In Love With My Ex For the Past 6 Years On And Off Again.... Posted: 10-09-05 09:26am
I started datin my ex shane when I was 15
and he was 16. We were together for 2
years. He would always call me when we
werent together. He would tell me he
loved me and everything!! I am 20 year's
old now and I had his son on july 13,2005
(day after his b-day july 12th). Since I
had christian we dont talk anymore because
he says my son isnt his child!! Were goin
threw alot and I really dont know why I
still love him! I wish we could get
married and just be a family! Everytime
he had a new g/f he would cheat on them
with me! He always came back to me!! I
dont know what to do. We havent been a
couple since I was 17 but we would always
talk and tell eachother we loved eachother
and we would always sleep together. I
just dont know what to do. I want to be a
family with him! What should I do to get
him back??????
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SomeGuy333
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Joined: 08 Apr 2005 Posts: 49
Posted: 10-09-05 09:41am
Sorry but this sounds more like he's
cheating on you, not them. And if he
doesn't believe its his child there are
ways to prove it, its called dna
testing.
And as for getting him back, sorry but I
have no advice there.
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YoungMum20
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Joined: 08 Oct 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 10-09-05 09:50am
We are gettin a dna test done actually
this is the 2nd test were gettin done cuz
he wont pay for the 1st so we can get the
results. I think he knows my son is his
child and he is just procrastinating to
get things done. He is just makin things
worse on him cuz I filed for child support
and when I did that he requested for
another one!! Were gettin the 2nd 1 done
on october 12, 2005!! So when we get the
results back showing that he is the father
to my son he is just going to be screwed!!
He told me when my son was born it was
going to ruin his life!!!
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kenya2006
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2006 Posts: 9 Location: UK
Posted: 02-23-06 17:50pm
I've just read your blog and i'm sorry to
hear you're going through so much. I'm
new to this but I thought i'd have to send
you a reply. You're very young and you
have time to find someone who will be
there for you and your child. It sounds
like the father of your child just isn't
up to the job!! It sounds like he was
never ready to have children and feels
like his youth has been taken away from
him, which is why he's still running
around cheating on you with other girls.
Now the child is born he has to step up to
the plate, otherwise you may discover that
you are not the only person who is the
mother of his child. Harsh, but true,
read my blog...I speak from experience.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 02-24-06 11:49am
I know this an old post but what happened
with the whole dna thing?
