Joined: 04 Dec 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Philadelphia
An Orgasim? What's That? Posted: 12-04-03 19:08pm
I am in my middle twenties and the only
orgasim i've ever had was when someone
plays with my clitoris or I do it myself.
I have never had an actual orgasim from
sexual intercourse. Maybe that has
something to do with my vaginal dryness?
How do I have one?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-04-03 19:17pm
Well it depends. For some women its easy
and some its not. You have to have a
clear mind and the right emotion.
Now when your mind is elsewhere and your
stressing, of course you wont get one. I
notice that too. So what you need to do
is really be in the mood and be focused.
Dont think too much, go with the flow and
be into it. You have to want it for it to
come. Its the way you will expierence it
best. Sometimes for women, being on top
is the best, have him be still and do your
own rythym until you can feel it coming.
And then let him try his way. Its the way
to satisfy each other. Try different
positions not old ones. Sometimes lying
on the floor you can feel it or on the bed
and lean up a little bit, meaning lift up
your bottom a bit for him to reach your
soft spots. But remember let your mind
go, no stress, no worries, no thoughts at
all. Just be into it. Work with your
husband on it.
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A-Lil'Mama*2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 89 Location: The Sunshine State
Re: An Orgasim? What's That? Posted: 12-10-03 22:41pm
crybaby8
wrote:
i am in my middle twenties
and the only orgasim i've ever had was
when someone plays with my clitoris or I
do it myself. I have never had an actual
orgasim from sexual intercourse. Maybe
that has something to do with my vaginal
dryness? How do I have one?
actually, your vaginal dryness might be
why you have not had an orgasm during
intercourse. Nikki_caro is right on the
money. It took me months with my guy to
have my first orgasm. I was really into
it and afraid of getting caught b/c we
were at his moms house. I was laying on a
air mattress and he was on top. Just as I
started to slide backward off the
mattress, I tried to sit up and there it
went! My first "o"! If you are
comfortable with it, you can stimulate
yourself while having intercourse.
You may want to try a oil like ky jelly to
lubricate yourself.
Hope this helped- and wasnt too graphic!
Marissa
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 210 Location: las vegas
Posted: 12-19-03 17:01pm
Hey nikki you really know this huh naughty
girl well I still havent had one with my
guy yet either p.M me and give an insight
on that!!!
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Sara1023
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2003 Posts: 23 Location: orange county, CA
Posted: 12-19-03 17:16pm
Foreplay foreplay foreplay!!! If you have
a problem with dryness, I wouldn't choose
ky gelly as my first choice... It's a
little too sticky. What is really good is
astroglide! Good luck and have fun
girls!!!!
Sara
