Joined: 11 Sep 2005 Posts: 15 Location: Nowheresville, AR
How to Break It My Mom? Posted: 10-17-05 19:29pm
My b/f proposed to me like 4 months ago.
I love him and I know that we arent
rushing in to anything but I cant figure
out a way to tell my mother. She thinks
that im being silly by even staying with
him because he lives in california. I'll
admit it is hard for me because he's so
far but I trust him and I wouldnt ask him
to drop out of college just because I want
to be close to him. We've already decided
that i'm going to move in with him and i'm
going to start college out there next
year. I just dont want him to come here
for thanksgiving and then have to look at
my mom and I haent been able to tell her.
He wants to tell her but because im so
young she can make our lives miserable. I
want to graduate from high school here
with all my friends. I dont know what to
do. Can anyone give me some advice? How
can I tell her? Should I just wait until
he's here?
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overlyworried
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Posted: 10-17-05 19:46pm
Maybe you should wait and graduate with
all your friends. If he loves you that
much then he will totally understand.
You can also let your mom know that he has
proposed to you, but you're not planning
on rushing anything. Let her know that
your plans are to go to college in
california and that you would like her to
support you the best she can because it is
what makes you happy. Ask for her
blessings and do what makes you happy.
You can only live for yourself, nobody
else.
Congratulations, by the way. Hope
everything works out great for you :-)
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Edwardsgurl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2005 Posts: 15 Location: Nowheresville, AR
Posted: 10-17-05 20:54pm
How long have you been engaged? Or are
you married? Thanks btw. Edward is
great. I know we'll be ok. We've already
been through so much together and we know
that we have to put the lord first in all
of our decisions. Especially when it
comes to when and how we get married.
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overlyworried
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Posted: 10-18-05 08:12am
Unfortunately, I was engaged for about a
year and then the guy broke it off.
Then, we got back together about 5 months
later and have been dating for 4 years.
I don't know where it's going. I know I
love him, but I also want to get married
someday. I'm not sure he's ever gonna be
ready for it.
Sounds like you got yourself a great man!
The lord will help you through the
situation with your mom. I wish you
nothing but the best in all the years to
come.
Good luck! Keep me posted on everything
that goes on! And feel free to email me
if you need to talk :-)
Joined: 11 Sep 2005 Posts: 15 Location: Nowheresville, AR
Grr Posted: 10-20-05 18:44pm
I want to cry. Edward called me last
night and he sound like he was on the
verge of crying. This distance is killing
him and its tearing me to pieces. Its
horrible not being able to hug him and
tell him to have faith. He know it
already but I just cant help feeling that
it might help me to see him everytime I
say that. *sigh* I dont know. I feel
like if I dont see him soon i'll just
start crying. I bet I sound like some
juvinile girl with a ridiculous crush huh?
