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Mom With No Care Posted: 10-10-05 19:00pm
My sil is prego again, she just moved to
canada doesnt have money much less space
in a rooming home. Sil doesnt want
responsibility for # 1 and is prego with
#2>>>>>how do I tell her
shes doing the wrong thing.....Sil wanted
to ditch her child with her family for six
months while she enjoyed her marriage to
my brother and goes out and does things.
They have really only lived together 5
months now as she was in another country
while he was here waiting for the
paperwork......
I am to invasive or should I step in
i told her I would watch my niece for a
weekend so they could have time together
but she want her child gone longer
anyone have any advice on how to approach
this situation
on top of that her parenting skills are
very primal (my niece has no nap schedule,
more of she sleeps when she want(at 2 am).
My sil is a very nice person but she
screams at her kid and when im around my
niece is very clingy with me (my niece is
1) I dont know what to do and I could
never raise my kid that way even though I
am of different culture but just wondering
if anyone has gone through this
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lesliepei
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Sep 2005 Posts: 187 Location: Canada
Posted: 10-10-05 19:04pm
Yikes, what a situation to be in.... I
don't know what to say. If there was any
way to approach the subject without
sounding judgemental, that would be ideal,
but I have no suggestions on how to do
that....Sorry. I definitely feel for you
though...What a tough spot to be in.