He's Not Attracted to Me Any More Posted: 10-10-05 17:57pm
My boyfriend and I have been going out for
a year. We actually just had our 1 year
anniversary. We're both 19.
He hasnt been horny at all lately, and I
asked him about it.
He said that he's not sexually attracted
to me anymore, but he still loves me.
And he has been this way for the past
month.
I don't know what to do about it. Help!
Is this normal?
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Joey9725
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2005 Posts: 32 Location: Sydney
Posted: 10-22-05 01:34am
Hi,
this must be a scary thing for you! What
I think is you and your boyfriend should
go see a doctor together and talk about
what the problem is, because I think that
maybe ur boyfriend may have a bit of a
medical problem with sexual things but he
may. I think you both should go and see a
doctor.
I hope this helps
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nancy1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 32
Posted: 10-22-05 03:05am
I don't think that its can be surely be
said that your boyfriend has a medical
problem. These sorts of problems are
generally in the mind. Maybe you don't
look hot to him and your dress and
attitude looks cold to him or maybe you
have taken him for granted(or at least he
thinks so). Try to spice up things by
some change in your dressing and a warm
attitude towards him and see if this
helps.
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mermadem
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 10-24-05 14:01pm
I've been experiencing the same issue with
my live in boyfriend of 3 years. We maybe
have sex once a month. I have made such a
big issue of it that he said, "i'm
pressuring him too much to even want to do
it." also we've been fighting alot and he
says when i'm being a beotch he doesn't
feel like having sex with me at all. I'm
29 and it is starting to make me get very
insecure. :(
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Tony Williams
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2005 Posts: 52 Location: UK, Liverpool
Posted: 10-30-05 07:35am
Ouch, that's bad.
Has he kissed you?
Try not making him feel though he has to
give you sex to make you happy (not sure
if you are)
like that person before said, go seek a
sex therpist.
