How to Get Over the Past........ Posted: 10-12-05 21:43pm
I have a question for all the married
couples...Has it been hard for anyone to
get over your spouses' past...Or reverse
them yours...If so...How did you deal with
it? How do u forget about it and their
past experiences they had with other
people...How do u overcome someone else
(or however many) has done stuff with your
spouse? What is the best way to deal
with that and not ponder and think on it?
Do a lot of couples do this? For us it
does not create a major issue, it is just
an aggravation more so...Just wanting some
feedback.....
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
They Aren't With the Ex Anymore!! Posted: 10-13-05 08:35am
Well, I used to be very jealous of my
husbands ex girlfriend. The reason was
because he was with her for 5 years and
shared so much with her. I felt like I
missed out on so much with him that she
got to experince with him. Now, how I got
over that was just keeping in mind that
she was no longer in the picture and that
I am the love of his life now. Talking
about past relationships will get you
nowhere but in a big fight!!
Good luck and .God bless,
teresa white
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TysonH
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2005 Posts: 52
Posted: 10-13-05 23:12pm
Ya know, this is exactly what i'm having
problems with in my current relationship
of over 6 months..The longest for the both
of us. My g/f lost her virginity at the
age of 14..So when she mentions and age of
what she did back them..I'm always
comparing to that age of 14..And I hate
it, just thinking how young she was. She
has been with three other guys prior to
myself..And I hate the thought of thinkin
bout it. But still, as much as I hate
it, we just have to realize they're with
us now. What they did back then is what
brougth them to us now..If they hadn't
done what they did..They may not be with
you. And really, u just need to look at
the person they are on the inside..It's
not all about the sex...It's just who they
are ya know. Trust me..It's easier said
than done. Some days I feel awesome about
us, the next day my mind will start
wandering, and then I want to ask
questions i've already asked...And yet
receive the same answer. I just hope to
god it leaves me eventually..Good luck
buddy
