Ok, I have a questionf or u all..
My g/f and I ahve been dating for over 6
months now..And had sex a few
times..Within the past few weeks.. Now,
I am 19 and she is 18..We both live with
our parents..She is a senior in h.S. And
I am a sophomore in college. Ok, my g/f
tells her mom we are not sexually active,
and I dno't like the fact she lies like
that. No I dont' want her to tell her
straight out we have sex, but I just don't
feel comfortable her lying. With this in
mind, do you all think we are too young to
be doing this then?? I mean if we still
feel we have to keep it from our parents!?
We both enjoy it and do it out of
love..Not just for fun adn stuff. That's
what I love bout her. And we can see
ourselves together for a long time.
Now, I am just wondering if neone else
feels the way I do..Or can comment on
nething!! Thanks so much!!
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overlyworried
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Oct 2005 Posts: 52 Location: Texas
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Posted: 10-18-05 08:26am
Chances are ... Her parents already know
that she is sexually active. If they
didn't, then she wouldn't have to lie
about it in the first place because they
would not be asking.
A big percentage of men and women your age
has already had sex, so I think she should
go ahead and let her mom know what's going
on. That way she could get on the birth
control pill or something of that nature
(if she hasn't already done so), so you
guys can protect yourselves.
If you & your gf are honest with her
mother, then she's going to respect both
of you more in the future - even if she
doesn't like knowing that ya'll have been
intimate. Good luck! :-)
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 10-18-05 22:32pm
I think that the best thing you can do is
discuss the issue with her.
