try to
convince yourself not to be attracted to
someone because it feels "unnatural or
uncommon", then you're not being true to
yourself.
Don't sweat the small stuff ... There's
more important things in life to worry
about :-) good luck!
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Justin_Toronto
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Posted: 10-11-05 14:39pm
Of course it's natural.. Some of those
hispanic girls are just down right
gorgeous. :) ... Some of the best dating
experiences i've had were with latina
girls, or filipina girls even. Naturally
toned and shapely bodies.
But... Physical attraction and emotional
attraction are two different things. You
need to find out who you're most
emotionally compatible with, and go from
there. If the multi-culturalism is not
an open possibility in your mind, then why
bother persuing it unless you're looking
for a good time only.
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Super Nova
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Posted: 10-11-05 23:08pm
justin_toronto
wrote:
of course it's natural..
Some of those hispanic girls are just down
right gorgeous. :) ... Some of the
best dating experiences i've had were with
latina girls, or filipina girls even.
Naturally toned and shapely bodies.
But... Physical attraction and
emotional attraction are two different
things. You need to find out who
you're most emotionally compatible with,
and go from there. If the
multi-culturalism is not an open
possibility in your mind, then why bother
persuing it unless you're looking for a
good time
only.
thanks, you are right they are gorgeous I
always thought of their bodies as nothing
less than a work of art. They have a
culture I think is very rich the ones at
my school like to draw alot and are very
skilled at it. And as for calling my
latinaphilia "unnatural" we could call
pamela anderson fans "unnatural" because
she is for the most part unnatural.
