My first time was not to long ago, I was
19 years old. My boyfriend who is now my
fiance was 25. Both of us were virgins,
I know that is quite a suprise for him to
still be, but he was raised in a family
where they were taught to wait till they
were married, the same as I was. However
we didn't wait, I knew I loved him more
than anything in the world and that I
didn't want to wait anymore! Lol! We
had been dating for 8 wonderful months, I
knew as soon as I met him that I would
never date anyone else again! I was
really worried the first time about it
hurting so I told him to take it slow, but
it never hurt, it was amazing, to be that
close to him. It was the most wonderful
thing in the world! Since then we have
done it many many times, each time though
we used a condem! It just keeps getting
better and better! I can't wait for him
to be my husband and for me to spend the
rest of my life with such a wonderful and
caring man!
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kra_z_nic
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2005 Posts: 3 Location: North Carolina
My First Time Posted: 11-28-05 16:30pm
My first time was when I was 16. It was
with a guy I had been dating for about
five or six months, and I was nervous.
The night was going well and we started
making out. When I decided I was ready,
he didn't believe me. I think he asked me
about eight times if I was sure. When all
was said and done, we felt much closer
than before. It did hurt a little, but I
didn't bleed until about the third or
fourth time we slept together. It was a
little awkward. He kept wanting to stop
because he thought the pain was much worse
than it actually was. I just told him to
be still and let me adjust to him. That's
how it was the first few times. After
that it felt good. It took a couple
months for me to learn to have an orgasm
(yes learn, because the first few times it
happened I froze up, my muscles got tired
and I felt like I was going to collapse).
All in all, the first time wasn't exactly
what I expected but it wasn't bad. He and
I stayed together for 5 years afterwards,
and had planned on getting married, but
things didn't work out. I am glad I
waited to be with someone I loved though.
The best advice I can give you is don't
rush, get comfortable, and be safe. As
many as 7 teenage girls out of 10 get
pregnant within a year of losing their
virginity.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 11-29-05 19:52pm
Interesting thread
well my first time was when I was 31 year
old. I really wanted to wait til marriage
like a good christian but seeing that
marriage wasn't going to happen to who
knows when I decided to take the next
step. I met this gorgeous guy I fell in
love with almost instantly and since I
didn't had to worry about pregancy with
him (he had the big v) I was ready for it.
I think it is funny now but when he
started to get inside me I was thinking
omg this thing doesn't get in! Hahaha it
really was very painful and very bloody.
The second time I though the worst was
over but no I was wrong it started to
bleed so much I told him let's do it in
the tub. Then all the bleeding and pain
stopped and from then on it was very
enjoyable. Things didn't worked out in
the end with the guy which hurted me for a
little while but oh well one has to move
on. I had no regretts. :)
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babykitty23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Florida
Re: "first Time" Stories Posted: 11-30-05 14:11pm
elaineska
wrote:
what were your
expectations?
Were they met, not met, exceeded?
How did it feel... Physically,
emotionally?
How old were you?
Were you in love, and if so, do you think
that enhanced your experience?
How did it affect your relationship
afterwards?
I would really appreciate any replies.
:) and trust me, I know my body well and
how to be safe. I've been on birth
control for about half a year to help
control my ovarian cysts. But when that
day comes, I will also use condoms...
One can never be too
safe.
i lost my virginity when I was 13 years
old. I was dating a guy for a couple of
months, who was also 13 years old (we
actually had the same birthdays). I kinda
pressured him into sex, it was kinda
funny. Anyways, it was a little wierd at
first, but I did enjoy it. I didn't
orgasm, but it felt good. I was expecting
it to be painfull, like I had been
hearing, but it wasn't so bad, I think
because he was very gentle and caring.
And yes, we were in love with one another
when we had sex. I think sex could have
waited looking back now, but I don't
regret doing it. It brought us closer
together, and in all honesty, it was
pretty good for my first time! I've heard
some horror stories of girls first times,
and i'm glad mine was as good as it was.
We ended up dating for 3 years before we
called it quits, on good terms (he still
calls me on my/our birthdays=d).
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 11-30-05 15:11pm
nightangel73
wrote:
interesting thread
well my first time was when I was 31 year
old. I really wanted to wait til
marriage like a good christian but seeing
that marriage wasn't going to happen to
who knows when I decided to take the next
step. I met this gorgeous guy I fell in
love with almost instantly and since I
didn't had to worry about pregancy with
him (he had the big v) I was ready for it.
I think it is funny now but when he
started to get inside me I was thinking
omg this thing doesn't get in! Hahaha it
really was very painful and very bloody.
The second time I though the worst was
over but no I was wrong it started to
bleed so much I told him let's do it in
the tub. Then all the bleeding and pain
stopped and from then on it was very
enjoyable. Things didn't worked out in
the end with the guy which hurted me for a
little while but oh well one has to move
on. I had no regretts.
:)
why were you bleeding so much?? Was is so
big that he was tearing you or something??
Your cherry can only be popped once ( I
thought ) so it doesn't make sence that
you were bleeding so bad. Gosh, I feel
sorry for you! I'm glad that it felt
better after a while though. Anyways, I
had to put my 2 cents in! Lol!
God bless,
teresa
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labellaprincezz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Philadelphia
My First Time Posted: 11-30-05 15:14pm
My first tiime was when I was 14 and my
boyfriend was 15. We had been together
for 1 year and two months. We had sex 8
months after we started going out. I feel
half and half. I don't regret it because
we were both very mature for our ages,
but I kinda do because if I would've know
it would have led to a break up two months
later than I really won't have. We had
sex like 2-3 times a week. I expected my
first time to hurt like hell and thought
wouldn't enjoy it, but I was wrong.
Don't get me wrong it hurt for the first
two minutes and I felt like I couldn't
take it but the whole time after it didn't
hurt. My boyfriend was not a virgin. It
hurt for two minutes physically, but it
was nonchalntly schokcing (like I know I
did it, but can't believe I did) you
should wait until you're ready and them
enjoy every moment .
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nightangel73
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Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 2460 Location: ,
Thanks: 14
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Posted: 11-30-05 19:34pm
wife2jason_mom2ryley
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
interesting thread
well my first time was when I was 31 year
old. I really wanted to wait til
marriage like a good christian but seeing
that marriage wasn't going to happen to
who knows when I decided to take the next
step. I met this gorgeous guy I fell in
love with almost instantly and since I
didn't had to worry about pregancy with
him (he had the big v) I was ready for it.
I think it is funny now but when he
started to get inside me I was thinking
omg this thing doesn't get in! Hahaha
it really was very painful and very
bloody. The second time I though the
worst was over but no I was wrong it
started to bleed so much I told him let's
do it in the tub. Then all the bleeding
and pain stopped and from then on it was
very enjoyable. Things didn't worked
out in the end with the guy which hurted
me for a little while but oh well one has
to move on. I had no regretts.
:)
why were you bleeding so much?? Was is
so big that he was tearing you or
something?? Your cherry can only be
popped once ( I thought ) so it doesn't
make sence that you were bleeding so bad.
Gosh, I feel sorry for you! I'm glad
that it felt better after a while though.
Anyways, I had to put my 2 cents in!
Lol!
God bless,
teresa
you know I don't know why lol. He wasn't
that large but he do was very wide. The
first time seems to me that the cherry
just didn't popped all the way the first
time. It was quick the first time so that
must have been the reason, should I had
more time having the sex I am sure all
could have been broken down that day.
Once it popped all the way things
definetly changed! :d
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LJPG24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Posts: 1
Posted: 12-01-05 14:37pm
I don't know
Last edited by LJPG24 on 12-02-05 17:10pm; edited 1 time in total
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xxannie1011xx
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Milford PA
First Time Posted: 12-02-05 13:39pm
I guess everyone expects something
different when they have sex for the first
time. I mean like, I expected it to hurt,
and that maybe I would bleed, and be
nervous, and it be awkard... According to
all my friends who had done it before.
But my first time was like almost 8 months
ago. So that makes me 16 and 1/2.. And
it was with my boyfriend. Sadly, I hate
to admit that I was going out with him for
two weeks... And we were sleeping over
together at his best friends house. He
was almost 18, and a virgin too, which
made me happy. And we weren't planning on
anything happening. It just kind of did.
We watched a movie together, and when his
friends went to sleep, we put in another
dvd and laid down together on the couch.
And one thing led to another and it was
wonderful. We used a condom, and it was
just amazing. I know I didnt really love
him or anything (i mean only two weeks
right?) but it was nice. I didnt bleed or
anything, and it wasnt awkard. It hurt,
actually not as bad as I was expecting,
but I guess it was more a weird sentation.
Now its 8 months later, and I am still
with him. We really like eachother, and
couldnt be happier that we lost it to
eachother. You should be excited to do
it, espically if you really love him. I
hope that it all works out for the best
for you. <3
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 12-02-05 17:40pm
nightangel73
wrote:
wife2jason_mom2ryley
wrote:
nightangel73
wrote:
interesting thread
well my first time was when I was 31 year
old. I really wanted to wait til
marriage like a good christian but seeing
that marriage wasn't going to happen to
who knows when I decided to take the next
step. I met this gorgeous guy I fell
in love with almost instantly and since I
didn't had to worry about pregancy with
him (he had the big v) I was ready for it.
I think it is funny now but when he
started to get inside me I was thinking
omg this thing doesn't get in! Hahaha
it really was very painful and very
bloody. The second time I though the
worst was over but no I was wrong it
started to bleed so much I told him let's
do it in the tub. Then all the
bleeding and pain stopped and from then on
it was very enjoyable. Things didn't
worked out in the end with the guy which
hurted me for a little while but oh well
one has to move on. I had no regretts.
:)
why were you bleeding so much?? Was is
so big that he was tearing you or
something?? Your cherry can only be
popped once ( I thought ) so it doesn't
make sence that you were bleeding so bad.
Gosh, I feel sorry for you! I'm glad
that it felt better after a while though.
Anyways, I had to put my 2 cents in!
Lol!
God bless,
teresa
you know I don't know why lol. He wasn't
that large but he do was very wide. The
first time seems to me that the cherry
just didn't popped all the way the first
time. It was quick the first time so
that must have been the reason, should I
had more time having the sex I am sure all
could have been broken down that day.
Once it popped all the way things
definetly changed!
:d
lol! I guess that explains it! It
usually is quick the first time and most
girls are thankful for that! Lol! Well,
thanks for replying!
God bless,
teresa
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uhoh123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Posts: 27
Posted: 12-13-05 20:26pm
Orgy!
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uhoh123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Posts: 27
Posted: 12-13-05 21:45pm
Sry...No, my first time wasn't an orgy. I
just thinking discussing first times
publicly is gross and equated with an
orgy.
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realdeal4u
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2005 Posts: 11 Location: MS
Posted: 12-13-05 23:36pm
I was 13 my first time, though I don't
remeber it very much. No, I wasn't drunk
or on drugs. He was 17. I thought I was
in love and going to be with him forever,
but I was 13 what did I know back then? I
had been seeing this guy for about 8
months and my mom really liked him. She
let me go to his house and watch movies.
His parents were there which is why my mom
let me go, but they didn't care about
anything. We went into his bedroom and
came out shortly after. I don't remember
it very well because it was meaningless.
We broke up after about a year and a half.
We remained friends and still speak to
each other to this day.
Not much to my story. That's why I
recommend being older than 13 (more
mature) and being with someone that you
are sure that you love.
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uhoh123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Aug 2005 Posts: 27
Posted: 12-15-05 20:36pm
nightangel73
wrote:
interesting thread
well my first time was when I was 31 year
old. I really wanted to wait til
marriage like a good christian but seeing
that marriage wasn't going to happen to
who knows when I decided to take the next
step. I met this gorgeous guy I fell in
love with almost instantly and since I
didn't had to worry about pregancy with
him (he had the big v) I was ready for it.
I think it is funny now but when he
started to get inside me I was thinking
omg this thing doesn't get in! Hahaha it
really was very painful and very bloody.
The second time I though the worst was
over but no I was wrong it started to
bleed so much I told him let's do it in
the tub. Then all the bleeding and pain
stopped and from then on it was very
enjoyable. Things didn't worked out in
the end with the guy which hurted me for a
little while but oh well one has to move
on. I had no regretts.
:)
everyone should stop freaking out about
her bleeding. Everyone's hymen is
different, and she said that she was fine
after her second time. I bled the first
few times, and it was tight and hard the
first several, but that is perfectly
normal. Maybe she had more blood vessels
down there or her skin is a little thicker
that mine or yours. She's fine and I wish
her luck with future romance! :wink:
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munky23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 130
Posted: 12-18-05 18:53pm
All these stories are good...Too bad mine
isn't.
First the guy and I have known each other
for years, we started hanging out a month
ago and have an amazing connection like
you see in the movies. He wasn't a virgin
but I was (20 years old).
We wanted to wait to go on vacation to do
it, so it would be really romantic and
memorable. Unfortunately that didn't
happen.
We did it in his room.
It hurt pretty bad.
I was sore for days after.
In fact i'm still sore.
I haven't learned to enjoy sex yet.
I didn't even think it would hurt, I
thought it would be amazing the first time
cause of the level of emotion and
attraction I have for him.
Emotionally...Its pretty amazing. I was
in a 2 year relationship before him
without sex. Sex in a relationship makes
you feel really close to that person and
feel like there is something special you
share with him and no one else. I feel
closer to him than I ever did to my ex.
