Hey all
ok, I am 19 and my g/f and I have recently
had sex a few different times. We both
enjoy it, however, I am just leery of us
having it all the time. I am always
finding myself comparing our relationship
to other couples..Like how long it was
until they had sex..Or ppl that have been
together for over 2.5 years, and still
haven't had sex. We just had our six
month anniversary yesterday. I was
wondering, is neone else in my position?
We both enjoy it...She has had sex with
other guys..And she is my first. I just
don't want to think that those other guys
had the influence on her to be aggressive
or horny ya know? When we are in the
mood I can't wait to have it..But then
later my mind just starts thinking..Which
is a big problem of mine..Neway, ne
comments would be great..Thanks
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cd998776
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Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 997 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 10-08-05 14:31pm
I think having thoughts liek that
(worrying and what not) are really very
common for people in your situation. I
think the best thing you can do is
probably talk it over with her.
Afterall, that is what happens in a good
relationship.
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Boxing_Is_Fun
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted: 10-11-05 22:46pm
You definitely need to talk about it with
her, but before that you should try
sitting back and thinking about it with a
clear head to find out how you really feel
about it so that you know what you want to
say.
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danniefoley2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 11
Posted: 10-11-05 23:56pm
If you both enjoy it then there's not much
to worry about. It sounds to me like you
just don't want things to move too fast.
Is that the case? If so, waiting 6
months before having sex is a fairly long
time, considering a lot of couples have
sex after only being with together for a
few weeks, if even that long (not
everyone, but a lot). I'd say 6 months
to a year is about average. If you're
worried that things are moving too fast,
just do whatever comes naturally instead
of trying to force your relationship into
something it's not. And it may be hard,
by try not to think about the other guys
she's been with; you'll only make yourself
crazy!! All that matters is that she's
with you now and you're both doing what
makes you happy. I'm sure her ex's did
have an influence on her, but so did
everyone else she was close to in her
life!! Like I said, nothing to worry
about.
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