Most Complic8d Sad Ending Posted: 10-16-05 12:51pm
:( hi, last year I met a wonderful
guy(ricky) who loved me like hell.So much
he was ready to do evrything for me...And
I fell wildly in lovr with him too.
But nasty envious rumours spread bout us
6 months later and we had to break. Since
we're both quite popular, we were the envy
of many girls and guys of our age.At the
start of this year ricky left me for my
worst enemy( say her name is rose). I had
told myself "ok ,am not worth a guy who
likes that kinda gurl" and tried to look
elsewhere but then he got jealous and told
me he still loved me. He wanted us to
remain friends at all costs.He often
reminisced bout times when we were still
together and told me so and I told him I
loved him still. But then he got angry or
sumthing and went back to that girl(rose).
Rose bullied me around when she saw me
and being very shy, I couldnt fight my
grounds so I just let her...
Recently he has left her and restarted
flirting with me but nothing happy lasts
for long and one week after he's going out
wit another ex of his.This ex too hates me
and is always spreading nasty gossips bout
me.A week ago they broke up and he
restarted flirting with me. Giving me
gifts,touching me, telling someone he was
still in luv wit me,luking at me
dreamingly...I tried to resist to his
advances but being a woman and still
having strong feelings for him,i fell
under his charm.
Wn he learnt I loved him still he got
angry again and now he's telling me to get
out of his life and dat I shud leave aside
all hope of eva going out wit him again!
I dont understnd men!!
And oh it hurts soooooooo much!!!!I duno
wat to do!!
He told me he'd went out wit rose only to
make me jealous but neva loved her but
that now he's planning to go on with the
famous ex.And I duno wat to do!!!!!!
I love him am sure bout that but does he
love
me too??? He's saying I shud cocentrate
on my studies bcoz am a 17 years old gurl
and I know he lovs me a little bit..Maybe
thats y he wants to leave me..He 's still
attracted to me but he wants to live a
playboy life?????Am all depressed=(
everynight I cry because of him and I get
flashbacks bout all the gud times we spent
together.....Please help me out... I wont
be able to get out of this alone!!! =(
are my theories true?? Can u give me
advice?????Shud I keep hope?
I got almost a dozen advances since then,
but I turned them all down coz they are
nothing to what ricky has been... And I
dont feel like seeing any guy's face ever
again apart from rick's.
A shattered-hearted 17 yrs old gurl...
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 10-16-05 13:02pm
I am so sorry--i cant offer advice though.
I cant understand why every time you get
close he gets so mad and pushes you
away--maybe his own guilt for his wrong
doings to you.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 10-16-05 15:09pm
Hi there! It does sort of sound like
he wants his cake and eat it too! I am
sure you have heard the saying that if you
love someone or something set him free if
he comes back it was meant to be, if not
it never was to be, or something like that
but it sounds like he is playing dirty
games so you just need to live your life,
go out with friends, other guys, enjoy!
Do not dwell on him! You will always
love him, but you might not respect him!
Maybe he is afraid of falling in love,
does he come from a divorced family?
Good luck!
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Kittykatus
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Posted: 10-16-05 16:23pm
Pure heart, I think you are wasting your
time with a very selfish boy. You have so
much love in your heart and if he can't
even hold that dearly then don't lose it
to someone who can't even handle a simple
feeling. You sound like a gorgeous, smart
person. Find someone that you really
love.
I know it hurts hunny, but I think it'll
feel better with someone who exchanges
feelings without discharging them
xx
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*Pure Heart*
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Posted: 10-28-05 08:20am
Thanks to kittykatus,sandyallen and
fatfamily02....
Thanks for taking time to advise me,
it touched me to the bottom of my heart...
It even made me smile... Something I
couldnt do for months...
But whateva happens I know I will always
love him....................Do u believe I
will get him back one day?
I know its stupid, but am keeping hope...
Its wat keeps me alive...
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 10-28-05 10:02am
I remember myself in the same situation
many times. My love is strong and deep,
I would wait for a long time for pple to
return. They sometimes did return and
touch my life again, but most times they
didnt. I do know the hanging on of
"hope" kept me alive more times than I
care to admit. I know exactly what you
mean, and I would not expect a true lover
to be any other way. If you know what I
mean. Without love what is there in
this world, and without hope to make it
float, there is nothing at all.
Just always listen to your heart--and let
no one make up your mind for you.
God bless you from the bottom of my heart.
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Kittykatus
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Posted: 10-28-05 17:28pm
God; it's like looking at my past
reflection...I thought I liked a boy
once...Well developed into a lustful
thing...I really wanted to date him and
once we did he changed then oh look he
f**ks off and then I thought I wanted him
back. I thought what if he'd change his
mind and what if, what if, what if...Then
I woke up and saw him for the health
questions he was...That and stuck my head
in a bucket of ice cold water...With ice!!
Lol
i don't mean your not good enough or
anything hun, but don't live in what if's
like me-it'll destroy you-it has to me
cause I always say what if on
everything.
Smile and do an austin powers- single
baby, yeah baby yeah!!!! Lol
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