I know this has nothing to do with health
but am I wrong for not understanding or
agreeing with my boyfriend to hang out and
have dinner with his ex-girlfriend and her
family???? :roll:
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psyco2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 10 Location: McComb, OH
Posted: 10-10-05 21:25pm
Honey, i'd feel the same way. I think
it's natural.
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Justin_Toronto
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Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 10-11-05 14:12pm
That's up to you, and how you view their
relationship now. Personally, I don't
like the sounds of it... I wouldn't ever
go see an ex, or her family if I currently
had a girlfriend.
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cd998776
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Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 10-11-05 22:14pm
I can see how you might be uncomfortable
with it. I agree with justin_toronto in
that it's up to you, and how you view your
relationship.
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confused?
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2005 Posts: 6
Am I Wrong Posted: 10-11-05 22:49pm
4 words- go with your gut. Listen to your
instincts they are never wrong. If I were
in your shoes id prob be hurt, mad,
confused all in one. Keep an eye out on
this one, & keep a few q's in mind.
How long have they been split up? How
long, or are the friends, and too soon?
Is he conciterate to how you feel?
Example- promises to stay away & eases
your mind because he knows how u feel
& loves you. Good luck what ever you
decide to do about the situation.
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confused?
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2005 Posts: 6
Am I Wrong Posted: 10-11-05 22:51pm
4 words- go with your gut. Listen to your
instincts they are never wrong. If I were
in your shoes id prob be hurt, mad,
confused all in one. Keep an eye out on
this one, & keep a few q's in mind.
How long have they been split up? How
long, or are the friends, and too soon?
Is he conciterate to how you feel?
Example- promises to stay away & eases
your mind because he knows how u feel
& loves you. Good luck what ever you
decide to do about the situation.
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danniefoley2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 11
Posted: 10-11-05 23:40pm
That sounds kind of weird...But at least
he's inviting you along! Maybe they
invited him out and he deosn't want to be
rude and say no, but he also feels awkward
going alone...Or maybe he didn't want to
be rude to his ex but wants it to be clear
to her that he's not interested anymore by
bringing you with him. You never know!
