Ok ladies..I am 19 and male. Sorry..I
know this is a female forum, but I have a
question for u all..And even for the men
that read this as well.
Ok...My girlfriend and I have had sex a
few times now. We've been dating for
about 6 months. Now don't get me wrong, I
enjoy sex..Especially listening to her.
However, I am still kind of having mixed
feelings afterwards. She still lives with
her mom..And I live with my parents. We
both have good relationships with them. I
guess I feel like i'm hiding it from my
parents, and it feels like a bad thing,
but it shouldn't be. Also, I would have
liked to wait till marriage to have sex
with her..But ya know. ..When the mood is
there, it's there. And we are in
love..It's not a fooling around, best
friend thing. And I find myself comparing
our relationship to others..As in how long
it took for others to have sex or fool
around. Like my best friend is dating a
girl for about 3 years now..And they
haven't had sex..I think that's neat..But
I just have mixed feelings I guess..Is
this normal!!? Ne comments would be
appreciated!!!Thanks!!
Also, one more question..For u woman that
have had sex before ur lovedo n...Did the
men in ur previous relationships make u
feel more aggressive in ur current
relationship?...A better way of asking
is..Do u feel they had an influence on ur
sex life?.. I just don't like to think
my g/f's ex's had an affect on her "horny"
personality ya know..
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-10-05 23:56pm
Well, i'm going to say that it took my bf
and I 9 months before we had sex, and I
was a virgin, so he introduced me to the
world of sex, so to say!
Having sexual experiences with previous
partners can make a person more
comfortable with their body and more
willing to engage in sexual activity,
because they have fewer inhibitions about
this supposedly "taboo" behavior. I think
this unfortunately means that yes, her
previous boyfriends may have influenced
how she now feels comfortable having sex
with you. That's not a bad thing; that's
how people are; that's what people do!
Don't feel jealous of her previous
relationships, remember that she is with
you, now.
I'm glad to hear that you are having sex
in conjunction to being in love; I believe
that this is most important when being
sexual with someone!
Just a question, how old are you two?
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TysonH
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Posted: 10-11-05 11:03am
I'm 19..Currently in my 2nd year of
college..She's 18..Finishing her senior
year. I plan to transfer to a
university..And she wants to be as close
to me as possible.
For me, I didn't really want those guys to
have that influence on her ya know..Cuz I
dont' want to think of them as to having
an affect on my girlfriends personality.
I just dont' want to think that when she's
horny, it's because they had that affect
ya know? Maybe it's just me, but that's
the best I can explain it.. Thansk for
the reply!!
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RGLwantababy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 14 Location: USA
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? of Sex Posted: 10-11-05 12:16pm
I really don't think that ur girlfriends
ex had anything to do with her being
horny. I have a sex drive that is out of
this world and my boyfriend can not even
keep up with me. So I am forced to
contain myself. My ex use to like to
have sex a lot but so did I then as well.
And my current boyfriend and I have sex a
lot as well but neither could ever keep up
with me. My mom said that she thinks
that my sister and myself have high sex
drives because she has always had one as
well as her sisters. So, it could just
run in her family same as mine. :d
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