I have been with the same guy for about 2
yrs, and we had sex over 100,000 times,
haha well ok maybe not that much, but my
question is, I only came once out of all
those times.
Is there something im not doing right,i
mean I try to play with my "clit" but
nothing's happening?
Any advice?
I need it!!! Alot!!!
-kelly
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Steve-O
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Texas
Posted: 10-22-05 23:21pm
Some women have difficulty orgasming...Or
it could be improper stimulation
try this on your own...
Push 1 or 2 fingers up your vagina and
feel around on the top for a wet, spongy
feeling spot. Stimulate that area while
rubbing your clit and see what happens.
Orgasms are also a mental thing. Do you
want to cum? Are you turned on enough?
Try lotsa foreplay and get really aroused
too!
(lol im a guy btw and I know tons about
sex :p)
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 10-23-05 00:28am
Unfortunatly women aren't as lucky as men
and we're not always sure whether or not
we're going to cum. It is part mental.
If you think about it too much and only
concentrate on that you're being
distracted and not enjoying what he's
doing to you. Women require lots of
foreplay. Try to postpone the sex for as
long as you can. Lots of stroking,
kissing, nibbling you know just total
teasing should get your worked up. And as
hard as it may be don't think about being
able to orgasm just enoying being with
him.
